{"id":16265,"date":"2020-09-13T10:18:16","date_gmt":"2020-09-13T10:18:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16265"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:12:44","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:12:44","slug":"rosas-chocolate-otimo-quero-algo-real","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/rosas-chocolate-otimo-quero-algo-real\/","title":{"rendered":"Rosas e chocolate s\u00e3o \u00f3ptimos, mas eu quero algo verdadeiro"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Sempre sonhei com um amor que nos traz chocolate quando estamos tristes e rosas quando vamos sair.<\/p>\n<p>Um amor que te ganha ursinhos de peluche e fica pegajoso com algod\u00e3o doce. Um amor que te d\u00e1 borboletas e te faz dan\u00e7ar de manh\u00e3 quando acordas.<\/p>\n<p>Mas neste momento, quero algo real. Quero que seja real quando tudo o resto n\u00e3o \u00e9.<\/p>\n<p><em>Quero um amor que me abrace forte quando a tristeza me despeda\u00e7a.<\/em> Um amor que tem o poder de me manter inteiro, um amor que resiste e fica.<\/p>\n<p>I want that love who will make me feel wanted even when I don\u2019t want to be around myself. I want that love to give me a reason to fight and hope it\u2019ll last.<\/p>\n<p><em>Quero um amor que me mime com lealdade, n\u00e3o com presentes.<\/em> I want to feel like I\u2019m the only woman in the world and to go to bed without wondering if I\u2019m good enough.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-119524\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/couple-standing-outdoor-hugging6.jpg\" alt=\"casal de p\u00e9 ao ar livre a abra\u00e7ar-se\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/couple-standing-outdoor-hugging6.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/couple-standing-outdoor-hugging6-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/couple-standing-outdoor-hugging6-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/couple-standing-outdoor-hugging6-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/couple-standing-outdoor-hugging6-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/couple-standing-outdoor-hugging6-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/couple-standing-outdoor-hugging6-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/couple-standing-outdoor-hugging6-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Estou farta de jogos e mentiras. Chega de me sentir tra\u00edda e humilhada com presentes que supostamente me fariam sentir melhor.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o h\u00e1 rosas suficientes neste mundo que possam preencher o buraco no meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o que a trai\u00e7\u00e3o deixou.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o h\u00e1 diamante suficientemente grande que possa esconder o facto de que a pessoa que era suposto ficar ao meu lado me traiu.<\/p>\n<p>E n\u00e3o h\u00e1 chocolate suficientemente doce que possa lavar o sabor amargo que a dor deixa na minha boca.<\/p>\n<p><em>Por isso, quero um amor que me mime com bondade e amor.<\/em> Aquele doce tipo de amor que afasta os meus medos e pesadelos.<\/p>\n<p>That love who will love my scars and love me for who I am. I don\u2019t want expensive dresses and fake compliments.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-119525\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/couple-in-nature-embracing.jpg\" alt=\"casal na natureza a abra\u00e7ar-se\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/couple-in-nature-embracing.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/couple-in-nature-embracing-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/couple-in-nature-embracing-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/couple-in-nature-embracing-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/couple-in-nature-embracing-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/couple-in-nature-embracing-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/couple-in-nature-embracing-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/couple-in-nature-embracing-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t want to hear how I would look better if I wore this and that. Because I love myself this way. I love my skinny jeans and my superhero t-shirts.<\/p>\n<p>Adoro as minhas sardas e o meu cabelo maluco e eletrocutado.<\/p>\n<p>It took me too long to love them as they are to let anyone take them away from me, to let anyone change any aspect of who I am, just because I don\u2019t fit into their mold of perfection.<\/p>\n<p><em>Quero um amor que me veja. O meu verdadeiro eu.<\/em> Quero um amor que veja o fogo dos meus olhos e o azul da minha alma. Quero um amor que veja a paix\u00e3o e o amor por detr\u00e1s destas paredes.<\/p>\n<p>E quero que esse amor os fa\u00e7a cair. N\u00e3o com palavras doces e presentes, mas com amor e carinho.<\/p>\n<p>Com ac\u00e7\u00f5es. Com um abra\u00e7o caloroso, um toque gentil e uma voz suave. Com honestidade e lealdade.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-119526\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/happy-couple-in-bed-embracing.jpg\" alt=\"casal feliz na cama a abra\u00e7ar-se\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/happy-couple-in-bed-embracing.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/happy-couple-in-bed-embracing-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/happy-couple-in-bed-embracing-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/happy-couple-in-bed-embracing-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/happy-couple-in-bed-embracing-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/happy-couple-in-bed-embracing-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/happy-couple-in-bed-embracing-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/happy-couple-in-bed-embracing-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em>I want a love that will stay. I don\u2019t want another fling with an expiration date.<\/em> I don\u2019t want another relationship where I give parts of myself to make the other person whole.<\/p>\n<p>I can\u2019t keep on rebuilding myself, picking up the pieces once they\u2019re gone and trying to make it through another heartbreak while they dance away with everything I gave them.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t want another give-and-take relationship. I don\u2019t want another game of power where I have to prove my worth and my love.<\/p>\n<p><em>Quero um amor que saiba.<\/em> A love who knows that when I laugh away the compliments, it\u2019s not because I want to insult them, it\u2019s because I\u2019m not used to them.<\/p>\n<p>Um amor que sabe que quando preciso de tempo sozinho, continuo a am\u00e1-lo. Um amor que sabe quando partilhar o sil\u00eancio comigo e quando me abra\u00e7ar com for\u00e7a.<\/p>\n<p>Um amor que sabe que estamos destinados a lutar juntos, a lutar e a amar juntos e n\u00e3o a esgotar as emo\u00e7\u00f5es e a for\u00e7a um do outro.<\/p>\n<p><em>Chocolate e rosas s\u00e3o \u00f3ptimos. Mas eu quero amor verdadeiro. Quero aquele amor eterno.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-119913\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/Roses-And-Chocolate-Are-Great-But-I-Want-Something-Real-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Rosas e chocolate s\u00e3o \u00f3ptimos, mas eu quero algo verdadeiro\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/Roses-And-Chocolate-Are-Great-But-I-Want-Something-Real-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/Roses-And-Chocolate-Are-Great-But-I-Want-Something-Real-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/Roses-And-Chocolate-Are-Great-But-I-Want-Something-Real-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/Roses-And-Chocolate-Are-Great-But-I-Want-Something-Real-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/Roses-And-Chocolate-Are-Great-But-I-Want-Something-Real-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I always dreamed of a love who brings you chocolate when you\u2019re sad and roses when you\u2019re going out. A love who wins you teddy bears and gets sticky with cotton candy. A love who gives you butterflies and makes you dance around in the morning when you wake up. But right now, I want&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":119523,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16265","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Roses-And-Chocolate-Are-Great-But-I-Want-Something-Real-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16265","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16265"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16265\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/119523"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16265"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16265"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16265"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}