{"id":162489,"date":"2023-03-05T22:18:12","date_gmt":"2023-03-05T22:18:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=162489"},"modified":"2023-03-05T22:18:17","modified_gmt":"2023-03-05T22:18:17","slug":"maiores-erros-nos-encontros","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/maiores-erros-nos-encontros\/","title":{"rendered":"Voc\u00ea \u00e9 culpado de cometer estes 10 maiores erros de namoro?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It was just another Friday and I was getting ready for a date with a guy I\u2019ve been texting for a few days. The date went well (actually, surprisingly well contrary to previous dates) and I was looking forward to seeing him again.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>And then, right after a fifth date something changed. \u201cSURPRISE, SURPRISE!\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>He no longer called me or texted me from time to time just to see how I was doing and even when he did, everything seemed forced by his side. I knew that something wasn\u2019t right but I couldn\u2019t figure out what exactly was happening.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Passado algum tempo, as suas chamadas irregulares foram substitu\u00eddas por nenhumas chamadas. Eu estava sentada ao lado do meu telem\u00f3vel e a pensar em cometer um dos maiores crimes quando se trata de encontros:<strong> enviar-lhe uma mensagem de texto pela milion\u00e9sima vez, s\u00f3 para ser ignorada uma e outra vez.&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Depois de uma longa sess\u00e3o de reflex\u00e3o, tive uma epifania:<strong>&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Eu era culpado de cometer um dos maiores erros nos encontros, conhecido como tentar demasiado. <\/strong>(Ok, eu tamb\u00e9m era culpado de estar a agir desesperadamente).&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Are you guilty of making some of the biggest dating mistakes? It\u2019s time to find out!&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-1-playing-unavailable-games-for-too-long\">1. Jogar jogos n\u00e3o dispon\u00edveis durante demasiado tempo<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-thoughtful-girl-is-sitting-with-a-phone-in-her-hand.jpg\" alt=\"uma rapariga pensativa est\u00e1 sentada com um telem\u00f3vel na m\u00e3o\" class=\"wp-image-162494\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-thoughtful-girl-is-sitting-with-a-phone-in-her-hand.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-thoughtful-girl-is-sitting-with-a-phone-in-her-hand-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-thoughtful-girl-is-sitting-with-a-phone-in-her-hand-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-thoughtful-girl-is-sitting-with-a-phone-in-her-hand-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-thoughtful-girl-is-sitting-with-a-phone-in-her-hand-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-thoughtful-girl-is-sitting-with-a-phone-in-her-hand-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-thoughtful-girl-is-sitting-with-a-phone-in-her-hand-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-thoughtful-girl-is-sitting-with-a-phone-in-her-hand-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>I used to think that playing hard to get is a surefire method to grab the attention from someone you like. I thought playing unavailable games will let the other person know that I\u2019m not so easily impressed by suitors and that I&#8217;m a high value woman.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Bem, n\u00e3o h\u00e1 problema em jogar jogos indispon\u00edveis se isso acontecer apenas durante um curto per\u00edodo de tempo e se o fizermos da forma correcta <\/strong>(read: you don\u2019t overdo it). However, playing hard to get for too long is an absolute disaster and one of the biggest dating mistakes one can make.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Porqu\u00ea?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Because the other person will think that you were never interested in them in the first place and that you\u2019re only playing mind games. <strong>There are better ways to let others know that you\u2019re a high value woman\/man instead of playing unavailable games.<\/strong> Um exemplo disso \u00e9 definir os seus limites e manter-se fiel a eles.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-2-trying-too-hard\">2. Tentar demasiado<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\u00c9 sempre o primeiro a telefonar e a enviar mensagens de texto?&nbsp;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\u00c9s sempre tu que os convidas para um encontro?&nbsp;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Sente que precisa de se esfor\u00e7ar demasiado para conquistar a aten\u00e7\u00e3o deles e mostrar-lhes o quanto gosta deles?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>If you\u2019re trying too hard to win their affection, there\u2019s a reason behind this phenomenon. <\/strong>Perhaps you think that you aren\u2019t worthy of love and you need to try hard to deserve it, which is often linked with childhood traumas and demands adequate therapy.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Or they aren\u2019t really interested in you and you think that by trying too hard you will make them change their mind. If this is the case with you, here\u2019s what I have to tell you: <strong>Nunca, e quero dizer NUNCA, conseguir\u00e1 fazer com que algu\u00e9m se interesse por si ou lute por si se se esfor\u00e7ar demasiado.&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Trying too hard to impress someone is linked with desperation and lack of self-love. So, instead of putting all your efforts into making someone like you, focus on falling in love with yourself and you\u2019ll start attracting the right people.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-3-demanding-too-much\">3. Exigir demasiado<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-girl-with-long-brown-hair-sits-with-a-man-and-they-talk-over-wine.jpg\" alt=\"uma rapariga de cabelo castanho comprido senta-se com um homem e conversam sobre vinho\" class=\"wp-image-162495\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-girl-with-long-brown-hair-sits-with-a-man-and-they-talk-over-wine.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-girl-with-long-brown-hair-sits-with-a-man-and-they-talk-over-wine-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-girl-with-long-brown-hair-sits-with-a-man-and-they-talk-over-wine-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-girl-with-long-brown-hair-sits-with-a-man-and-they-talk-over-wine-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-girl-with-long-brown-hair-sits-with-a-man-and-they-talk-over-wine-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-girl-with-long-brown-hair-sits-with-a-man-and-they-talk-over-wine-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-girl-with-long-brown-hair-sits-with-a-man-and-they-talk-over-wine-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-girl-with-long-brown-hair-sits-with-a-man-and-they-talk-over-wine-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Do you demand to have dinner\/drinks paid by them? Do you demand that they help you with anything you\u2019re going through at the moment? Do you demand that they do what you say?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tal como tentar demasiado, exigir demasiado \u00e9 outro erro nos encontros. De facto, <strong>tentar demasiado e exigir demasiado s\u00e3o dois extremos t\u00f3xicos e, como tal, devem ser evitados.&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Keep in mind that the person you\u2019re dating is not responsible for your happiness, finances, and well-being. <strong>They can help you with things if they want to but you shouldn\u2019t demand that they do things for you, especially if they aren\u2019t comfortable with doing so.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Exigir demasiado \u00e9 a receita para uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o infeliz e pouco saud\u00e1vel, em que uma pessoa exige e a outra se esfor\u00e7a por satisfazer as suas necessidades em troca de amor e afeto. Quer estar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o assim? (E eu pensei que sim.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-4-thinking-you-have-to-have-instant-chemistry\">4. Pensar que \u00e9 preciso ter uma qu\u00edmica instant\u00e2nea<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Muitas pessoas pensam que devem sentir uma qu\u00edmica intensa e instant\u00e2nea logo no primeiro encontro. <strong>SURPRESA: <\/strong>Isso raramente acontece.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So, when you don\u2019t experience that instant and strong chemistry everyone is talking about in real and virtual life, you might not be interested in dating them any longer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Here\u2019s the thing with chemistry: <\/strong>Algumas pessoas sentem uma qu\u00edmica intensa num primeiro encontro, enquanto outras precisam de mais tempo para a desenvolver. A qu\u00edmica n\u00e3o \u00e9 algo que acontece sempre por defeito, mas tamb\u00e9m pode ser um processo.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Chemistry levels increase through eye contact, deep conversations, subtle touches, laughing and having a good time. So, thinking you have to have instant chemistry is nonsense and it shouldn\u2019t be a deal-breaker in dating.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-5-having-sex-too-soon\">5. Ter rela\u00e7\u00f5es sexuais demasiado cedo<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Having casual sex with someone you don\u2019t consider being in a relationship with is a completely different thing. But having sex too soon with someone you see as a relationship material is, undoubtedly, one of the biggest dating mistakes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Now, what exactly is \u2018too soon\u2019?<\/strong> There\u2019s this unwritten rule that having sex on a third date is absolutely acceptable. This isn\u2019t the case with everyone and, in my humble opinion, it shouldn\u2019t be. It takes time to get to know someone, so you shouldn\u2019t have sex for at least 5 weeks of getting-to-know-each-other.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Also, it all depends on how frequent your dates are. If you date once or twice a month, then the process of getting to know each other will be longer than usual. Here\u2019s another valuable advice:&nbsp; <strong>Forget about these numbers and unwritten rules but focus on how you feel about the person you\u2019re dating.&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Have you built an emotional connection? Do you trust them and vice versa? Do you feel like you\u2019re ready to have sex with them or are you anxious about doing it too soon?&nbsp;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Estas s\u00e3o as perguntas que deve fazer a si pr\u00f3prio antes de ter rela\u00e7\u00f5es sexuais com algu\u00e9m de quem gosta e que v\u00ea como um potencial parceiro.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Os 10 maiores fracassos em encontros | O MELHOR da Cartoon Box | Compila\u00e7\u00e3o de desenhos animados engra\u00e7ados\" width=\"720\" height=\"405\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/jzJDH0UIKsg?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-6-ignoring-red-flags\">6. Ignorar sinais de alerta<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-disappointed-girl-sits-by-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"uma rapariga desiludida senta-se \u00e0 janela\" class=\"wp-image-162496\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-disappointed-girl-sits-by-the-window.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-disappointed-girl-sits-by-the-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-disappointed-girl-sits-by-the-window-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-disappointed-girl-sits-by-the-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-disappointed-girl-sits-by-the-window-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-disappointed-girl-sits-by-the-window-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-disappointed-girl-sits-by-the-window-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-disappointed-girl-sits-by-the-window-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>When we like someone, we often ignore red flags and make excuses for their behavior. We do that because we\u2019re unwilling to admit to ourselves that they might not be that interested in us or we think that we can change their opinion.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Ignorar as bandeiras vermelhas nunca trouxe nada de bom para ningu\u00e9m e \u00e9 o maior erro de namoro de SEMPRE.<\/strong> Ao ignorar as coisas negativas feitas por algu\u00e9m com quem namora, est\u00e1 na verdade a prejudicar-se a si pr\u00f3prio.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Alguns dos maiores sinais de alerta de encontros s\u00e3o os seguintes:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\u2022 Second-guessing your feelings for them (which happens for a reason)<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\u2022 Being pressured to get physical before you\u2019re ready<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\u2022 Ghosting<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\u2022 Manipulations and mind games<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\u2022 Jealousy issues<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\u2022 Flaking out on plans, etc.&nbsp;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ignorar estas coisas e outras semelhantes resultar\u00e1, muito provavelmente, num desgosto e em muitas noites sem dormir. Por isso, fa\u00e7a um favor a si pr\u00f3prio e ou\u00e7a o seu instinto.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-7-becoming-official-too-quickly\">7. Tornar-se oficial demasiado depressa<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Tal como referi no sinal anterior, \u00e9 preciso tempo para conhecer algu\u00e9m, por isso, tornar-se oficial demasiado depressa \u00e9 algo que deve ser evitado. Geralmente, os casais tornam-se oficiais ap\u00f3s 2-3 meses de namoro.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>No entanto, quando se trata de encontros, nunca sugiro a ningu\u00e9m que se concentre apenas nos n\u00fameros. <strong>Some people will be ready to become official after 3 months of dating while others won\u2019t, and that\u2019s okay.&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Keep in mind that it\u2019s always better to wait longer than ruin things by labeling your relationship too soon in case you aren&#8217;t certain about it. It\u2019s always better not to make a dating mistake than to make one, right?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-8-having-unrealistic-expectations\">8. Ter expectativas irrealistas<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>A nossa perspetiva sobre os encontros \u00e9 muito influenciada pelos meios de comunica\u00e7\u00e3o social (filmes, can\u00e7\u00f5es, revistas, etc.). Por exemplo, quando vemos alguns gestos grandiosos nos filmes, esperamos o mesmo na realidade.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Well, that\u2019s how we enter the realm of \u2018having unrealistic expectations\u2019 of our potential partner. We think that they should behave the certain way, and if they don\u2019t, they\u2019re not the right person for us.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>The media and reality are two different concepts and it\u2019s high time we learn to differentiate between the two.&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The media is trying to sell us the idea of what a perfect couple\u2019s life should look like and the reality just reminds us of its unpredictability and the need for compromises, flexibility, and patience.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When you have unrealistic expectations, you become more prone to experiencing a syndrome called \u201csingle forever\u201d.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-9-asking-the-wrong-questions\">9. Fazer as perguntas erradas<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-girl-and-a-man-are-sitting-at-a-table-in-a-restaurant-and-talking.jpg\" alt=\"uma rapariga e um homem est\u00e3o sentados \u00e0 mesa de um restaurante e conversam\" class=\"wp-image-162497\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-girl-and-a-man-are-sitting-at-a-table-in-a-restaurant-and-talking.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-girl-and-a-man-are-sitting-at-a-table-in-a-restaurant-and-talking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-girl-and-a-man-are-sitting-at-a-table-in-a-restaurant-and-talking-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-girl-and-a-man-are-sitting-at-a-table-in-a-restaurant-and-talking-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-girl-and-a-man-are-sitting-at-a-table-in-a-restaurant-and-talking-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-girl-and-a-man-are-sitting-at-a-table-in-a-restaurant-and-talking-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-girl-and-a-man-are-sitting-at-a-table-in-a-restaurant-and-talking-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-girl-and-a-man-are-sitting-at-a-table-in-a-restaurant-and-talking-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Qual \u00e9 a sua cor favorita? Qual \u00e9 o teu filme preferido?&nbsp;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If these two questions are the only questions you ask your potential dates, then you\u2019re making another dating mistake called \u2018asking the wrong questions\u2019.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Para conhecer melhor uma pessoa, \u00e9 necess\u00e1rio fazer-lhe as perguntas certas que revelem a sua personalidade, as suas inten\u00e7\u00f5es, os seus planos futuros, etc. <\/strong>Knowing their favorite color doesn\u2019t mean anything to you in the long run but knowing what they think about cheating may come in handy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Focus on asking deep and thoughtful questions that don\u2019t require one word replies but extensive replies that reflect their mindset and personality. Asking the right questions is a surefire way to build an emotional connection.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-10-comparing-everyone-to-your-former-partner\">10. Comparar toda a gente com o seu antigo parceiro<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Do you have this (unhealthy) tendency to compare everyone to your former partner? If yes, then you\u2019re making a huge dating mistake.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Just because your current date doesn\u2019t enjoy playing video games or texting sessions like your ex, this doesn\u2019t mean that you should stop dating them. <\/strong>\u00c9 preciso tempo para se apaixonar por algu\u00e9m e compar\u00e1-lo com o seu antigo parceiro \u00e9 uma abordagem terr\u00edvel quando se trata de namorar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Actually, it means that you haven\u2019t moved on and that\u2019s why you look for your ex\u2019s trademarks in others. If that is the case with you, then you should take a break from dating until you\u2019re ready to meet people without the need to compare them to your ex.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It was just another Friday and I was getting ready for a date with a guy I\u2019ve been texting for a few days. 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