{"id":164572,"date":"2024-05-22T07:48:01","date_gmt":"2024-05-22T07:48:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=164572"},"modified":"2024-05-22T07:48:45","modified_gmt":"2024-05-22T07:48:45","slug":"resposta-hilariante-a-um-convite-de-casamento","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/resposta-hilariante-a-um-convite-de-casamento\/","title":{"rendered":"Mulher enlouquece com a desculpa \"N\u00e3o posso ir ao teu casamento, porque tenho de dormir\""},"content":{"rendered":"

While I was googling ideas for creative decorations that could be useful for my brother’s wedding event, I encountered an interesting testimony on Reddit, where a woman explained she RSVP\u2019d \u201cNo\u201d to her sister’s wedding<\/strong> porque se sobrep\u00f5e \u00e0 hora de dormir. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019ve felt an itching curiosity to learn more <\/strong>sobre a sua hist\u00f3ria e fiquei com os olhos colados ao ecr\u00e3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A noiva estava furiosa\u00a0<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Cr\u00e9dito: Reddit<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

A sua irm\u00e3 Hanna, a noiva, recusou-se a falar com ela ap\u00f3s o incidente do RSVP. O facto de a irm\u00e3 ter escolhido faltar \u00e0 cerim\u00f3nia de casamento apenas por causa do seu hor\u00e1rio de sono<\/strong>, foi chocante, pelo menos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A autora do post partilhou mais pormenores para explicar o seu racioc\u00ednio. Ela contou a hist\u00f3ria de uma longa luta contra ins\u00f3nia cr\u00f3nica<\/strong> o que tornava o seu hor\u00e1rio de sono verdadeiramente invulgar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s as if she is continuously going through an international jet lag. Usually, she would fall asleep at dawn and wake up in the afternoon. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Explicou ainda que a irm\u00e3 conhecia bem os seus h\u00e1bitos de sono, mas que, mesmo assim, n\u00e3o mostrava qualquer inten\u00e7\u00e3o de aceitar a situa\u00e7\u00e3o sem reac\u00e7\u00f5es emocionais duras, gritando com ela ao telefone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quando a mulher recebeu o convite de casamento, ficou muito contente com Hanna, entusiasmada por ouvir os planos para um grande casamento, mas depois o calend\u00e1rio surgiu como um enorme obst\u00e1culo \u00e0 sua presen\u00e7a:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201c… there’s a wedding brunch at 10am, the ceremony is at noon, and then there’s an afternoon party. I asked Hanna if I could just come to the afternoon party (since I will be sleeping at 10am) and she got furious and started yelling over the phone about how since I’m her sister, I need to be there for the ceremony.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

She laughed and compared Hanna\u2019s expectations to asking someone on a 9-5 work schedule to be present at a ceremony at 2 am. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cIf she wanted me to be there for the whole thing, she needed to plan for a time when I could actually attend. I work a full time job as a freelancer, just not normal hours because of my insomnia, so it really bugs me when people act like my time is worth less than theirs.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

A m\u00e3e tamb\u00e9m estava aborrecida<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Cr\u00e9dito: Reddit<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

A m\u00e3e tamb\u00e9m ficou chateada e insistiu para que ela mudasse a sua resposta. No entanto, depois de tudo o que aconteceu, ela sentiu uma vontade ainda maior de n\u00e3o ir ao evento. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Em vez de pedir desculpa \u00e0 irm\u00e3, esperava que a irm\u00e3 lhe pedisse a ela. Apesar de ter percebido que o seu ponto de vista podia n\u00e3o ser totalmente correto:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cthis is the first big fancy wedding in our family and maybe I need to suck it up because it’s a tradition to have a morning breakfast or something.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Coment\u00e1rios no Reddit mudaram a sua perspetiva<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Numerosos coment\u00e1rios abaixo o correio<\/a> sugeriu que ela devia ir ao m\u00e9dico e que a sua perspetiva \u00e9 um pouco egoc\u00eantrica.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n

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Cr\u00e9dito: Reddit<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Another user was assuring her that she needs to see a sleep specialist, pointing out that if a wedding as a \u201cone-day event\u201d interrupts her life so much, it is a warning sign. <\/p>\n\n\n

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\"coment\u00e1rios
Cr\u00e9dito: Reddit<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Posteriormente, ajustou, em certa medida, o seu ponto de vista. O primeiro seguimento da hist\u00f3ria publicada revelou que ela chegou a uma conclus\u00e3o de bom senso e decidiu pedir desculpa \u00e0 Hanna.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201c…I’m not a bridesmaid but I can still put on a dress and show up even if I am tired.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

She also became aware of the fact that she has a serious sleeping problem and decided to seek a sleep specialist\u2019s opinion and explore the roots of her strange sleeping patterns. Open talk with her mom gave her the chance to explain her opinion, but it also gave her a different perspective.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Finalmente, apercebeu-se de que o seu ritmo de sono \u00e9, de facto, anormal e agradeceu \u00e0s pessoas cujos coment\u00e1rios mudaram a sua perce\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cSERIOUSLY A BIG THANK YOU to everyone who gave me tips and ideas for what to search and what to ask my new sleep doctor once I find one with my mom.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

It wasn\u2019t revealed if she managed to smooth things out with her sister, but finally, being aware of her sleeping problem was a good starting point for a better life and relationships.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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