{"id":164680,"date":"2024-05-23T11:26:06","date_gmt":"2024-05-23T11:26:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=164680"},"modified":"2024-05-23T11:26:11","modified_gmt":"2024-05-23T11:26:11","slug":"os-homens-confessam-os-seus-desejos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/os-homens-confessam-os-seus-desejos\/","title":{"rendered":"Os homens confessam quais s\u00e3o as 7 coisas que desejam numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o"},"content":{"rendered":"

Recently, I had lunch with my best friend Katie. She was a bit quiet, barely touched her salad, so I couldn’t help but notice something was really bothering her. I asked if everything was ok. Then, finally, she opened up about her concerns and told me she kept wondering if everything was ok in her relationship. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2013 \u201cOftentimes I\u2019m not sure if he\u2019s happy how things flow between us. How can you tell?\u201d\u2013 Katie shook her head in confusion.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2013 \u201cWell I have no idea, you\u2019re the one who should know. I don\u2019t know him that well to be able to determine\u201d \u2013 I shrugged my shoulders.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2013 \u201cBut I don\u2019t know. Sometimes I search for clues in his facial expressions and actions, but I can never be certain if our relationship really fulfills his expectations.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2013 \u201cA few times I wasn\u2019t sure either. I know that feeling, you become disoriented, over-analyzing. Sometimes you just give in, convinced homens e mulheres s\u00e3o criaturas de planetas diferentes<\/strong>.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2013 \u201cThat would explain everything \u2013 it\u2019s only because we are the Venusianos<\/em> e s\u00e3o Marcianos. <\/em>Right?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2013 \u201cWell, not quite. I believe everyone, be it a man or a woman, is different as are their views on a relationship. However, every uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel tem algumas qualidades comuns<\/strong>. Trust me, I’ve asked my male friends and boy did they have something to say\u201d:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. I\u2019d appreciate being accepted and appreciated the way I am<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"coment\u00e1rios<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Os homens precisam de sentir que gostamos deles tal como s\u00e3o. Assim don\u2019t try to fix his flaws.<\/strong> Ele \u00e9 um homem adulto e maduro, n\u00e3o uma crian\u00e7a.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you\u2019re trying too hard to change him, maybe the two of you aren\u2019t really a good match.<\/strong> Apaixona-se por uma pessoa real, n\u00e3o pela imagem perfeita criada pelas suas expectativas. Se gosta dele, esteja preparada para abra\u00e7ar e aceitar a sua personalidade e estilo de vida.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Imagine how you\u2019d feel if he tried to change your behavior or habits. You want to be loved the way you are, right? Well, the same goes for him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Quero que confiem em mim e que tenham uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o honesta<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"coment\u00e1rio<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Honesty and trust are the key elements of a healthy relationship. Surely, those are the things that require time. So, don\u2019t worry, quando se conhecerem melhor, a confian\u00e7a vir\u00e1 naturalmente.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

No in\u00edcio, tente ser otimista em vez de desconfiado. Ningu\u00e9m quer ser questionado, perseguido ou sujeito a press\u00f5es.<\/strong> As rela\u00e7\u00f5es devem ser um santu\u00e1rio, uma fonte de alegria e descontra\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Quero falar abertamente e sem medo<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"homem<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Se o teu namorado tem de pesar cada palavra ou deve ter muito cuidado com o tom da sua voz<\/strong>, that my dear, doesn\u2019t sonoro<\/em> bom. Esperam o mesmo dos vossos amigos? Claro que n\u00e3o, sen\u00e3o n\u00e3o terias amigos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Provavelmente j\u00e1 sabe, s\u00e3o basicamente amizades com fortes la\u00e7os emocionais e de atra\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/strong> Ent\u00e3o deixa o teu rapazamigo<\/em> <\/strong>falar sem medo, e v\u00f3s fazeis o mesmo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sentir-se livre para falar abertamente sobre qualquer assunto tornar\u00e1 a din\u00e2mica da vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o natural e genu\u00edna.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. I need my own time! Who doesn’t?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"homem<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

We all need our own time, don\u2019t you agree? You have os seus interesses e actividades \u00fanicos <\/strong>and they don\u2019t necessarily include your SO.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Gosta de ir \u00e0s discotecas com os seus amigos, ou quer visitar a sua tia, ver um programa de televis\u00e3o com a sua m\u00e3e. Ele tamb\u00e9m gosta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

As actividades separadas trar\u00e3o qualidade do vosso tempo juntos<\/strong> for at least one reason \u2013 you will have something to talk about.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Or, imagine you ran into each other on your night with friends, and a surprise effect wakes up those old butterflies in your stomach? It will resemble your first eye contact and you\u2019ll start flirting. Girl, that\u2019s gonna passion up your strings in an incredible way!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. Bem, \u00e9 claro que preciso de me sentir fisicamente atra\u00eddo por ela<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"homem<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A atra\u00e7\u00e3o f\u00edsica \u00e9 a a fa\u00edsca inicial que vos une<\/strong>. Somos atra\u00eddos pela sua apar\u00eancia, mas apaixonamo-nos pela sua personalidade.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You are aware of how important it is to shine in your man\u2019s eyes, but a apar\u00eancia f\u00edsica \u00e9 apenas uma das suas muitas qualidades<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Se se achar pouco atraente, lembre-se, a beleza est\u00e1 nos olhos de quem v\u00ea.<\/strong> Confie em mim, mesmo quando se levanta com o seu cabelo de cama, sem maquilhagem, est\u00e1 a usar o seu charme \u00fanico e ele vai adorar a sua vers\u00e3o natural mais do que pensa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. Ela precisa de ser leal<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"homem<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A lealdade \u00e9 uma qualidade da vossa liga\u00e7\u00e3o que est\u00e1 intimamente relacionada com a honestidade. Se conseguirem ser honestos um com o outro, n\u00e3o deixar\u00e3o espa\u00e7o para uma trai\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You wouldn\u2019t like him to falar nas tuas costas com os amigos ou a fam\u00edlia dele<\/strong>, wouldn\u2019t you? Or even worse \u2013 do something that would harm your relationship?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u00e3o \u00e9 de surpreender que os homens esperem o mesmo. Ser leal significa manter-se totalmente comprometido com o seu amor, mesmo quando \u00e9 dif\u00edcil resistir a diferentes tenta\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. Preciso de levar as coisas com calma<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"coment\u00e1rio<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Acho que \u00e9 bastante razo\u00e1vel. Ningu\u00e9m quer fazer grandes planos no segundo em que conhecem algu\u00e9m<\/strong>por muito apaixonados que estejam.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Enjoy the lovely moments, and let your relationship develop over time. Don\u2019t rush things out.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

O conselho mais importante que vos dou \u00e9 o seguinte: seja sempre voc\u00ea mesmo e deixe-o ser tamb\u00e9m<\/strong>. Valorize os momentos da sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o e passe os dias com leveza.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cKatie, you must see this post I\u2019ve found on Quora! A man, who amusingly describes himself as someone whose experience in dating is outdated, summarized it perfectly:\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cIt turned out I primarily wanted someone who would be a full and mature partner in the adventure, joys, tears, and at times the grinding unpleasantness of the life experience.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

But that\u2019s just me. Many men would utterly scorn my approach, and that\u2019s just fine.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Don\u2019t be concerned with what some generic man wants. Be interested in who the individual man is that you relate to, and how they interact with the genuine you. From where I sit, that\u2019s how to make the long-term magic happen.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Ler o texto completo fio<\/a> para saber mais sobre o que os diferentes homens querem numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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