{"id":16185,"date":"2020-07-12T11:31:19","date_gmt":"2020-07-12T11:31:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16185"},"modified":"2022-01-09T17:15:20","modified_gmt":"2022-01-09T17:15:20","slug":"nao-preciso-de-amor-implorar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nao-preciso-de-amor-implorar\/","title":{"rendered":"Eu n\u00e3o preciso do amor que tenho que implorar"},"content":{"rendered":"

Pensei que nunca teria coragem de dizer isto, mas estou farta. Estou farta desta rela\u00e7\u00e3o, do teu quase amor e estou farta de ti.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s time for me to start putting myself first and it\u2019s time for me to stop begging for your love and attention. It\u2019s time for me to start respecting myself enough to finally tell you that I\u2019ve had it.<\/p>\n

E aqui est\u00e1 o que me vai ajudar a aprofundar o meu respeito por mim pr\u00f3prio: Aprofundar o respeito por si pr\u00f3prio e viver a partir da sua ess\u00eancia<\/a><\/p>\n

Sabes, sempre me fizeste wonder why I wasn\u2019t enough<\/a> for you. I\u2019ve tried to meet your standards and I\u2019ve tried to be the woman you wanted me to be.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve tried changing my looks and my personality just for you to like me more, but now I know that there was nothing I could to make you love me.<\/p>\n

Foi doloroso para mim aceitar isto, mas a dura verdade \u00e9 que love cannot be forced and it\u2019s not love if you have to ask for it.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

So I\u2019m here to tell you I don\u2019t need love I have to beg for.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t need a relationship in which I have to prove that I am worthy of your love.<\/strong> Because, I know my value and I know I\u2019ve deserved your complete love.<\/p>\n

You just couldn\u2019t bring yourself to give it to me and that is your loss. I don\u2019t need a relationship in which I constantly have to wonder why I am not enough for your love.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want a relationship in which I always have to chase you.<\/strong> E era exatamente isso que eu estava a fazer desde o in\u00edcio.<\/p>\n

I was chasing you to commit to me. I was chasing you to label our relationship. I was chasing you to put it on the next level\u2026<\/p>\n

And I was chasing you to love me. And that was the most humiliating thing I\u2019ve ever done.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t need love I have to wait for.<\/strong> Estavas sempre a deixar-me e a voltar para mim, como querias. Mas sabias que tinhas algu\u00e9m \u00e0 tua espera sempre que decidias voltar.<\/p>\n

I thought that your coming back to me was proof of your love, but now I realize that you don\u2019t walk away from people you truly care for.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t need a relationship in which I have to feel like I am pushing you to be with me.<\/strong><\/p>\n

With you, I was always the one initiating everything. I felt like there could pass days without us having a meaningful conversation and you wouldn\u2019t even notice.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want a relationship in which I have to ask for you to like me.<\/strong> Quando penso nisso, nunca gostaste do meu verdadeiro eu.<\/p>\n

Segundo o senhor, eu sempre fui demasiado sens\u00edvel, demasiado emotiva e demasiado carente.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

And while I tried very hard to change those things about me so you could finally like my personality, I\u2019ve realized that this is who I am and that I don\u2019t need to change for anyone<\/a>.<\/p>\n

If you had ever loved me, I wouldn\u2019t have to change the essence of my being for your sake. If you had ever loved me, you would have loved all of me.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t need love in which I have to beg for your attention and affection.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Estas coisas deviam ser naturais em qualquer rela\u00e7\u00e3o, mas tu fazias-me sentir como se estivesse a ganhar um pr\u00e9mio de cada vez que me davas migalhas da tua aten\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

I was never a priority for you, but you managed to convince me that this was the natural order of things. You\u2019ve managed to convince me that I had no right to ask for more.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t need love in which I have to make excuses for you.<\/strong> It took me a long time before I realized that love shouldn\u2019t be like this.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Recusava-me a aceitar que nunca me poderias amar como eu te amava. Era mais f\u00e1cil para mim estar sempre a inventar desculpas para ti.<\/p>\n

In my head, you were this busy man who simply couldn\u2019t find time for me.<\/p>\n

Eras algu\u00e9m que me amava muito, mas que tinha dificuldade em demonstr\u00e1-lo da forma correcta. Eu acreditava nas tuas mentiras porque queria.<\/p>\n

Queria acreditar no teu amor por mim. Mas agora sei que nunca me amaste verdadeiramente; s\u00f3 amaste a forma como eu te amei<\/a>.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t need someone who doesn\u2019t need me back.<\/strong> Apercebi-me que nunca fiz a diferen\u00e7a na tua vida. Nunca te afectou se eu ficasse ou se me fosse embora e isso foi o que mais me magoou.<\/p>\n

Quero mais e finalmente tenho a coragem de o dizer em voz alta. Sou finalmente corajoso o suficiente para me afastar de ti e nunca mais <\/strong><\/p>\n

olhar para tr\u00e1s.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Preciso de um amor que consuma tudo e que dure toda a vida. Preciso e mere\u00e7o aten\u00e7\u00e3o e compaix\u00e3o. Quero um homem que me ame no meu pior.<\/p>\n

Mere\u00e7o algu\u00e9m que me ame com todo o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o. Quero um homem que se interesse por tudo o que tenho para dizer, um homem que nunca me abandone no momento em que as coisas se tornam dif\u00edceis.<\/p>\n

I want a man who will believe in me, even when I don\u2019t believe in myself, a man who will be the wind for my wings.<\/p>\n

Preciso de um homem<\/a> que me ajudar\u00e1 a alcan\u00e7ar as estrelas, um homem que ser\u00e1 o meu maior apoio e o meu f\u00e3 n\u00famero um.<\/p>\n

Quero um homem que me ponha sempre em primeiro lugar e um homem que me ame, aconte\u00e7a o que acontecer.<\/p>\n

I want love I won\u2019t have to beg for. And I know I will get it, sooner or later.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Eu quero o tipo de amor que mere\u00e7o. E sei que este n\u00e3o \u00e9 esse tipo de amor.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Eu<\/p>\n

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I thought I would never have the guts to say this, but I\u2019ve had enough. I\u2019ve had enough of this relationship, of your almost love and I\u2019ve had enough of you. It\u2019s time for me to start putting myself first and it\u2019s time for me to stop begging for your love and attention. It\u2019s time…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":102639,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16185","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/I-Dont-Need-Love-I-Have-To-Beg-For.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16185","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16185"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16185\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/102639"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16185"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16185"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16185"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}