{"id":16263,"date":"2020-03-13T10:16:26","date_gmt":"2020-03-13T10:16:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16263"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:26:46","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:26:46","slug":"nao-esperar-conhecer-uma-mulher-deixada-para-tras","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nao-esperar-conhecer-uma-mulher-deixada-para-tras\/","title":{"rendered":"N\u00e3o esperes encontrar a mesma mulher que deixaste para tr\u00e1s"},"content":{"rendered":"

O que mais me impressiona no amor s\u00e3o as pessoas que deixam os outros para tr\u00e1s, pensando que v\u00e3o poder encontrar a mesma pessoa que deixaram quando voltarem. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ela estava sempre l\u00e1 para ti. Meu Deus, ela esfor\u00e7ou-se tanto para te fazer feliz. <\/span><\/p>\n

She did see you for who you really were but she always hoped that there was good somewhere there, living inside your soul. She thought that just by loving you, she\u2019d be able to make that good come to the surface. <\/span><\/p>\n

For so long, she was down just so you could be up. For so long, she didn\u2019t care about herself, she just cared about you. <\/span><\/p>\n

Durante tanto tempo, ela negligenciou os seus sentimentos s\u00f3 para poder cuidar dos teus. Ela fez tudo isto s\u00f3 para te mostrar que havia outro lado da vida para al\u00e9m do lado negro que tu vias. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ela fez tudo isto porque acreditava no amor. <\/span><\/p>\n

Independentemente do que aconteceu, independentemente do que ela fez, quase todas as suas batalhas foram in\u00fateis. Ela pensava que estava a lutar por ti, mas em vez disso estava a lutar contra ti. <\/b><\/p>\n

Vendeste a tua alma ao diabo. N\u00e3o te preocupas com ningu\u00e9m a n\u00e3o ser contigo mesmo. <\/b><\/p>\n

Eras a tua pr\u00f3pria prioridade e deixaste de acreditar em dias melhores h\u00e1 muito tempo. <\/b><\/p>\n

Nunca acreditaste verdadeiramente no amor, pois n\u00e3o? Mas mesmo assim fizeste o teu melhor, puxando o teu <\/span>manipulador sorrateiro<\/span><\/a> truques para que ela se apaixone por ti. <\/span><\/p>\n

Precisavas de algu\u00e9m que estivesse l\u00e1 para ti, precisavas de uma ilha de fuga, precisavas de algu\u00e9m que acreditasse em ti, por isso fizeste com que ela se apaixonasse por ti. Mas n\u00e3o tinhas inten\u00e7\u00e3o de a amar de volta, pois n\u00e3o? <\/span><\/p>\n

She waited for so long to see the love that she was giving to you returned back to her. And she could\u2019ve waited for a thousand years more and it still would have been in vain. <\/span><\/p>\n

Porque nunca foste um grande doador. S\u00f3 te preocupavas em tirar e tirar. Achavas que merecias tudo. <\/span><\/p>\n

But boy, you didn\u2019t. You only got her kindness and love and attention because she believed you were worthy of it. <\/span><\/p>\n

It took her a while to see you actually weren\u2019t. <\/span><\/p>\n

Quando ela o viu como realmente era, recusou-se a acreditar. Quando n\u00e3o mostraste nenhum tra\u00e7o de humanidade em ti, ela culpou o momento. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ela pensou que se ficasse ao seu lado s\u00f3 por um bocadinho, se lutasse mais por si, as coisas mudariam. Ela acreditava que havia um tempo para tudo neste mundo e que o vosso tempo juntos ainda estava para chegar. <\/span><\/p>\n

Mas passado algum tempo, era \u00f3bvio: <\/span>o momento era prop\u00edcio<\/span><\/a>, eras tu que estavas errado.<\/span><\/p>\n

Deus, esta rapariga n\u00e3o queria mais nada sen\u00e3o amar-te e ser amada por ti. Ela queria aquele amor puro, aquele que d\u00e1 vento \u00e0s tuas asas e te faz sentir invenc\u00edvel. <\/b><\/p>\n

Mas o que o seu amor fez foi mostrar-lhe que ela estava no fundo do po\u00e7o. <\/b><\/p>\n

When you turned your back on her, she still felt this immense love toward you. I mean, it would be naive to think that once you were gone, she\u2019d be free of it. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ningu\u00e9m deixa de amar sem mais nem menos. Ela investiu tanto do seu tempo e fez tanto esfor\u00e7o em ti que era imposs\u00edvel para ela seguir em frente sem mais nem menos. <\/span><\/p>\n

Even though you were toxic, you were still loved by her. We don\u2019t choose to whom we give our heart to. Well, in most cases we can\u2019t. <\/b><\/p>\n

Apaixonamo-nos e depois lutamos com toda a bagagem que adv\u00e9m do facto de nos apaixonarmos, se nos apaixonarmos pelo homem errado. <\/b><\/p>\n

Ent\u00e3o, quando partiste, ela estava a sofrer. Todos os seus sonhos e esperan\u00e7as foram destru\u00eddos. E ela ficou a pensar se todos os seus esfor\u00e7os tinham sido em v\u00e3o. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ela ficou a pensar se todo o seu amor teria sido em v\u00e3o. Ter\u00e1 dado tudo de si ao homem errado?<\/span><\/p>\n

Por outro lado, foi-se embora sem pensar duas vezes. <\/span><\/p>\n

You left as if the woman you were leaving could be find around any corner. But soon, you\u2019ll see how mistaken you\u2019ve been.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ningu\u00e9m, a n\u00e3o ser ela, se esfor\u00e7ar\u00e1 tanto por ti. Ningu\u00e9m mais te amar\u00e1 sem reservas, de forma t\u00e3o desinteressada e t\u00e3o f\u00e1cil. <\/b><\/p>\n

No other will put you on a pedestal and forget about herself. No other will care for you even when you don\u2019t deserve it. <\/b><\/p>\n

And then it will hit you. Then you\u2019ll realize what kind of a woman you had in your life. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sure, you\u2019ll try with plenty others but none of them will try as hard to make you happy as she did. <\/span><\/p>\n

Because none of them will be capable of loving you the way she did, and they won\u2019t be capable of loving you even on your darkest days. <\/span><\/p>\n

Quando se aperceber de tudo isto, ser\u00e1 demasiado tarde. A mulher que deixaste para tr\u00e1s ter\u00e1 desaparecido assim que desejares que ela regresse. <\/b><\/p>\n

Sure, she\u2019ll still be living and breathing but it won\u2019t be the same woman you left behind. <\/b><\/p>\n

She will no longer be naive. She will no longer allow herself to give all of her to someone who doesn\u2019t deserve her. She will no longer bend over backward for someone who gave her nothing in return. <\/span><\/p>\n

She won\u2019t be waiting for you, you know? She will have moved on by the time you realize what you had and lost. <\/span><\/p>\n

Porque mulheres como ela d\u00e3o tudo at\u00e9 ao ponto em que se apercebem que os seus esfor\u00e7os s\u00e3o em v\u00e3o. E quando se apercebem disso, quando v\u00eaem os seus erros, ganham ju\u00edzo.<\/span><\/p>\n

What strikes me the most are the people who leave others behind, thinking that they\u2019ll be able to meet the same person they left when they come back. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

The people left behind move on eventually. They learn from their mistakes. And once they do, there is no way in this world that they\u2019ll get back to the way they were before. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

But you\u2019ll soon come to realize this on your own.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

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What strikes me the most about love is the people who leave others behind, thinking that they\u2019ll be able to meet the same person they left when they come back. She was always there for you. God, she tried so hard just to make you happy. She did see you for who you really were…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":16267,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29639],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16263","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29639,"label":"understanding women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/saranny-him-576278-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29639,"name":"understanding women","slug":"understanding-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29639,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. Here you'll learn all that and much more.","parent":29638,"count":336,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29639,"category_count":336,"category_description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. Here you'll learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"understanding women","category_nicename":"understanding-women","category_parent":29638}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16263","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/56"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16263"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16263\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/16267"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16263"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16263"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16263"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}