{"id":164648,"date":"2024-05-22T12:25:54","date_gmt":"2024-05-22T12:25:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=164648"},"modified":"2024-07-08T09:09:36","modified_gmt":"2024-07-08T09:09:36","slug":"o-irmao-do-noivo-recusa-se-a-ser-o-seu-padrinho","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/o-irmao-do-noivo-recusa-se-a-ser-o-seu-padrinho\/","title":{"rendered":"O irm\u00e3o do noivo desiste de ser padrinho de casamento depois de a noiva maltratar a sua mulher sem d\u00f3 nem piedade"},"content":{"rendered":"

A long time ago I came across an outrageous testimony of a man who withdrew the decision to be the best man at his brother\u2019s wedding, several days before the event. He couldn\u2019t assess if his reaction was justified or whether he had betrayed his sibling.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tamb\u00e9m devem estar chocados e pensar Como \u00e9 que ele p\u00f4de fazer isto ao seu irm\u00e3o?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mas esperem para ouvir o resto da hist\u00f3ria.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Uma ama para a mulher?<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Fonte: Reddit<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Um homem partilhou a sua hist\u00f3ria no canal Reddit AITA<\/a> (the perfect place to get unbiased opinions if you’re struggling to decide if your actions are justified or not). He deleted the post in the meantime but comments remained, so it\u2019s easy to piece the puzzle together and get the pormenores da hist\u00f3ria<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Por isso, inicialmente, aceitou ser o padrinho do seu irm\u00e3o. Os noivos convidaram pessoas a partir dos 12 anos de idade. Os seus a lista de convidados tamb\u00e9m inclu\u00eda pessoas com filhos mais pequenos<\/strong> so they\u2019ve arranged an additional room for children, and the babysitter as well.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Two days before the wedding, during the rehearsal dinner, the man learned his brother and SIL (sister-in-law) assumed his wife should stay in the kids’ venue together with a babysitter. That way he would be able to relax and enjoy the wedding without the need to \u201cfeed her or anything\u201d<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Explicou ainda que a sua mulher tinha um problema de sa\u00fade<\/strong> que a tornava lenta a responder ou a compreender o que os outros diziam. Por vezes, ela precisava de ajuda para comer, por isso ele cortava-lhe a comida em bocados pequenos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

All this did not make her unsuitable to sit at an adult’s table. As he explained:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cThis doesn’t mean she’s nothing and she’s a smart, capable woman.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Uma press\u00e3o familiar<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Fonte: Reddit<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

O homem ficou chocado ao descobrir que o seu irm\u00e3o e a sua cunhada decidiram maltratar a sua mulher deficiente de uma forma t\u00e3o desrespeitosa.<\/strong> De certeza que ficou muito chateado e desistiu de ser padrinho.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

O a fam\u00edlia ficou furiosa<\/strong> e come\u00e7ou a enviar mensagens de texto, tentando faz\u00ea-lo mudar de ideias. Os coment\u00e1rios abaixo do post mostraram como a maioria dos os leitores apoiaram a sua decis\u00e3o<\/strong> e condenou o comportamento dos seus pais.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cI’d guess OPs parents are trying to avoid the embarrassment for THEM of explaining why the best man isn’t there. Sounds to me like pretty typical religious raised previous generation. Avoid the uncomfortable situation at all costs.\u201c<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

As pessoas estavam revoltadas com o capacitismo<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"mulher<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Nos coment\u00e1rios, as pessoas partilhavam a sua opini\u00e3o e admitiam que fariam e esperariam o mesmo dos seus parceiros.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cI would absolutely disown any relative that tried to treat me like OPs family did his wife. If my spouse didn’t stick up for me, I would disown them too. OP did right by his wife. OPs family is awful.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Alguns referiam que o seu irm\u00e3o e a SIL estavam a infantilizar a sua mulher.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\"<\/strong>This is one of the most insensitive things I\u2019ve ever read on here, by far. They absolutely did try to treat your wife like a literal child because of her disability, regardless of the reason. Just because it\u2019s \u201cher day\u201d doesn\u2019t give them the right to insult you and your wife like that.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Todos concordaram que se tratava de um comportamento inaceit\u00e1vel e que o homem tinha raz\u00e3o em retirar a sua decis\u00e3o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cI would be absolutely appalled and heartbroken if someone looked at my spouse like that. This is beyond disgusting behavior. She has a delay. She is NOT a child and for them to even <\/strong>dica<\/em><\/strong> that she may be better suited for the children\u2019s venue so you can have a \u201cbetter time\u201d makes my blood boil for you.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Qual \u00e9 a sua opini\u00e3o sobre este assunto? hist\u00f3ria<\/a>? What would you do if you were in this man\u2019s shoes?<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

A long time ago I came across an outrageous testimony of a man who withdrew the decision to be the best man at his brother\u2019s wedding, several days before the event. He couldn\u2019t assess if his reaction was justified or whether he had betrayed his sibling. You must be shocked too and think How could…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":164662,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29814],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-164648","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29814,"label":"Stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/Grooms-Brother-Steps-Down-As-A-Best-Man-After-Bride-Heartlessly-Mistreats-His-Wife-1024x576.jpg",1024,576,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29814,"name":"Stories","slug":"stories","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29814,"taxonomy":"category","description":"","parent":29651,"count":242,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29814,"category_count":242,"category_description":"","cat_name":"Stories","category_nicename":"stories","category_parent":29651}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/164648","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=164648"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/164648\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":164663,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/164648\/revisions\/164663"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/164662"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=164648"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=164648"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=164648"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}