{"id":16406,"date":"2020-08-14T14:34:03","date_gmt":"2020-08-14T14:34:03","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16406"},"modified":"2022-01-19T15:29:54","modified_gmt":"2022-01-19T15:29:54","slug":"se-amas-assim-tanto-a-pessoa-errada-imagina-o-quanto-amarias-a-pessoa-certa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/se-amas-assim-tanto-a-pessoa-errada-imagina-o-quanto-amarias-a-pessoa-certa\/","title":{"rendered":"Se amaste tanto a pessoa errada, imagina o quanto amarias a pessoa certa"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Sei que est\u00e1s cheio de amor e compaix\u00e3o. <b>Tu sabes o que \u00e9 o verdadeiro amor.<\/b> Sabe como amar e como se entregar completamente a algu\u00e9m.<\/p>\n<p>But, sadly, you\u2019ve been giving yourself to all the wrong people. You kept <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/5-razoes-inesperadas-para-continuar-a-atrair-os-homens-errados\/\"> atrair os tipos errados <\/a> . Eles usaram o teu amor e magoaram-te de v\u00e1rias formas.<\/p>\n<p>Havia um tipo que se destacava de todos os outros. Achava-o diferente e especial.<\/p>\n<p>Na verdade, ele esfor\u00e7ou-se muito para a convencer disso. Disse-te tudo o que precisavas de ouvir e fez quest\u00e3o de te irritar.<\/p>\n<p>Em breve, este homem tornou-se o centro do seu universo. Tudo o que fazias, fazias para lhe agradar, para o fazer feliz.<\/p>\n<p>He had become the sole purpose of your existence. You gave him your entire self \u2014 your body and your soul.<\/p>\n<p>Mas ele nunca retribuiu nada disso. A \u00fanica coisa que ele te deu foi o seu meio amor. Nunca se comprometeu verdadeiramente consigo, mas esperava que se comprometesse com ele.<\/p>\n<p>Ele era ciumento e voc\u00ea presumiu que essa era a \u00fanica forma que ele conhecia de expressar o seu amor. Mas mal sabia que, na verdade, ele era apenas um egoc\u00eantrico ego\u00edsta e controlador.<\/p>\n<p>Mal sabia ele que era t\u00f3xico e errado para si.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-114968 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/a-woman-with-a-downcast-look-and-a-hat-on-her-head.jpg\" alt=\"uma mulher com um olhar abatido e um chap\u00e9u na cabe\u00e7a\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/a-woman-with-a-downcast-look-and-a-hat-on-her-head.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/a-woman-with-a-downcast-look-and-a-hat-on-her-head-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/a-woman-with-a-downcast-look-and-a-hat-on-her-head-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/a-woman-with-a-downcast-look-and-a-hat-on-her-head-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/a-woman-with-a-downcast-look-and-a-hat-on-her-head-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/a-woman-with-a-downcast-look-and-a-hat-on-her-head-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/a-woman-with-a-downcast-look-and-a-hat-on-her-head-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/a-woman-with-a-downcast-look-and-a-hat-on-her-head-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Apesar de tudo, continuaste a dar todo o teu amor a este homem. Continuaste a justific\u00e1-lo, por muito mal que ele te tratasse.<\/p>\n<p>You were constantly looking for excuses for him, because you wanted to believe in his love. You wanted proof that everything you invested in this relationship was not in vain \u2014 that he loved you back the same way you loved him.<\/p>\n<p>Mas, acima de tudo, querias acreditar que ele era a pessoa certa para ti. Querias pensar que ele era o teu <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/40-sinais-dizem-que-uma-pessoa-e-para-sempre\/\"> pessoa para sempre <\/a> A sua alma g\u00e9mea, apesar de todos os sinais que lhe mostram o contr\u00e1rio.<\/p>\n<p>E depois de anos de dor, voc\u00eas separaram-se. Ele afastou-se de ti, como se nunca tivesses existido, e nunca olhou para tr\u00e1s.<\/p>\n<p>He wasn\u2019t there for you to help you pick yourself up again, he left you alone in your misery and in your suffering.<\/p>\n<p>Passou por muito nesta rela\u00e7\u00e3o, mas passou ainda mais depois de ele a ter deixado. Demorou muito tempo at\u00e9 perceber que esse homem nunca a amou de verdade, que voc\u00ea era apenas um brinquedo para ele.<\/p>\n<p>Claro que isso foi muito doloroso para o seu ego e para o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o, mas o que foi ainda mais dif\u00edcil de aceitar foi o facto de esse homem nunca ter sido o ideal para si.<\/p>\n<p>You wanted for the two of you to be destined and meant to be but the harsh truth was that he wasn\u2019t your Mr. Right \u2014 he was your Mr. Wrong.<\/p>\n<p>And you are pretty much OK now. You think you\u2019ve gotten over him almost completely. You have even accepted the fact that he is not your other half or your soulmate.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-114967 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/a-woman-with-long-blonde-hair-stands.jpg\" alt=\"uma mulher com longos cabelos loiros est\u00e1 de p\u00e9\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/a-woman-with-long-blonde-hair-stands.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/a-woman-with-long-blonde-hair-stands-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/a-woman-with-long-blonde-hair-stands-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/a-woman-with-long-blonde-hair-stands-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/a-woman-with-long-blonde-hair-stands-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/a-woman-with-long-blonde-hair-stands-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/a-woman-with-long-blonde-hair-stands-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/a-woman-with-long-blonde-hair-stands-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Mas tens a certeza de que nunca poder\u00e1s amar ningu\u00e9m com a mesma intensidade com que o amas.<\/p>\n<p>And I am here to tell you that you couldn\u2019t be more wrong.<\/p>\n<p>Podes pensar que sabes o que \u00e9 o amor, mas estou aqui para te dizer que vai aparecer um homem que te vai mostrar como \u00e9 ser amada.<\/p>\n<p>E quando esse homem finalmente chegar, am\u00e1-lo-\u00e1 mais do que qualquer outro antes.<\/p>\n<p><b>Se pudesses apoiar a pessoa que nunca te apoiou,<\/b> Imagina o quanto gostarias de algu\u00e9m que tamb\u00e9m te apoiasse em tudo.<\/p>\n<p><b>Se pud\u00e9ssemos dedicar tanto esfor\u00e7o a uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o com algu\u00e9m que nem sequer tentasse corresponder,<\/b> imagina o quanto gostarias de algu\u00e9m que tentasse fazer com que a rela\u00e7\u00e3o funcionasse da mesma forma que tu.<\/p>\n<p><b>If you could trust the guy who you knew wasn\u2019t trustworthy that much,<\/b> imaginem o quanto confiariam em algu\u00e9m que lutaria para ganhar a vossa confian\u00e7a.<\/p>\n<p><b>Se pudesses entregar-te completamente a algu\u00e9m que nunca te apreciou,<\/b> imaginem o quanto poderiam dar a algu\u00e9m que visse o vosso verdadeiro valor.<\/p>\n<p><b>Se pudesses amar tanto um homem que nunca te amou de verdade,<\/b> imagine o quanto amaria algu\u00e9m que <a href=\"https:\/\/goodmenproject.com\/featured-content\/7-signs-love-hesaid\/\" rel=\"noopener\"> ama-te de volta <\/a> .<\/p>\n<p>Se amaste assim tanto a pessoa errada, imagina o quanto amarias <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/encontrar-a-pessoa-certa-tarde-e-melhor-do-que-encontrar-a-pessoa-errada-agora\/\">a correcta<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-114966\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/If-You-Loved-The-Wrong-Person-This-Much-Imagine-How-Much-You-Would-Love-The-Right-One-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Se amaste tanto a pessoa errada, imagina o quanto amarias a pessoa certa\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1499\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/If-You-Loved-The-Wrong-Person-This-Much-Imagine-How-Much-You-Would-Love-The-Right-One-pinterest.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/If-You-Loved-The-Wrong-Person-This-Much-Imagine-How-Much-You-Would-Love-The-Right-One-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/If-You-Loved-The-Wrong-Person-This-Much-Imagine-How-Much-You-Would-Love-The-Right-One-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/If-You-Loved-The-Wrong-Person-This-Much-Imagine-How-Much-You-Would-Love-The-Right-One-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><!--codes_iframe--> <!--\/codes_iframe--><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I know you are full of love and compassion. You know what real love is all about. You know how to love and how to give yourself completely to someone. But, sadly, you\u2019ve been giving yourself to all the wrong people. You kept attracting the wrong guys . They used your love and they hurt&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":114965,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16406","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/If-You-Loved-The-Wrong-Person-This-Much-Imagine-How-Much-You-Would-Love-The-Right-One-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16406","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16406"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16406\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/114965"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16406"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16406"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16406"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}