{"id":16428,"date":"2020-07-15T08:40:24","date_gmt":"2020-07-15T08:40:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16428"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:05:25","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:05:25","slug":"para-o-meu-melhor-amigo-com-o-coracao-partido-a-culpa-nao-foi-tua","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/para-o-meu-melhor-amigo-com-o-coracao-partido-a-culpa-nao-foi-tua\/","title":{"rendered":"Para o meu melhor amigo com o cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido: A culpa n\u00e3o foi tua"},"content":{"rendered":"

A minha querida amiga,<\/i><\/b><\/a><\/p>\n

Seeing you crying over someone who doesn\u2019t deserve you hurts me more than you can imagine.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t understand how life is so unfair and how it always sends the wrong people to the good ones.<\/p>\n

I know that you were one of those less lucky girls who had to go through a heartbreak but there is something I want you to know: It wasn\u2019t even your fault.<\/p>\n

Tudo girava em torno dele o tempo todo.<\/i><\/b> He was the one who didn\u2019t want to put in any effort for the two of you. He was the one who cheated on you and he was the bad one.<\/p>\n

So, stop wondering if you could have done some things differently because even if you gave your best it still wouldn\u2019t have been enough to him.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t you dare think that you aren\u2019t worthy or enough. Don\u2019t listen to his toxic stories to win you back.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t deserve to be with a jerk like him. I am sure that once your heart heals, you will be able to find someone who will make all the pain go away.<\/p>\n

H\u00e1 um homem que te estimar\u00e1 como eu e que nunca te tomar\u00e1 por garantida<\/i><\/b>.<\/b> So, please don\u2019t waste your tears on someone who couldn\u2019t even fight for you.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t turn those pearls from your eyes into mud.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t cry over someone who was a coward to not even admit that<\/i><\/b> he didn\u2019t love you anymore<\/i><\/b><\/a> . Ele f\u00ea-lo de uma forma diferente, dormindo com outra rapariga e certificando-se de que tu descobrias isso.<\/p>\n

Este ato s\u00f3 mostra como ele \u00e9 ego\u00edsta e cruel. Eu sei que o amavas e sei que ele era o mundo para ti, mas ele \u00e9 apenas um narcisista disfar\u00e7ado.<\/p>\n

He is an emotional vampire who doesn\u2019t know to make himself happy but he needs to suck other people\u2019s energy out. And that was what he did to you.<\/p>\n

Ele sugou-te. Sugou-vos at\u00e9 \u00e0 exaust\u00e3o. Espancou-te at\u00e9 \u00e0 morte emocional. <\/i><\/b> E depois passou para outra v\u00edtima.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

I know that you can\u2019t understand my words right now because there are thoughts that just keep rushing through your head.<\/p>\n

Mas quando as coisas acalmarem, v\u00e3o perceber do que eu estava a falar o tempo todo.<\/p>\n

Por isso, se ouvires alguma coisa que saia da minha boca, quero que pares de chorar por ele.<\/i><\/b> Mant\u00e9m a cabe\u00e7a erguida e enxuga as l\u00e1grimas.<\/p>\n

You are way stronger than a man who couldn\u2019t even admit that he stopped loving you. You have love for the whole world and he doesn\u2019t know what he is missing.<\/p>\n

Mas quando ele ficar sozinho, vai perceber o que perdeu quando a deixou ir.<\/p>\n

Ele ver\u00e1 que nenhuma mulher \u00e9 como voc\u00ea e que ningu\u00e9m o amar\u00e1 como voc\u00ea o amou. Tentar\u00e1 encontr\u00e1-la em todas as outras raparigas, mas nunca o conseguir\u00e1 fazer. E, no final, ficar\u00e1 sozinho e triste por a ter deixado escapar t\u00e3o facilmente.<\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

E tu?<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Sei que \u00e9s inteligente e que vais seguir em frente. Deix\u00e1-lo-\u00e1 orgulhosamente para tr\u00e1s e a \u00fanica vez que olhar\u00e1 para tr\u00e1s ser\u00e1 para ver at\u00e9 onde chegou.<\/p>\n

You won\u2019t suffer about him anymore and you will start a new chapter of your life. And when you stay alone, you will realize that he actually helped you.<\/p>\n

A man you cursed so much helped you to realize how not to treat a lady. He made you realize that you deserve the world and that you shouldn\u2019t settle for less than you deserve.<\/p>\n

Por isso, v\u00e1 em frente, aproveite a vida e fa\u00e7a algu\u00e9m feliz. \u00c9 o que fazes de melhor e tenho a certeza de que um homem a s\u00e9rio vai apreciar isso.<\/p>\n

Querida, s\u00f3 espero que a pessoa certa te estime tanto como eu!<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\"Para<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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