{"id":162547,"date":"2023-03-06T10:01:13","date_gmt":"2023-03-06T10:01:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=162547"},"modified":"2023-03-06T10:01:19","modified_gmt":"2023-03-06T10:01:19","slug":"coisas-de-que-deve-falar-antes-de-iniciar-uma-relacao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/coisas-de-que-deve-falar-antes-de-iniciar-uma-relacao\/","title":{"rendered":"7 conversas que precisa de ter antes de iniciar uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o"},"content":{"rendered":"
Verdade seja dita, se n\u00e3o prestar aten\u00e7\u00e3o a estes t\u00f3picos antes de iniciar uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o, esta ser\u00e1 definitivamente condenada \u00e0 morte antes mesmo de come\u00e7ar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sabemos que a honestidade e a comunica\u00e7\u00e3o aberta s\u00e3o a chave para qualquer rela\u00e7\u00e3o bem sucedida e saud\u00e1vel. Mas quais s\u00e3o os t\u00f3picos e perguntas reais em que deve ser 100% honesto? <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n
First things first, don\u2019t be afraid to ask tough questions because if you don\u2019t, the whole course of your relationship might be altered, unfortunately, in the wrong way. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Quem sabe, talvez essa conversa possa ser o in\u00edcio de algo bonito. Ent\u00e3o, porque n\u00e3o tentar? <\/p>\n\n\n\n
1. Qual \u00e9 a sua opini\u00e3o sobre poupar ou gastar dinheiro?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<\/figure>\n\n\n\n
You\u2019d be surprised, but money is the second leading cause of divorce. Why? Because a lot of people get uncomfortable talking about money as if it\u2019s some taboo topic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
If you don\u2019t discuss your money viewpoints early on, you\u2019re not going to figure out what you\u2019re not aligned on until it\u2019s too late.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n
So talk about equal say in financial decisions no matter who makes more money. If the financial decision power isn\u2019t equal it\u2019s going to bring up feelings of resentment or inadequacy. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Talk about short and long-term financial goals and make sure they\u2019re also aligned.<\/strong> Tencionam comprar uma casa? Como tencionam reformar-se e como est\u00e3o a poupar para isso? T\u00eam alguma d\u00edvida? <\/p>\n\n\n\n
It might be too much to ask for this kind of information, but they\u2019re definitely an important aspect of a relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
2. Como \u00e9 que mudou nos \u00faltimos anos?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Self-awareness is another important part of your relationship. Asking your potential partner how they\u2019ve changed in the last few years says a lot about them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A partner who\u2019s aware of their growth and feelings is a partner with whom you\u2019re going to have a healthy relationship.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n
A mudan\u00e7a \u00e9 constante, e aqueles que est\u00e3o conscientes das suas falhas s\u00e3o os \u00fanicos que podem um dia tornar-se uma vers\u00e3o melhor de si pr\u00f3prios. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Por isso, perguntar sobre o seu passado, os seus defeitos e o seu crescimento dar-lhe-\u00e1 uma vis\u00e3o clara do que pode esperar dele como parceiro. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
3. O que \u00e9 que conta como batota?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<\/figure>\n\n\n\n
Watching porn? Liking other people\u2019s posts on Instagram? Commenting on a girl’s TikTok? Talking to your ex? <\/p>\n\n\n\n
What\u2019s considered cheating? And how does this impact your relationship?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n
It’s not about what YOU feel you do is cheating. It’s about what your PARTNER feels about what you do with others. That\u2019s why defining what you count as cheating is one of the crucial parts before entering a relationship. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00c9 apenas um ato f\u00edsico? Um ato emocional? Ou ambos? <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Cada um tem a sua pr\u00f3pria defini\u00e7\u00e3o do que \u00e9 considerado batota.<\/strong> Once you\u2019re done with this conversation, you should be on the same page in terms of what\u2019s considered cheating and what’s not.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
If this isn\u2019t the case, don\u2019t ever proceed with the relationship because it might end sooner than you think. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
4. H\u00e1 algum segredo que devamos guardar para n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
H\u00e1 quem diga que a honestidade \u00e9 a melhor pol\u00edtica. Aproxima-nos e ajuda-nos a estabelecer uma liga\u00e7\u00e3o a um n\u00edvel emocional mais profundo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Others will say that some secrets should never be revealed. So how can you know what\u2019s the right thing to do? <\/p>\n\n\n\n
De facto, esta \u00e9 mais uma decis\u00e3o que deve ser tomada pelo casal.<\/strong> Revelar os seus segredos pode ajud\u00e1-lo a alcan\u00e7ar uma maior intimidade, mas, pelo contr\u00e1rio, pode tamb\u00e9m criar sentimentos de medo e desconfian\u00e7a constantes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
So what\u2019s the right thing to do? Comunicar abertamente!<\/strong> Defina os seus limites: deve haver limites e at\u00e9 onde devem ir? \u00c9-lhe permitido guardar segredos do seu parceiro que envolvam os seus pais ou amigos? <\/p>\n\n\n\n
If you don\u2019t discuss these things with your partner, secrets might ruin every relationship you start.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
5. As suas expectativas em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a mim ou \u00e0 rela\u00e7\u00e3o mudam?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<\/figure>\n\n\n\n
Namorar \u00e9 uma coisa, mas estar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o de compromisso e a longo prazo \u00e9 outra. Ent\u00e3o, como \u00e9 que a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o muda depois de se tornarem exclusivos? <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Are you hanging out more? Are you each other’s primary emotional support? Are you each other\u2019s emergency contact?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n
Going official brings up a lot of these questions. Some people like the way things are in the talking stage, while others expect a more serious approach once you\u2019re official. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
And both of those options are okay, as long as you\u2019re on the same page. But how will you know if you don\u2019t discuss it, right?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
6. Quais s\u00e3o os seus objectivos a longo prazo?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
O amor n\u00e3o \u00e9 suficiente. O amor n\u00e3o \u00e9 suficiente para que uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel e de compromisso a longo prazo funcione plenamente. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
We\u2019ve been told our whole life that love is all you need and it\u2019s not true. VALORES, OBJECTIVOS E ESTILO DE VIDA. <\/strong>S\u00e3o essas as coisas, para al\u00e9m do amor, de que precisa. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
It\u2019s not just about what you want to do this weekend, but what you want to do with your life. Falar de objectivos a longo prazo \u00e9 como jogar um jogo de xadrez. <\/strong>You\u2019re both looking ahead, planning your moves, and strategizing for the future. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
When you talk about long-term goals, you\u2019re discussing the moves and strategies for your relationship. You\u2019re looking at the bigger picture and considering how to make sure that your relationship is successful and full of joy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
7. Sexo?\u00a0<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<\/figure>\n\n\n\n
Sex. One of the most important parts of the relationship. When it\u2019s good, it\u2019s only like 20% of the relationship. When the sex is good, you don\u2019t care about it that much. You\u2019re not thinking about it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mas quando o sexo \u00e9 mau, pode ocupar 80% porque tem muito a ver com os nossos sentimentos e o nosso desejo real de estar com essa pessoa. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sexual preferences and experience aren\u2019t crucial, but they are important. When you love someone, you will selflessly adapt to their preferences, but only to the extent that your comfort zone allows.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
But what should you do when you have completely different preferences? And for one reason or another, you just can\u2019t adapt to them? Will the love fade? The emotional connection? Probably yes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Por isso, falem de sexo. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Don\u2019t Forget<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
I heard numerous stories of how people ended several years-long relationships because they didn\u2019t talk about the right things when they needed to and I\u2019m sure you don\u2019t want to be one of those couples. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
So what\u2019s the right thing to do? FALAR!<\/strong> Talk about the important things. Sex, finances, self-awareness\u2026Those are all things that will become a problem later on if you haven\u2019t discussed them at the very beginning. But asking those questions isn\u2019t enough. Don\u2019t forget to bring honesty with you!<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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