{"id":16368,"date":"2018-03-14T11:26:44","date_gmt":"2018-03-14T11:26:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16368"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:56:19","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:56:19","slug":"7-caracteristicas-do-homem-que-a-vai-ajudar-a-curar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/7-caracteristicas-do-homem-que-a-vai-ajudar-a-curar\/","title":{"rendered":"7 caracter\u00edsticas do homem que a vai ajudar a curar-se"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A woman doesn&#8217;t need a man in order for her to heal but let&#8217;s be honest\u2014 he can actually help us get over whatever we went through in a matter of months, which is probably half the time we needed when we were going through everything on our own.<\/p>\n<p>But how can we be sure that he&#8217;s not going to break us like every other man did?<\/p>\n<p>Quais s\u00e3o as caracter\u00edsticas do homem que pode realmente ajudar-nos a curar, em vez de nos dificultar ainda mais as coisas?<\/p>\n<p>We can&#8217;t always be a hundred percent sure but there are a few traits that these special <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/10-types-men-not-worthy-time\/\">tipos de homens<\/a> todos t\u00eam em comum.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">1. Compreens\u00e3o<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Is there anything more beautiful than when a man is understanding and doesn&#8217;t judge you for what you&#8217;ve been through?<\/p>\n<p>O homem que a pode ajudar a sarar ser\u00e1 o homem com quem pode falar sobre o seu passado, sobre si pr\u00f3pria e sobre as suas n\u00f3doas negras, sem que ele a fa\u00e7a sentir culpada por isso e que compreender\u00e1 a sua necessidade de estar sozinha e a sua necessidade de tempo em geral.<\/p>\n<p>I mean, you can&#8217;t get over what happened to you overnight but it&#8217;s a long process that he&#8217;s ready to go through together with you. He understands you.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">2. Pronto para mudar por si<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>It doesn&#8217;t mean that <a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/blog\/media-spotlight\/201509\/can-you-change-your-personality\" rel=\"noopener\">you&#8217;re changing his personality<\/a> but rather that he&#8217;s ready to make a compromise.<\/p>\n<p>He doesn&#8217;t want you to go out hiking and\/or running when you&#8217;re not in the mood to, so he stays inside with you and makes you tea to watch some great series together.<\/p>\n<p>He&#8217;s ready to give up the things he loves, no matter whether you ask him to or not, simply because he wants you to see that he&#8217;s open-minded enough to do all these things for you.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">3. Lealdade<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>It&#8217;s the most important trait for any relationship but if you&#8217;re going to let him help you heal, then loyalty is even more important than usual.<\/p>\n<p>You want a guy who can reassure you that you&#8217;re good enough for him (because you&#8217;re even more than that), you want him to show you that you are more than enough and that you&#8217;re the center of his attention without a doubt.<\/p>\n<p>Keep in mind that a cheater can never help you heal because he&#8217;ll make you suffer even more.<\/p>\n<h2><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">4.<\/span><\/strong> <span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">Seguro<\/span><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>If you&#8217;re going to let him help you heal then you need someone who&#8217;s secure in himself but also a safe spot for you.<\/p>\n<p>You need someone you can go back to when your thoughts get wild and when your heart can&#8217;t be calm. This is the moment when you will know if <a href=\"https:\/\/www.elitedaily.com\/dating\/signs-he-loves-you\/1475019\" rel=\"noopener\">he&#8217;s actually loving and caring<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Isn&#8217;t security actually the most important thing about love? When you can feel safe enough to let someone know every little piece of you?<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">5. Prote\u00e7\u00e3o<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Women are gentle by nature and that&#8217;s why it&#8217;s nice if a man can be protective toward us when we can&#8217;t handle the world by ourself.<\/p>\n<p>Um homem que pode ajud\u00e1-la a curar-se \u00e9, sem d\u00favida, um homem com quem pode contar para estar presente e proteg\u00ea-la de outros homens (incluindo o seu ex) e de si pr\u00f3pria.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">6. Empatia<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>If you don&#8217;t have empathy, you&#8217;re actually<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/pos-namoro-com-um-psicopata-emocional-2\/\"> um psicopata<\/a>. So why would you want a man who doesn&#8217;t show empathy?<\/p>\n<p>If your man can help out a sick animal, a helpless old lady or feel connected to you to the point where he feels your pain as much as you do, then he&#8217;s definitely a keeper.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">7. Ama incondicionalmente<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>When your man loves you unconditionally, you&#8217;ll know that there&#8217;s nothing bad that can happen to you two that will make him leave you.<\/p>\n<p>He loves you unconditionally and he makes you believe in love again\u2014 that&#8217;s the man who will help you heal.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A woman doesn&#8217;t need a man in order for her to heal but let&#8217;s be honest\u2014 he can actually help us get over whatever we went through in a matter of months, which is probably half the time we needed when we were going through everything on our own. 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