If you want another failed talking stage, another round of questioning what\u2019s wrong with you and rebuilding your self-confidence, go for it. But if you want to know why talking for months makes you feel miserable and without self-respect, keep scrolling down.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A excita\u00e7\u00e3o inicial e a consequente desilus\u00e3o, a espera constante pela sua aten\u00e7\u00e3o, o pensar demasiado e o sentir-se est\u00fapido por se abrir a algu\u00e9m novo s\u00e3o apenas algumas das reasons why I\u2019m done with the talking stage.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Some of you might say that the talking stage is necessary if you want to find true love, and you\u2019re right – but not if it lasts for half a year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n It\u2019s natural to want to keep the conversation going while you try to figure out if you\u2019re compatible or not. But if you\u2019re talking more than actually doing anything, it\u2019s time to take a step back and rethink your decisions. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n They can go hours or even days without texting you and you can\u2019t say \u201cWhere are you?\u201d <\/em>because you need to be polite and not stick your nose where it doesn\u2019t belong. So you go with the well-behaved \u201cOh, how was your day?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n Queres mesmo isso de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o?<\/strong> Spending endless hours thinking if you said something wrong, acted too clingy or if they just aren\u2019t interested in you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n That\u2019s why saying NO to the talking stage will let you clearly define what you WANT and DON\u2019T WANT from your partner. And you won\u2019t go against your principles. You owe yourself at least that much self-respect!<\/p>\n\n\n\n Use o seu c\u00e9rebro. Tem mesmo vontade de passar por outra fase de conversa que vai durar v\u00e1rios meses? Contar a algu\u00e9m a hist\u00f3ria da sua vida, traumas, coisas favoritas, o que o faz rir? S\u00f3 para ser tocado no final?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Vais-te apaixonar por outro \u201cI really love spending time with you but I\u2019m just not ready yet. Just give us some time and we will make it work. I promise?\u201d <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Ter respeito por si pr\u00f3prio significa valorizar-se o suficiente para fugir da pessoa que est\u00e1 a dizer isso. Nunca ser\u00e1s facilmente manipulado e magoado se trabalhares para os teus interesses e n\u00e3o para os deles.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Unless you\u2019re a hunter looking for self-sabotage and destruction, you better stop the chase.<\/p>\n\n\n\n1. \u201cI want this.\u201d vs. \u201cI\u2019m not sure I want this.\u201d<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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<\/figure>\n\n\n\n2. \u201cYou won\u2019t manipulate me anymore.\u2019\u2019<\/h2>\n\n\n\n