{"id":164585,"date":"2024-05-22T08:17:18","date_gmt":"2024-05-22T08:17:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=164585"},"modified":"2024-05-22T08:17:20","modified_gmt":"2024-05-22T08:17:20","slug":"publicacao-de-um-homem-no-reddit-gera-polemica","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/publicacao-de-um-homem-no-reddit-gera-polemica\/","title":{"rendered":"A publica\u00e7\u00e3o deste homem no Reddit suscita pol\u00e9mica! As suas expectativas s\u00e3o razo\u00e1veis ou n\u00e3o?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Antes de come\u00e7ar a viver com o meu namorado, certifiquei-me de que definir claramente as minhas expectativas<\/strong> and confirm we were on the same page. I told him directly that if he thinks I am going to do absolutely everything around the house, this isn\u2019t going to work. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

He assured me that I shouldn\u2019t worry and that todo o trabalho seria dividido em partes iguais<\/strong> no matter what. Although this should be common sense in the 21st century, it still seems like some men just can\u2019t wrap their heads around it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s funny and sad at the same time that we are currently closer to having flying cars (believe it or not, they are being tested) than men doing as many house chores as women. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ainda se espera que as mulheres fa\u00e7am tudo<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Cr\u00e9dito: Reddit<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Um homem no Reddit queria saber se estava a ser pouco razo\u00e1vel por querer que a sua namorada fizesse todas as tarefas dom\u00e9sticas, mesmo a escolher a sua roupa e a ver o seu correio.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

A namorada dele acabou de terminar a resid\u00eancia m\u00e9dica e tem dois meses livres at\u00e9 come\u00e7ar a trabalhar a tempo inteiro como m\u00e9dica. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Segundo ele, ela tem estado viver a sua melhor vida <\/strong>and therefore should do more work. He says she\u2019s spending her morning studying (\u00e9 esta a melhor vida de que ele est\u00e1 a falar?<\/em>) para o seu novo emprego, ir ao gin\u00e1sio e correr com o seu c\u00e3o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ela continuou a trabalhar como de costume e, aparentemente, isso surpreendeu-o, pois ele chegou a Reddit<\/a> para ver se ele estava a exagerar. Ele escreveu:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cHowever she hasn\u2019t started contributing more to the household. I mean she still cooks and cleans every day but she still expects me to wash the dishes and she won\u2019t pick up my clothes after I have returned from work. The other day I left a bunch of my mail on the table and when I returned it was left unopened, I asked her why she didn\u2019t look through it and she told me she\u2019s not my secretary.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Esta parte indignou os utilizadores do Reddit que deixaram mais de mil coment\u00e1rios furiosos<\/strong> e deram as suas opini\u00f5es honestas. T\u00e3o honestas que o Reddit bloqueou a publica\u00e7\u00e3o para impedir mais coment\u00e1rios devido ao excesso de viola\u00e7\u00f5es das regras.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

As finan\u00e7as s\u00e3o divididas, mas as tarefas n\u00e3o o s\u00e3o<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Cr\u00e9dito: Reddit<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Muitos afirmaram que ele \u00e9 actuando de forma incrivelmente infantil<\/strong> e como um utilizador comentou: <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cDeliberately misrepresenting the situation in order to make it seem as though she’s being dreadfully self-indulgent when in reality, she isn’t doing any less than she ever did, and is in fact doing more.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

At the beginning, he mentioned that they split rent and share all costs 50-50. All I\u2019m hearing is that continua a contribuir financeiramente<\/strong> even if she\u2019s not making any money at the time. So if finances are split equally, why wouldn\u2019t the chores be as well? He also added:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cI have been hinting that she should be picking up more chores now that she\u2019s unemployed but she says that she\u2019s not my housekeeper, she does more than half of the chores and since my workload has not increased I should be able to do mine.\u201d <\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Muitos os utilizadores aplaudiram a namorada<\/strong> por ter lidado com a situa\u00e7\u00e3o, dizendo que ela j\u00e1 tinha passado por um inferno durante a resid\u00eancia m\u00e9dica. Tamb\u00e9m concordaram que ela deveria ter o seu merecido descanso antes de assumir grandes responsabilidades como m\u00e9dica.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

What seems to have hurt his ego is her comment that she didn\u2019t go to medical school just to be someone\u2019s live-in maid, like this isn\u2019t simply stating facts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

As mulheres gastam 49 minutos por dia em limpezas<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Cr\u00e9dito: Reddit<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Inqu\u00e9rito americano sobre o uso do tempo<\/a>O relat\u00f3rio da Comiss\u00e3o Europeia, intitulado \"O tempo dos americanos\", forneceu informa\u00e7\u00f5es sobre a forma como os americanos utilizam o seu tempo. Revelou que, durante o ano de 2022, as mulheres gastaram, em m\u00e9dia, quase uma hora do seu tempo a limpar a casa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Os dados sobre sal\u00e1rio m\u00e9dio por hora<\/a> tornar evidente que as mulheres efectuam cerca de $6K mais trabalho n\u00e3o remunerado <\/strong>do que os homens, numa base anual.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This statistic just confirms what we as women already know since we are experiencing it firsthand. So ladies, don\u2019t let a man tell you that you should do all the work. If he doesn\u2019t want to contribute, que ele contrate uma empregada dom\u00e9stica<\/strong>. I know I wouldn\u2019t mind!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Before I first started living with my boyfriend, I made sure to set my expectations clear and confirm we were on the same page. I told him directly that if he thinks I am going to do absolutely everything around the house, this isn\u2019t going to work.  He assured me that I shouldn\u2019t worry and…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":164587,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29814],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-164585","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29814,"label":"Stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/This-Mans-Reddit-Post-Sparks-Controversy-Are-His-Expectations-Reasonable-Or-Not-1024x576.jpg",1024,576,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29814,"name":"Stories","slug":"stories","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29814,"taxonomy":"category","description":"","parent":29651,"count":242,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29814,"category_count":242,"category_description":"","cat_name":"Stories","category_nicename":"stories","category_parent":29651}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/164585","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=164585"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/164585\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":164590,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/164585\/revisions\/164590"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/164587"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=164585"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=164585"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=164585"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}