{"id":16216,"date":"2020-09-12T13:24:34","date_gmt":"2020-09-12T13:24:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16216"},"modified":"2022-12-05T16:50:00","modified_gmt":"2022-12-05T16:50:00","slug":"5-fases-em-que-todas-as-mulheres-sao-enganadas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-fases-em-que-todas-as-mulheres-sao-enganadas\/","title":{"rendered":"5 fases pelas quais todas as mulheres passam depois de serem tra\u00eddas"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Being cheated on is something that leaves scars on a woman&#8217;s heart. The pain she endures changes her. Consequences of cheating remodel her way of thinking.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-e-que-ser-enganado-nos-muda\/\">Ser tra\u00edda por um ente querido muda-a<\/a>A sua vis\u00e3o do amor e das suas futuras rela\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n<p>Ela sente que n\u00e3o h\u00e1 ningu\u00e9m em quem possa voltar a confiar. Eu sei porque j\u00e1 fui essa mulher.<\/p>\n<p>Fui enganado e isso <a href=\"https:\/\/www.elitedaily.com\/dating\/sex\/letter-to-man-who-destroyed-my-heart\/729122\" rel=\"noopener\">destruiu o meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> de uma forma que nunca pensei ser poss\u00edvel. Pensava que estava sozinho em tudo isso. Que ningu\u00e9m me consegue compreender. Mas eu estava enganado.<\/p>\n<p>H\u00e1 muitas mulheres na minha situa\u00e7\u00e3o e muitas mulheres que est\u00e3o a ler isto e que passaram pelas mesmas coisas que eu.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve realized that all women who <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/7-maneiras-de-a-mudanca-fazer-batota\/\">ter sido enganado<\/a>\u00a0passam por fases semelhantes no seu caminho para a recupera\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s why I am writing this\u2014in the hope that someone who feels the way I felt back then will know that things will get better, and that they will come out stronger from all of this but only after they go through all the stages:<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">A vida \u00e9 reiniciada sem a sua permiss\u00e3o.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-121469\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/woman-sitting-at-home-with-her-thumb-on-her-chin.jpg\" alt=\" mulher sentada em casa com o polegar no queixo\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/woman-sitting-at-home-with-her-thumb-on-her-chin.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/woman-sitting-at-home-with-her-thumb-on-her-chin-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/woman-sitting-at-home-with-her-thumb-on-her-chin-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/woman-sitting-at-home-with-her-thumb-on-her-chin-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/woman-sitting-at-home-with-her-thumb-on-her-chin-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/woman-sitting-at-home-with-her-thumb-on-her-chin-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/woman-sitting-at-home-with-her-thumb-on-her-chin-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/woman-sitting-at-home-with-her-thumb-on-her-chin-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Tudo mudou. A vida est\u00e1 a evoluir de uma forma completamente diferente daquela que alguma vez pensou ser poss\u00edvel.<\/p>\n<p>Sente-se como se a dor o consumisse e o futuro j\u00e1 n\u00e3o \u00e9 algo que se possa esperar.<\/p>\n<p>You don&#8217;t only feel pain because he turned out to be a jerk but because your dreams were not fulfilled.<\/p>\n<p>O importante \u00e9 perceber que a vida continua. Tinhas uma vida antes dele; ter\u00e1s uma vida ainda melhor sem ele.<\/p>\n<p>Realizar\u00e1s novos sonhos que te preencher\u00e3o mais do que qualquer sonho que tivesses tido com algu\u00e9m como ele alguma vez o faria.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Questionar o seu valor.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-121470\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/apathetic-young-woman-looking-away-sitting-on-couch.jpg\" alt=\"jovem mulher ap\u00e1tica que olha para o lado, sentada no sof\u00e1\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/apathetic-young-woman-looking-away-sitting-on-couch.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/apathetic-young-woman-looking-away-sitting-on-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/apathetic-young-woman-looking-away-sitting-on-couch-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/apathetic-young-woman-looking-away-sitting-on-couch-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/apathetic-young-woman-looking-away-sitting-on-couch-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/apathetic-young-woman-looking-away-sitting-on-couch-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/apathetic-young-woman-looking-away-sitting-on-couch-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/apathetic-young-woman-looking-away-sitting-on-couch-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Est\u00e1 a tentar dar sentido a tudo isto. Por isso, faz um milh\u00e3o de perguntas que o levam na dire\u00e7\u00e3o errada.<\/p>\n<p>You want to know what the other person has that you don&#8217;t.<\/p>\n<p>Perguntamo-nos se fizemos alguma coisa para o afastar ou se h\u00e1 algo que poder\u00edamos ter feito de forma diferente.<\/p>\n<p>When, in reality, him cheating on you has nothing to do with you. It has everything to do with him, so it&#8217;s time to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-deixar-de-pensar-demasiado-depois-de-ser-traido\/\">deixar de pensar demasiado depois de ser tra\u00eddo<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t waste your time in thinking about somebody who showed you their true colors. He clearly wasn&#8217;t &#8220;the one&#8221; for you.<\/p>\n<p>Stop analyzing his poor actions and concentrate on someone who truly matters &#8211; yourself.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Come\u00e7amos a construir muros \u00e0 nossa volta.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-121468\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/woman-looking-away-sitting-on-a-ledge-in-a-coast-town.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a olhar para o lado, sentada num parapeito numa cidade costeira\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/woman-looking-away-sitting-on-a-ledge-in-a-coast-town.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/woman-looking-away-sitting-on-a-ledge-in-a-coast-town-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/woman-looking-away-sitting-on-a-ledge-in-a-coast-town-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/woman-looking-away-sitting-on-a-ledge-in-a-coast-town-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/woman-looking-away-sitting-on-a-ledge-in-a-coast-town-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/woman-looking-away-sitting-on-a-ledge-in-a-coast-town-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/woman-looking-away-sitting-on-a-ledge-in-a-coast-town-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/woman-looking-away-sitting-on-a-ledge-in-a-coast-town-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He betrayed you. You feel like there is no man out there that can be trusted. You are becoming guarded because you don&#8217;t want to risk feeling all that pain once again.<\/p>\n<p>E enquanto <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/o-homem-que-faz-cair-as-paredes\/\">paredes<\/a> mant\u00eam-nos seguros, mas tamb\u00e9m nos impedem de encontrar algu\u00e9m melhor. Impedem-nos de encontrar o verdadeiro amor.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s why it&#8217;s important to realize that in the end not all men are the same. Don&#8217;t close yourself to the idea of love. Don&#8217;t miss out on love because of someone who was a poor excuse for a man.<\/p>\n<p>Arrisque-se quando um homem bom e honesto tentar conquistar o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o. Lembre-se de que o amor vale o risco e que o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 mais forte do que pensa.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Words don&#8217;t matter anymore. The actions count now.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-121467\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/serious-woman-standing-outdoor.jpg\" alt=\"mulher s\u00e9ria de p\u00e9 ao ar livre\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/serious-woman-standing-outdoor.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/serious-woman-standing-outdoor-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/serious-woman-standing-outdoor-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/serious-woman-standing-outdoor-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/serious-woman-standing-outdoor-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/serious-woman-standing-outdoor-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/serious-woman-standing-outdoor-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/serious-woman-standing-outdoor-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You heard him swear his eternal love so many times that if someone would tell you &#8220;Trust me. I only have eyes for you. I am there for you.<\/p>\n<p>I love you.&#8221; and similar, it would mean nothing to you.<\/p>\n<p>Your last relationship taught you a valuable lesson even if you hadn&#8217;t realized it at the time. Saying I love you is not enough if you don&#8217;t show it with words.<\/p>\n<p>You concentrate more on what a man does than on what he says and ultimately, that&#8217;s a good thing. You need more than empty words.<\/p>\n<p>Uma coisa que me acompanhou at\u00e9 \u00e0 \u00faltima fase foi o pessimismo. Fazia-me ver apenas a escurid\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>Para evitar isso, descarreguei e segui <a href=\"https:\/\/www.hypnosisdownloads.com\/motivation-inspiration\/expect-the-best\" rel=\"noopener\">Esperar o melhor<\/a> e melhorou a minha vis\u00e3o da vida em geral e facilitou muito a minha transi\u00e7\u00e3o para a fase 5.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Encontra-se a si pr\u00f3prio.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-121464\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/thoughtful-charming-woman-enjoying-beautiful-landscape-in-summer-day.jpg\" alt=\"mulher encantadora e atenciosa a desfrutar de uma bela paisagem num dia de ver\u00e3o\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/thoughtful-charming-woman-enjoying-beautiful-landscape-in-summer-day.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/thoughtful-charming-woman-enjoying-beautiful-landscape-in-summer-day-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/thoughtful-charming-woman-enjoying-beautiful-landscape-in-summer-day-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/thoughtful-charming-woman-enjoying-beautiful-landscape-in-summer-day-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/thoughtful-charming-woman-enjoying-beautiful-landscape-in-summer-day-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/thoughtful-charming-woman-enjoying-beautiful-landscape-in-summer-day-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/thoughtful-charming-woman-enjoying-beautiful-landscape-in-summer-day-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/thoughtful-charming-woman-enjoying-beautiful-landscape-in-summer-day-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A tua experi\u00eancia, embora indesejada e dolorosa, ensinou-te li\u00e7\u00f5es valiosas e fez-te conhecer o teu outro lado.<\/p>\n<p>It taught you that there is nobody you can\u2019t get over. It made you stronger.<\/p>\n<p>Tornou-o mais cauteloso no que diz respeito ao amor, mas ser\u00e1 capaz de baixar as suas barreiras se a pessoa que est\u00e1 \u00e0 sua frente for a certa.<\/p>\n<p>You don&#8217;t allow being cheated on to define your life. You learned your lesson and closed that chapter.<\/p>\n<p>Lembrou-se do seu valor, recuperou o seu <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/construir-confianca-central-vida-bem-sucedida-namorar\/\">confian\u00e7a<\/a> e <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/apanhar-o-batoteiro-nao-deve-ser-dificil\/\">seguiu em frente com a sua vida<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-121576\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/5-Stages-Every-Woman-Goes-Through-After-Being-Cheated-On-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"5 fases pelas quais todas as mulheres passam depois de serem tra\u00eddas\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/5-Stages-Every-Woman-Goes-Through-After-Being-Cheated-On-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/5-Stages-Every-Woman-Goes-Through-After-Being-Cheated-On-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/5-Stages-Every-Woman-Goes-Through-After-Being-Cheated-On-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/5-Stages-Every-Woman-Goes-Through-After-Being-Cheated-On-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/5-Stages-Every-Woman-Goes-Through-After-Being-Cheated-On-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Being cheated on is something that leaves scars on a woman&#8217;s heart. The pain she endures changes her. Consequences of cheating remodel her way of thinking. Being betrayed by a loved one changes her, her outlook on love and her future relationships. She feels like there is nobody she can trust again. I know because&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":121466,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29626],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16216","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-affair"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29626,"label":"affair"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/5-Stages-Every-Woman-Goes-Through-After-Being-Cheated-On-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29626,"name":"affair","slug":"affair","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29626,"taxonomy":"category","description":"If you want to learn more about affairs, here you'll learn about different types of infidelity, how affairs happen, how to recognize a cheater, and more.","parent":29620,"count":132,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29626,"category_count":132,"category_description":"If you want to learn more about affairs, here you'll learn about different types of infidelity, how affairs happen, how to recognize a cheater, and more.","cat_name":"affair","category_nicename":"affair","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16216","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16216"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16216\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/121466"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16216"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16216"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16216"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}