{"id":162482,"date":"2023-03-05T21:54:47","date_gmt":"2023-03-05T21:54:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=162482"},"modified":"2023-03-05T22:02:07","modified_gmt":"2023-03-05T22:02:07","slug":"porque-e-que-os-encontros-modernos-sao-pessimos-para-as-mulheres","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/porque-e-que-os-encontros-modernos-sao-pessimos-para-as-mulheres\/","title":{"rendered":"Queridas mulheres, podemos admitir que os encontros modernos s\u00e3o TOTALMENTE uma porcaria?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Homens que s\u00e3o T\u00c3O maus a enviar mensagens de texto. <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jogadores.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Homens que nos fazem pensar demasiado nas coisas. <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quantas de v\u00f3s, senhoras, j\u00e1 lidaram com este tipo de homens ou outros semelhantes, pelo menos uma vez, nesta era moderna dos encontros? <\/strong>Um a mais, n\u00e3o \u00e9?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019ve been thinking a lot about this matter and here\u2019s my conclusion: Modern dating SUCKS. Big time. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Porque \u00e9 que os encontros modernos s\u00e3o p\u00e9ssimos para as mulheres?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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\u201cOnline dating is like being a shopper at a bazaar in Istanbul. You are greeted by several guys who whistle at you, tell you they got the best Turkish carpets and can offer you Turkish tea to buy them. Some people try to win you over by throwing Hollywood song and dance if you\u2019re European or Bollywood song and dance if you\u2019re south Asian or Kpop dances if you\u2019re East Asian. <\/em>While it is fun to look for some cool items, it\u2019s exhausting to say no to several pushy vendors over and over again.<\/em><\/strong> Except, you can explore a bazaar for maybe a couple hours and then do something else that doesn\u2019t involve pushy bazaar vendors. Dating apps are constantly buzzing 24-7.\u201d <\/em>(Publicado poru\/nouseforaname888<\/em> no Reddit)<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

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It sucks to deal with men who push your boundaries and then accuse you of playing games just because you\u2019re not interested in them. And there is so much more! Here are a few key points why modern dating sucks for women:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. \u00c9 uma chatice ter de lidar com homens insistentes vezes sem conta<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"uma<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Some men can be really stubborn and regardless of what you say to them, they\u2019ll keep testing your boundaries. If you ask me, there\u2019s a special place in Hell for such men. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The more polite you are to them, the less willing they are to accept the fact that you\u2019re not into them.<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When you lose your cool, they accuse you of being a \u201ccareless bitch\u201d who only thinks about herself. Some men don\u2019t take N\u00e3o<\/em> for an answer and that\u2019s what makes modern dating so exhausting! <\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. \u00c9 mau lidar com os jogadores<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Here\u2019s my \u201cfavorite\u201d kind – players. They will text you day and night only to lure you in and then they will vanish into thin air. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jogar jogos quentes e frios \u00e9 o seu passatempo preferido. Eles arranjam desculpas, fazem promessas falsas e fazem exatamente o que pensam que vai fazer com que se apaixone por eles.<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Eles v\u00e3o-te dar um fantasma e depois obrigam-te a pensar que o mereceste. Lidar com jogadores \u00e9 uma das piores coisas quando se trata de encontros modernos, porque \u00e9 uma grande porcaria!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. It sucks to deal with men who don\u2019t know how to communicate<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"uma<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Apart from players, there are also men who don’t know how to communicate either virtually or IRL. Such men will bombard you with questions or write a simple \u201cHi\u201d waiting for you to continue the conversation as if you contacted them first. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Some men don\u2019t bother replying to longer texts thus leaving you on<\/strong> ler<\/em><\/strong>. Some of them force uninteresting conversations and don\u2019t ask the right questions<\/strong> (read: meaningful questions). Well, it sucks to deal with men who don\u2019t know how to communicate!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. \u00c9 uma chatice estar sempre a ouvir isso As mulheres s\u00e3o complicadas<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

As mulheres s\u00e3o, de facto, complicadas ou s\u00e3o os homens que complicam as coisas devido aos encontros modernos? It sucks to hear that your wishes and needs are complicated for men to understand when it shouldn\u2019t be so.<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n

I daresay that only low effort men use the word \u2018complicated\u2019 to justify their unwillingness to invest in their relationships. Amen. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. \u00c9 mau pensar demasiado em tudo.<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Queridas mulheres, sei exatamente como se sentem:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI\u2019m so sick of not texting back immediately so that I don\u2019t appear desperate.\u201d <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI\u2019m so sick of overthinking when he doesn\u2019t text back for hours.\u201d <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI\u2019m so sick of receiving unsolicited nudes.\u201d <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI\u2019m so sick of keeping track of who texted first in the last few weeks.\u201d <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI\u2019m so sick of overthinking whether his profile is real or fake, or whether my text message is too long for him to read.\u201d <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

It sucks to overthink everything and that\u2019s why modern dating SUCKS!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. \u00c9 mau contentar-se com pouco ou esperar demasiado<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"uma<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Is expecting them to reply to your every text (be it short or long) too much to ask for? Does keeping up with someone\u2019s bullshit means settling for too little? <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Modern dating is forcing us to shift from one extreme to the other. The word \u2018balance\u2019 doesn\u2019t exist here. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Somos obrigados a contentar-nos com muito pouco ou a esperar demasiado.<\/strong> Ficar repetidamente desiludido com as pessoas com quem se namora tamb\u00e9m \u00e9 muito mau.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. It sucks to pretend that modern dating doesn\u2019t suck<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

And do you know what sucks the most? It\u2019s the fact that we should keep pretending that modern dating doesn\u2019t suck at all. A S\u00c9RIO?<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Devemos continuar a perder o nosso tempo com os encontros modernos sem nunca questionar as suas consequ\u00eancias?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I don\u2019t enjoy it, my friends don\u2019t enjoy it, my colleagues don\u2019t enjoy it, the friends of my friends don\u2019t enjoy it\u2026<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Agora, podemos admitir que os encontros modernos s\u00e3o TOTALMENTE uma porcaria?<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Men who are SO bad at texting.  Players. Men who make you overthink things.  How many of you, ladies, have dealt with these or similar types of men at least once in this modern dating era? One too many, right? I\u2019ve been thinking a lot about this matter and here\u2019s my conclusion: Modern dating SUCKS….<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":162486,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-162482","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/Dear-Women-Can-We-Just-Admit-That-Modern-Dating-TOTALLY-Sucks-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/162482","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=162482"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/162482\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/162486"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=162482"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=162482"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=162482"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}