{"id":162451,"date":"2023-03-03T17:46:19","date_gmt":"2023-03-03T17:46:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=162451"},"modified":"2023-03-03T17:46:30","modified_gmt":"2023-03-03T17:46:30","slug":"coisas-que-as-maes-narcisistas-dizem-aos-seus-filhos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/coisas-que-as-maes-narcisistas-dizem-aos-seus-filhos\/","title":{"rendered":"50 coisas que as m\u00e3es narcisistas dizem aos seus filhos"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>\"Ningu\u00e9m quer saber do que tens para dizer.\"&nbsp;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\u201cThat never happened. You must have imagined it.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\u201cYou are overreacting.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Estas frases parecem-te familiares?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Lidar com uma m\u00e3e narcisista \u00e9 mais do que apenas suportar o seu comportamento exigente e controlador. <\/strong>As m\u00e3es narcisistas dizem frequentemente coisas ofensivas que afectam negativamente a sua autoestima e minam a sua autoestima.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>PORQU\u00ca <\/strong>eles fazem isso?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>To be in control and to take over every aspect of your life. They say hurtful things to make you question your worth and to make you feel like you don\u2019t deserve better treatment.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As m\u00e3es narcisistas dizem-lhe coisas que o magoam porque:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-everything-revolves-around-them\">TUDO GIRA \u00c0 SUA VOLTA.<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/Annoyed-mom-and-restless-little-daughter-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"M\u00e3e irritada e filha pequena e irrequieta em casa\" class=\"wp-image-162452\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/Annoyed-mom-and-restless-little-daughter-at-home.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/Annoyed-mom-and-restless-little-daughter-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/Annoyed-mom-and-restless-little-daughter-at-home-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/Annoyed-mom-and-restless-little-daughter-at-home-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/Annoyed-mom-and-restless-little-daughter-at-home-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/Annoyed-mom-and-restless-little-daughter-at-home-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/Annoyed-mom-and-restless-little-daughter-at-home-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/Annoyed-mom-and-restless-little-daughter-at-home-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>No mundo de um narcisista, a \u00fanica coisa que importa para ele \u00e9 o seu ego. Est\u00e3o convencidos de que os seus filhos n\u00e3o s\u00e3o nada sem eles:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>1. \u201cAre you trying to embarrass me here?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>2. \u201cYou\u2019re such a bad child.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>3. \u201cYou\u2019re so spoiled. You only think about yourself.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>4. \u201cIf I hadn\u2019t been so busy raising you, I would have had a career.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>5. \u201cYou are my biggest mistake.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>6. \u201cI can\u2019t believe I wasted my whole life on you.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>7. \u201cDo you know what? You are the most ungrateful child I have ever met.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>8. \u201cI try so hard to put your happiness first, and I get this in return.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>9. \u201cYou only did this to hurt my feelings.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>10. \u201cI gave up my life to give you a better one, and you do nothing for me in return.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>11. \u201cYou have ruined my life.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>12. \u201cYou should be ashamed of yourself.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>13. \u201cI sacrificed so much for you!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-they-don-t-care-about-your-feelings\">THEY DON\u2019T CARE ABOUT YOUR FEELINGS.<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/serious-woman-looking-at-distance-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"mulher s\u00e9ria a olhar para a dist\u00e2ncia em casa\" class=\"wp-image-162453\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/serious-woman-looking-at-distance-at-home.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/serious-woman-looking-at-distance-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/serious-woman-looking-at-distance-at-home-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/serious-woman-looking-at-distance-at-home-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/serious-woman-looking-at-distance-at-home-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/serious-woman-looking-at-distance-at-home-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/serious-woman-looking-at-distance-at-home-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/serious-woman-looking-at-distance-at-home-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Narcissistic mothers are so skillful when it comes to playing the blame game. They enjoy criticizing their children and playing the victim. They don\u2019t care about hurting their children\u2019s feelings because the only thing they care about is \u201cprotecting themselves\u201d:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>14. \u201cYou are so ungrateful. You never appreciate anything I\u2019ve done for you.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>15. \u201cWhy do you always have to make a big deal out of everything?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>16. \u201cYou should try being more like your brother\/sister.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>17. \u201cYou\u2019re so selfish. You never care about my feelings.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>18. \u201cMaybe you should try losing a few pounds.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>19. \u201cYou don\u2019t deserve to be happy.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>20. \u201cYou only think about yourself.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>21. \u201cIt\u2019s no wonder you don\u2019t have any friends.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>22. \u201cYou always look for attention.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>23. \u201cI don\u2019t understand what he sees in you.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>24. \u201cYou should take a lesson from your brother\/sister because she never disappoints me.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>25. \u201cYou knew I didn\u2019t like it, but you still did it to hurt my feelings.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>26. \u201cYou sound like a little girl.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-everything-must-be-done-their-way\">TUDO TEM DE SER FEITO \u00c0 MANEIRA DELES.<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/mother-scolding-teen-daughter-.jpg\" alt=\"m\u00e3e a ralhar com a filha adolescente\" class=\"wp-image-162454\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/mother-scolding-teen-daughter-.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/mother-scolding-teen-daughter--300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/mother-scolding-teen-daughter--1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/mother-scolding-teen-daughter--768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/mother-scolding-teen-daughter--960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/mother-scolding-teen-daughter--1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/mother-scolding-teen-daughter--1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/mother-scolding-teen-daughter--150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Tudo o que fazes \u00e9 <strong>ERRADO.<\/strong>&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tudo o que a tua m\u00e3e narcisista faz \u00e9 <strong>CERTO.<\/strong>&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>No matter what you say or do, it will eventually be used against you. Narcissistic mothers don\u2019t care about your preferences, needs, and rights. They say hurtful things to maintain control over you:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>27. \u201cYou should never wear this dress; it makes you look fat.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>28. \u201cIf you don\u2019t stop crying, I\u2019ll give you something to cry about.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>29. \u201cI\u2019m smarter than you, so you should listen to me.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>30. \u201cIf you ever do that, you are not my daughter\/son.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>31. \u201cYou always take it the wrong way.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>32. \u201cDo this now or you\u2019ll never do it.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>33. \u201cYou can\u2019t go there.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>34. \u201cI know what\u2019s best for you.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>35. \u201cYou can\u2019t wear that because I said so.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>36. \u201cYou know I know more about this than you.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>37. \u201cIf you listened to me, you wouldn\u2019t be in this situation.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>38. \u201cIf you wear that T-shirt, I\u2019ll be angry.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-they-are-master-manipulators\">S\u00c3O MESTRES MANIPULADORES.<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/young-mother-having-a-conversation-with-daughter.jpg\" alt=\"jovem m\u00e3e a conversar com a filha\" class=\"wp-image-162455\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/young-mother-having-a-conversation-with-daughter.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/young-mother-having-a-conversation-with-daughter-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/young-mother-having-a-conversation-with-daughter-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/young-mother-having-a-conversation-with-daughter-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/young-mother-having-a-conversation-with-daughter-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/young-mother-having-a-conversation-with-daughter-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/young-mother-having-a-conversation-with-daughter-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/young-mother-having-a-conversation-with-daughter-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Gaslighting, culpar, controlar e envergonhar s\u00e3o as t\u00e1cticas de manipula\u00e7\u00e3o mais comuns utilizadas pelos narcisistas. As m\u00e3es narcisistas s\u00e3o mestres da manipula\u00e7\u00e3o. Elas conhecem todos os seus gatilhos e sabem como fazer com que se sinta confuso e infeliz:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>39. \u201cDon\u2019t make a scene.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>40. \u201cThat never happened. You must have imagined it.\u201d41. \u201cGet over it.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>42. \u201cYou have a toxic personality and you simply can\u2019t do anything right.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>43. \u201cWhy are you being so dramatic?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>44. \u201cYou\u2019re being too sensitive.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>45. \u201cYou\u2019ll be sorry for it when I\u2019m gone.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>46. \u201cIt\u2019s not that big of a deal.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>47. \u201cI wish I had a son\/daughter who I could depend on.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>48. \u201cYou are overreacting.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>49. \u201cIt\u2019s all your fault!\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>50. \u201cNo one will ever love you with that attitude.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>If the majority of these sentences resonate with you, don\u2019t hesitate to seek help from your close people and mental health professionals. It\u2019s never too late to start the healing process!<\/em><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cNobody cares about what you have to say.\u201d&nbsp; \u201cThat never happened. You must have imagined it.\u201d \u201cYou are overreacting.\u201d Do these sentences sound familiar to you? Dealing with a narcissistic mother is more than just putting up with her demanding and controlling behavior. 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