{"id":16467,"date":"2020-09-15T11:49:43","date_gmt":"2020-09-15T11:49:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16467"},"modified":"2022-02-24T00:49:16","modified_gmt":"2022-02-24T00:49:16","slug":"ou-me-queres-ou-nao-queres-isto-e-quase-uma-tortura","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/ou-me-queres-ou-nao-queres-isto-e-quase-uma-tortura\/","title":{"rendered":"Ou me queres ou n\u00e3o me queres, este \"quase\" \u00e9 uma tortura"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Num minuto est\u00e1s a puxar-me para perto e no outro est\u00e1s a afastar-me. Sabes como isso me faz sentir? Sabes que est\u00e1s a mexer com a minha mente e o meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o?<\/p>\n<p>Eu anseio por consist\u00eancia. Detesto este vai e vem que fazes. Passamos tempo juntos e est\u00e1 tudo a correr bem.<\/p>\n<p>You are into me I am into you. You are kind, loving and the sweetest man alive while we are together and when we are apart, you don&#8217;t even bother to check up on me.<\/p>\n<p>E assim que me vires a afastar-me, tu <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/nao-persigam-a-menos-que-estejam-prontos-para-apanhar\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">perseguir-me<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Detesto isso. Odeio jogar jogos. Odeio que s\u00f3 me desejes quando tens medo de me perder. Quando estou distante.<\/p>\n<p>I need more than words and empty promises. I need more than, \u201cLet things be. \u201c, \u201cEnjoy the moment don&#8217;t stress about tomorrow \u201c, \u201cAren\u2019t you happy with the way things are now?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o, n\u00e3o estou feliz agora. Preciso que me digas em que p\u00e9 estamos. J\u00e1 ouvi todas as desculpas e estou farto de as ouvir.<\/p>\n<p>If you care for me as much as you say you do, I don&#8217;t see anything stopping you but <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/sinais-de-que-ele-tem-medo-do-quanto-gosta-de-ti\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">o seu pr\u00f3prio medo<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-121849\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/young-woman-outdoors-thinking.jpg\" alt=\"jovem mulher ao ar livre a pensar\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/young-woman-outdoors-thinking.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/young-woman-outdoors-thinking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/young-woman-outdoors-thinking-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/young-woman-outdoors-thinking-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/young-woman-outdoors-thinking-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/young-woman-outdoors-thinking-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/young-woman-outdoors-thinking-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/young-woman-outdoors-thinking-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You are full of \u2018what ifs\u2019. And so am I. I am scared too.<\/p>\n<p><em>E se me magoar? E se tudo correr mal? E se encontrares outra pessoa? E se me partires o cora\u00e7\u00e3o como nunca ningu\u00e9m o fez?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>You know what? I am tired of what-ifs too. We can\u2019t know what the future will bring. What if we are great together? <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>E se tivermos algo real e o perdermos por causa dos medos. Mas eu estou pronto para arriscar. Estou pronto a deixar os meus medos de lado. Est\u00e1s disposto a fazer o mesmo?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Espero que sim. Porque<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/esta-na-altura-de-te-recompores-porque-ela-nao-vai-esperar-muito-mais-tempo-por-ti\/\"> I won\u2019t wait much longer<\/a>. I think I\u2019ve waited for more than enough.<\/p>\n<p>I feel like I\u2019ve been here already with somebody else and I don\u2019t want to repeat the same scenario\u2014he one that involves a half-assed man, half-assed promises, and half-assed love.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t want to go through that again. It\u2019s not that I don\u2019t care for you. I really do.<\/p>\n<p>Like I never cared for anyone before but you have to realize that I can\u2019t <a href=\"https:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/2014\/02\/17\/settling-relationship_n_4777120.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">contentar-se com menos<\/a> do que eu mere\u00e7o.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-121851\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-sofa-at-home-deep-in-thoughts.jpg\" alt=\"mulher sentada no sof\u00e1 de casa a pensar profundamente\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-sofa-at-home-deep-in-thoughts.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-sofa-at-home-deep-in-thoughts-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-sofa-at-home-deep-in-thoughts-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-sofa-at-home-deep-in-thoughts-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-sofa-at-home-deep-in-thoughts-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-sofa-at-home-deep-in-thoughts-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-sofa-at-home-deep-in-thoughts-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-sofa-at-home-deep-in-thoughts-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>I learned my lessons in the past. I don\u2019t want to look back and see you as one more lesson. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Espero que sejas mais. Sei que podes ser mais. Sei que podemos ser fant\u00e1sticos juntos. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Somehow, I sense you feel it too\u2014you just haven\u2019t admitted it to yourself. I hope you will before it\u2019s too late. Before I give up on us.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>S\u00f3 preciso que me tomes nos teus bra\u00e7os e me digas que est\u00e1s completamente envolvida. Depois podemos ir devagar. Um passo de cada vez.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00f3 preciso de saber que \u00e9s minha. Que podes orgulhosamente chamar-me tua namorada ou apresentar-me aos teus amigos.<\/p>\n<p>Que est\u00e3o prontos a jogar e a apostar tudo o que t\u00eam em n\u00f3s.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ent\u00e3o decide. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/se-nao-me-podes-amar-como-deve-ser-afasta-te-para-que-outro-o-possa-fazer\/\">Either you want me or you don\u2019t<\/a>. I don\u2019t want to be stuck in the middle with you anymore. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Detesto esta situa\u00e7\u00e3o em que nos encontramos. Parece uma tortura. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>It\u2019s not making me happy or complete. I hate the \u201calmost\u201d love you are giving me. I hope you will realize that I deserve more than almost. We are better than \u201calmost\u201d.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-121838\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/You-Either-Want-Me-Or-You-Dont-This-Almost-Is-Torture-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Ou me queres ou n\u00e3o me queres, este &quot;quase&quot; \u00e9 uma tortura\" width=\"467\" height=\"700\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/You-Either-Want-Me-Or-You-Dont-This-Almost-Is-Torture-pinterest.jpg 467w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/You-Either-Want-Me-Or-You-Dont-This-Almost-Is-Torture-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/You-Either-Want-Me-Or-You-Dont-This-Almost-Is-Torture-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 467px) 100vw, 467px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You are pulling me close one minute and you are pushing me away the next one. Do you know how that makes me feel? Do you realize you are messing with my mind and my heart? I crave consistency. I hate this back and forth thing you do. We spend time together and everything is&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":121850,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16467","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/You-Either-Want-Me-Or-You-Dont-This-Almost-Is-Torture-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16467","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16467"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16467\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/121850"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16467"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16467"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16467"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}