{"id":1643,"date":"2020-04-21T09:57:57","date_gmt":"2020-04-21T09:57:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=1643"},"modified":"2022-02-07T10:57:43","modified_gmt":"2022-02-07T10:57:43","slug":"os-homens-estao-a-ganhar-vantagem-na-fase-inicial","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/os-homens-estao-a-ganhar-vantagem-na-fase-inicial\/","title":{"rendered":"Porque \u00e9 que os homens se afastam nas fases iniciais"},"content":{"rendered":"

O que \u00e9 que se passa com o sexo \"forte\"? \u00c0s vezes parece que fogem de tudo t\u00e3o facilmente.<\/p>\n

\u2026 and they call women the weaker sex\u2026<\/p>\n

Compreender os homens<\/a> can sometimes be harder than understanding women, but we don\u2019t complain that much, do we?<\/p>\n

It\u2019s just that we\u2019re left wondering what the hell went wrong for the rest of our lives more than we should, but it\u2019s not that big of a deal.<\/p>\n

A quest\u00e3o aqui \u00e9: Porque \u00e9 que os homens se afastam<\/a> nas fases iniciais? Porque \u00e9 que \u00e9 tudo arco-\u00edris e luz do sol durante algum tempo e, de repente, fica tudo em branco?<\/p>\n

O que \u00e9 que aconteceu? <\/em>Let\u2019s imagine you were on a date or it\u2019s been a few dates now and he seemed OK-ish or even as if he had a great time and then he disappeared. No phone call, no text, not a sound from him.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not that you ficou demasiado pegajoso<\/a>; you didn\u2019t have the time to. It can\u2019t be that you read the signs wrong; you\u2019ve been out there for a while already and you know dating.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not that your clothes were too much; we\u2019ve passed that period a long time ago.<\/p>\n

1. He pulled away because you didn\u2019t really click<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

At first, one may think \u2018this is it\u2019, but there must\u2019ve been something different happening in his head.<\/p>\n

He might appear as if he\u2019s interested and then he changed his mind all of a sudden, but didn\u2019t bother telling you.<\/p>\n

2. He pulled away because he didn\u2019t like you<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

N\u00f3s, humanos, temos tend\u00eancia para criar coisas na nossa cabe\u00e7a que n\u00e3o existem na realidade.<\/p>\n

Talvez tenha gostado de si, mas n\u00e3o o suficiente para ter uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o consigo. Quantas vezes a tua imagina\u00e7\u00e3o j\u00e1 arruinou tudo?<\/p>\n

You saw things way better than they actually were. He didn\u2019t fancy you as relationship material and you stated clearly that you didn\u2019t want to be friendzoned, so now you\u2019re nowhere.<\/p>\n

3. Afastou-se porque o seu entusiasmo desapareceu<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Pode ser que ele tenha esperado pelo momento perfeito (e voc\u00ea tinha-o mesmo), mas passado algum tempo, o seu entusiasmo desapareceu.<\/p>\n

He didn\u2019t feel as thrilled to see you como no in\u00edcio<\/a>. He wasn\u2019t into going on dates with you and he didn\u2019t want to spend any more time with you.<\/p>\n

When that \u2018whatever\u2019 feeling got to him, he decided to disappear as well.<\/p>\n

4. He pulled away because he\u2019s scared of you<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Homens, assustados, como se?! <\/em>You have to admit, it\u2019s the age of Wonder Woman and you might be way out of his league.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o tem problemas em manter-se e as \u00fanicas coisas que precisa dele s\u00e3o respeito e amor.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re not dependent on him and you wouldn\u2019t be under any circumstances.<\/p>\n

It could be the case that he doesn\u2019t know how to behave or how to handle such a strong female, so he\u2019s left with only one option\u2014to pull away.<\/p>\n

In his head, it\u2019s better to leave without a word than to stay embarrassed. It\u2019s a poor decision, but there is nothing you can do about it.<\/p>\n

5. Afastou-se porque n\u00e3o existe uma base comum<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

You\u2019re just from two different planets and it\u2019s hard to find any similarities.<\/p>\n

You listen to Adam Levine, while he\u2019s more of a country type, or you enjoy jumping into unknown situations and discovering new things by yourself, while he\u2019s a \u2018play-it-safe\u2019 type of a guy.<\/p>\n

Normalmente, os opostos atraem-se<\/a>, but it\u2019s not a must. It could be that in your case, the scenario was totally different and there was no other option for him but to pull away.<\/p>\n

The truth is, it would be way less painful if you\u2019d had closure or a final goodbye.<\/p>\n

It would\u2019ve saved you from wondering what went wrong. Maybe it\u2019s not about the pain, but more about what is decent.<\/p>\n

6. He pulled away because he\u2019s too anxious to put himself out there<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

It may sound incredible, but people are fighting their anxiety on a daily basis and sometimes it\u2019s just too much to handle.<\/p>\n

You are an incredible person and he did the best he could to get you to go out on a date with him, but it\u2019s way too much stress for him.<\/p>\n

Although he\u2019d love to continue whatever the two of you started, it\u2019s much easier for him to just give up.<\/p>\n

7. He pulled away because he\u2019s a player<\/h2>\n

\"homem
\nAnd that\u2019s what players do. He got you interested and now he wants you to chase him.<\/p>\n

Ele quer que lhe telefones, que te perguntes onde est\u00e1 e porque n\u00e3o responde.<\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t do anything wrong, it\u2019s just the way he is and the best thing you can possibly do is to just leave the things as they are.<\/p>\n

8. He pulled away because he\u2019s a filho da puta<\/a><\/h2>\n

\"Homem<\/p>\n

Ele nunca planeou nada s\u00e9rio consigo<\/a>Ele s\u00f3 queria ter uma fase contigo e depois passar para a pr\u00f3xima v\u00edtima.<\/p>\n

Este tipo de homens nunca se estabelece, mas pior do que isso, quando partem, partem sem dar uma conclus\u00e3o.
\nEsta pode ser a raz\u00e3o pela qual se afastou numa fase inicial.<\/p>\n

9. Ele afastou-se porque conseguiu o que queria<\/h2>\n

\"foto<\/p>\n

Nobody\u2019s judging, it\u2019s up to you how far you want to go. If he got what he wanted, that might be the reason he pulled away in the early stages.<\/p>\n

He\u2019d do it the moment he got what he wanted, regardless of how long you decided to wait.<\/p>\n

10. Ele afastou-se porque tem medo de ser usado<\/h2>\n

\"homem
\nPode dar-se o caso de nunca se ter oferecido para pagar nada ou de ter dito que esperava que fosse ele a pagar tudo.<\/p>\n

Also, if you said that you expected the guys you date to spoil you and to often buy you gifts so they\u2019d get boyfriend privileges, no wonder he pulled away.<\/p>\n

11. He pulled away because he didn\u2019t want to get broken again<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Talvez lhe tenha aparecido como uma mulher fatal e ele tenha visto que estava a olhar para ele apenas como uma ferramenta para conseguir o que queria.<\/p>\n

Enquanto ele andava \u00e0 procura da sua alma g\u00e9mea, tu parecias ser uma dessas women who doesn\u2019t settle<\/a> and he realized he\u2019d only get broken if he spent more time with you.<\/p>\n

12. Afastou-se porque ficou com medo das expectativas<\/h2>\n

\"fotografia<\/p>\n

Talvez ele seja mais um f\u00e3 de um namoro<\/a> do que uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o. E talvez ele quisesse manter as coisas picantes, mas nunca quisesse comprometer-se verdadeiramente.<\/p>\n

With commitment comes big responsibilities and certain expectations he\u2019d have to fulfill as your boyfriend and in most cases, men run away from those kinds of things.<\/p>\n

Whatever the reason may be, you at least deserved an explanation. He shouldn\u2019t have left you wondering what went wrong and he should\u2019ve had the decency to be upfront.<\/p>\n

So don\u2019t you dare blame yourself or spend endless nights wondering what went wrong.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s time to stop questioning what YOU did wrong and understand that it can\u2019t be your fault when he didn\u2019t even give you two a chance. If he pulled away in the early stages, it\u2019s his loss, not yours.<\/p>\n

He didn\u2019t get to know you well enough because he decided to give up early.<\/p>\n

Deixou-nos a pensar no que ter\u00e1 corrido mal e passamos horas a rebobinar o filme na nossa cabe\u00e7a para ver o que fizemos de errado.<\/p>\n

Wouldn\u2019t it be better if he could just \u2018man up\u2019 and say what\u2019s on his mind?<\/p>\n

There was no other date, there was no phone call or anything because he\u2019s a quitter. And because of this, he doesn\u2019t deserve you anyway.<\/p>\n

\"Porque<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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