{"id":162469,"date":"2023-03-03T14:06:56","date_gmt":"2023-03-03T14:06:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=162469"},"modified":"2023-03-03T14:07:04","modified_gmt":"2023-03-03T14:07:04","slug":"porque-e-que-os-encontros-modernos-nao-sao-bons-para-os-homens","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/porque-e-que-os-encontros-modernos-nao-sao-bons-para-os-homens\/","title":{"rendered":"Porque \u00e9 que os encontros modernos s\u00e3o p\u00e9ssimos para os homens"},"content":{"rendered":"

Breadcrumbing, double-texting, people pretending they\u2019re single, using fake photos, GHOSTING\u2026<\/em> Quantos de v\u00f3s j\u00e1 experimentaram algumas ou todas estas coisas, pelo menos uma vez, quando se trata de encontros modernos?<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n

I did, my friends did, my colleagues did, the friends of my friends did\u2026  <\/em>
<\/em>O que \u00e9 que isto nos diz?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

As aplica\u00e7\u00f5es de encontros e as redes sociais deveriam facilitar-nos os encontros. Em vez disso, tornaram as coisas mais COMPLICADAS e EXAUSTIVAS.<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Each one of us goes through different dating challenges in accordance with our gender. Here\u2019s why modern dating sucks for men!  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Porque \u00e9 que os encontros modernos s\u00e3o p\u00e9ssimos para os homens? <\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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\u201cOnline dating is like being a stand up comedian except that instead of boos or getting tomatoes thrown at you, you are greeted with radio silence. <\/em>Tem de estar preparado com fotografias que o mostrem como uma pessoa interessante, estar armado com frases espirituosas, piadas fant\u00e1sticas, boas hist\u00f3rias para contar, e \u00e9 repetidamente alvo de ghosting.<\/em><\/strong> And all of this isn\u2019t for America\u2019s next top model. This is for your regular girl next door. This also reminds me of that LinkedIn post where someone ranted about how companies should expect you to go through five rounds of interviews if they aren\u2019t gonna pay like Google or Facebook does.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n(Publicado por u\/nouseforaname888<\/em> no Reddit)<\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n

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U\/nouseforaname888, <\/em>we TOTALLY agree with you! It sucks to be armed with witty lines and great jokes only to realize that (some) girls don\u2019t give a damn about them. And there is more! Here are a few key points why modern dating sucks for men:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. \u00c9 uma treta pensar que as mulheres esperam demasiado de n\u00f3s.  <\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"Homem<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI need to have the hottest profile pic.\u201d <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI need to impress women with hilarious jokes and great openers.\u201d <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cMy profile and texts shouldn\u2019t be boring but also I shouldn\u2019t be trying too hard.\u201d <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Caros homens, isto parece-vos familiar? Aposto que sim. \u00c9 uma treta pensar que as mulheres esperam demasiado de si, porque esta \u00e9 uma forma segura de perder a cabe\u00e7a quando se trata de encontros.<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Because of this, many men don\u2019t even dare to text some women out of fear that they\u2019ll be rejected by them. One can never enjoy dating when they\u2019re convinced that others expect too much from them, and that\u2019s why modern dating sucks!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. \u00c9 uma chatice ser sempre a pessoa que inicia as coisas. <\/h2>\n\n\n\n

We can argue about this all day long but there\u2019s this unwritten rule that men are supposed to text first, ask out first, and so on. Bem, \u00e9 uma chatice ser sempre a pessoa que inicia as coisas!<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Esta regra n\u00e3o escrita traz consigo um enorme fardo e faz com que os encontros n\u00e3o sejam t\u00e3o agrad\u00e1veis para os homens. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. \u00c9 uma treta ser-se fantasma. <\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"Homem<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

This one is connected with the previous one. Given that men are \u201csupposed to\u201d text first, they are at risk of being ghosted more than women. And yes, it TOTALLY sucks to be ghosted! Imaginem um homem que passou metade do seu dia a tentar encontrar a melhor pessoa para abrir o Tinder, mas que acabou por ser ignorado.<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Not only once but over and over again (depending on how much time he invests in modern dating). I\u2019m sure that three to five ghosting is enough to shake your self-esteem and make you question your self-worth. That\u2019s why modern dating sucks so much! <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. \u00c9 uma chatice estar sempre a ouvir isso Todos os homens s\u00e3o iguais<\/em>. <\/h2>\n\n\n\n

And then, there\u2019s this famous sentence: All men are the same! Lord knows how many times a woman uttered it when she was disappointed in that one man who was either a narcissistic asshole or a manipulative player. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Noup, nem todos os homens s\u00e3o iguais e nem todas as mulheres s\u00e3o iguais. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

There are still some good men out there and they don\u2019t enjoy being called \u201cthe same\u201d. Just because some of you, ladies, haven\u2019t met one, this doesn\u2019t mean that they don\u2019t exist. Let\u2019s not make this dating thing even harder than it is, right?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. \u00c9 mau competir com outros homens. <\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"um<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Many men won\u2019t admit this to themselves and others, but they have this inherent trait that forces them to compete with other men. Do they enjoy it? Some men do but the majority of them DON\u2019T. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

As redes sociais e as aplica\u00e7\u00f5es de encontros levaram isto a outro n\u00edvel. The competition between men has never been stronger thus making men feel like they\u2019ll never be good enough for a woman they like. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Haver\u00e1 sempre homens que s\u00e3o mais bem sucedidos ou mais bonitos do que outros e os encontros modernos n\u00e3o t\u00eam piedade quando se trata de real\u00e7ar este facto. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

How can a man EVER feel confident about himself when he\u2019s virtually surrounded by thousands of other men ready to do anything to prove to themselves and to the world that they are more powerful, stronger, and so on?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ganhar coragem para entrar nas DMs da rapariga de quem gostamos nunca foi t\u00e3o dif\u00edcil porque sabemos que a concorr\u00eancia \u00e9 implac\u00e1vel. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. \u00c9 uma chatice passar de um extremo ao outro. <\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Os encontros modernos obrigam os homens a trabalhar constantemente na atualiza\u00e7\u00e3o das suas abordagens. Mudar de um extremo para o outro tornou-se o novo normal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Depois de ter sido repetidamente abandonado, um homem \u00e9 for\u00e7ado a baixar as suas expectativas e a contentar-se com muito pouco.<\/strong> \u00c0 medida que os seus n\u00edveis de confian\u00e7a baixam, ele come\u00e7a a ver as mulheres de uma forma diferente. Os seus padr\u00f5es diminuem significativamente e ele passa a ter medo de cometer um erro. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Infelizmente, cometer um erro no mundo moderno dos encontros nunca foi t\u00e3o f\u00e1cil porque as mensagens de texto s\u00e3o o principal meio de comunica\u00e7\u00e3o. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. \u00c9 uma treta ser-se amigo.<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"a<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Here\u2019s the truth: Every single woman has friendzoned a guy at least once in her life. With modern dating, friendzoning has become even more popular. Why?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Porque nunca foi t\u00e3o f\u00e1cil fazer friendzone com algu\u00e9m! <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you want to friendzone a guy, all you need to do is ignore his texts for a while and then let him know that you\u2019re only interested in being friends with him. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bem, \u00e9 uma merda ser friendzoned. Qualquer homem que j\u00e1 tenha sido v\u00edtima de um \"friendzoned\" sabe que ser \"friendzoned\" \u00e9 como ser posto na pris\u00e3o e ser-lhe dito para n\u00e3o se importar com isso at\u00e9 que algo mude. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Na maioria dos casos, NADA muda. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

E sabem o que \u00e9 mais mau?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"casal<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

All this pretending that modern dating is the best invention since sliced bread. I think it\u2019s high time for men to wake up and realize that modern dating brings more consequences than benefits to them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Porque \u00e9 que continuas a perder o teu tempo a fazer de comediante e a armar-te em engra\u00e7adinho quando as coisas PODEM e DEVEM ser mais simples do que isso?<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Breadcrumbing, double-texting, people pretending they\u2019re single, using fake photos, GHOSTING\u2026 How many of you have experienced some or all of these things at least once when it comes to modern dating?  I did, my friends did, my colleagues did, the friends of my friends did\u2026  What does this say to us? Dating apps and social…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":162478,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-162469","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/Heres-Why-Modern-Dating-Profoundly-SUCKS-For-Men-1-1024x683.jpg",1024,683,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/162469","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=162469"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/162469\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/162478"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=162469"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=162469"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=162469"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}