{"id":164488,"date":"2022-05-20T20:07:00","date_gmt":"2022-05-20T20:07:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=164488"},"modified":"2024-05-20T20:08:40","modified_gmt":"2024-05-20T20:08:40","slug":"4-fazes-sempre-isto-que-aquilo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/4-fazes-sempre-isto-que-aquilo\/","title":{"rendered":"4. \"Fazes sempre isto\/aquilo\"."},"content":{"rendered":"<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/Young-happy-couple-talking-together-sitting-on-a-sofa-1.jpg\" alt=\"Jovem casal feliz a conversar sentado num sof\u00e1\" class=\"wp-image-164489\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/Young-happy-couple-talking-together-sitting-on-a-sofa-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/Young-happy-couple-talking-together-sitting-on-a-sofa-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/Young-happy-couple-talking-together-sitting-on-a-sofa-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/Young-happy-couple-talking-together-sitting-on-a-sofa-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/Young-happy-couple-talking-together-sitting-on-a-sofa-1-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/Young-happy-couple-talking-together-sitting-on-a-sofa-1-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/Young-happy-couple-talking-together-sitting-on-a-sofa-1-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/Young-happy-couple-talking-together-sitting-on-a-sofa-1-1200x801.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Quando se come\u00e7a uma discuss\u00e3o com isto, est\u00e1-se imediatamente a acus\u00e1-lo de alguma coisa, dando a entender que ele faz sempre alguma coisa errada.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Essa n\u00e3o \u00e9 a forma de ter uma conversa saud\u00e1vel e s\u00f3 o vai fazer escolher a via defensiva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Instead of making sweeping accusations, focus on the thing in question and the present. If he has to defend himself all the time, he\u2019s just not going to take it that much longer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div id=\"hide-grow-widget\"><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When you start an argument with this, you are immediately accusing him of something, implying that he always does something wrong. That is not the way to have a healthy conversation and it will only make him choose the defensive route. Instead of making sweeping accusations, focus on the thing in question and the present&#8230;.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-164488","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-blog"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":1,"label":"Blog"}]},"featured_image_src_large":false,"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":1,"name":"Blog","slug":"blog","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":1,"taxonomy":"category","description":"","parent":0,"count":497,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":1,"category_count":497,"category_description":"","cat_name":"Blog","category_nicename":"blog","category_parent":0}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/164488","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=164488"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/164488\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":164490,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/164488\/revisions\/164490"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=164488"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=164488"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=164488"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}