{"id":164714,"date":"2024-05-23T13:51:02","date_gmt":"2024-05-23T13:51:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=164714"},"modified":"2024-05-23T13:51:02","modified_gmt":"2024-05-23T13:51:02","slug":"sinais-que-mostram-se-esta-numa-relacao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/sinais-que-mostram-se-esta-numa-relacao\/","title":{"rendered":"N\u00e3o tem a certeza se est\u00e1 a assentar na sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o? Preste aten\u00e7\u00e3o a estes sinais"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>J\u00e1 alguma vez ouviste a tua amiga falar do namorado ou do marido e pensaste: <em>\u201cOh God, she could do much better than that.\u201d<\/em> Sim, <strong>n\u00e3o est\u00e1 sozinho<\/strong>. Nove em cada dez vezes, provavelmente tinha raz\u00e3o porque reparou em padr\u00f5es que tinham <em>bandeira vermelha<\/em> escrito por todo o lado.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A minha m\u00e3e costumava sempre dizer:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\u201cNever settle for a man because you feel sorry for him or you\u2019re scared of being alone.\u201d<\/em> Deixem-me que vos diga, aquela mulher tinha toda a raz\u00e3o. Juro que algu\u00e9m lhe devia dar um programa de entrevistas!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c9 claro que ningu\u00e9m quer acomodar-se, mas muitas vezes perdemo-nos em <strong>o labirinto das experi\u00eancias t\u00f3xicas<\/strong>. This sometimes happens because we don\u2019t even notice that right away. It looks like the famous phrase that <em>o amor torna-nos cegos<\/em> afinal \u00e9 verdade!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Se estas bandeiras vermelhas lhe parecerem familiares, fuja!<\/h2>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/man-and-woman-holding-phones-and-looking-at-each-other.jpg\" alt=\"homem e mulher seguram telefones e olham um para o outro\" class=\"wp-image-164750\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/man-and-woman-holding-phones-and-looking-at-each-other.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/man-and-woman-holding-phones-and-looking-at-each-other-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/man-and-woman-holding-phones-and-looking-at-each-other-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/man-and-woman-holding-phones-and-looking-at-each-other-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/man-and-woman-holding-phones-and-looking-at-each-other-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/man-and-woman-holding-phones-and-looking-at-each-other-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/man-and-woman-holding-phones-and-looking-at-each-other-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/man-and-woman-holding-phones-and-looking-at-each-other-1200x801.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>Gra\u00e7as a Deus pelo TikTok porque <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@ladylikelifeshop\/video\/7359344007589383470\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">@ladylikelifeshop<\/a> shared her view on what the most common red flags are, that can actually help you realize whether you\u2019re settling or not!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You know those couples who caption their pictures: \u201cWe had our ups and downs, it wasn\u2019t always easy\u2026\u201d Yeah, think twice before saying they are <em>\u201ccouple goals\u201d<\/em> e uma inspira\u00e7\u00e3o.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A @ladylikelifeshop explica:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>\u201cLife is hard and life can happen to your relationship. Your relationship should not be hard.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>I wish I realized this earlier! Even if we had a hard period with someone, it\u2019s important to know the reasons behind it.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Talvez tenhamos experimentado alguns <strong>dificuldades fora da nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/strong>A perda de um ente querido, uma doen\u00e7a ou qualquer outra coisa que tenha acontecido inesperadamente.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Things we don\u2019t have control over can occur sometimes, and that is fine.<\/strong> The problem is when you\u2019re miserable <em>porque<\/em> of your relationship! I ain\u2019t judging, we\u2019ve all been there.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The woman continues to explain how she doesn\u2019t agree with people saying that the first year of marriage is the hardest because it shouldn\u2019t be. The first thing I thought when she said that was \u2013 say it louder for the people in the back!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>H\u00e1 formas de o evitar, como <strong>certificar-se de que conhece realmente a pessoa<\/strong> com quem passar\u00e1s o resto da tua vida. Isto deve ser l\u00f3gico, certo?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Noutro <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@ladylikelifeshop\/video\/7358611873559825706\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">TikTok<\/a>, she listed some of the red flags in a relationship that aren\u2019t talked about enough. To be honest, when I watch videos like this one, I sometimes feel like she\u2019s describing my past relationships (maybe we should make a support group?).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-tiktok wp-block-embed-tiktok\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<blockquote class=\"tiktok-embed\" cite=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@julie_anna_j\/video\/7358611873559825706\" data-video-id=\"7358611873559825706\" data-embed-from=\"oembed\" style=\"max-width:605px; min-width:325px;\"> <section> <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"@julie_anna_j\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@julie_anna_j?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">@julie_anna_j<\/a> <p><a title=\"ponto\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/stitch?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">#stitch<\/a> with @eringibney let\u2019s talk about it! Part gossip, part advice \ud83e\udd2a<\/p> <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"\u266c original sound - julie_anna_j\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/music\/original-sound-7358612010721987374?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">\u266c original sound &#8211; julie_anna_j<\/a> <\/section> <\/blockquote> <script async src=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/embed.js\"><\/script>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Infelizmente, ela foi v\u00edtima das mesmas coisas para as quais nos est\u00e1 a alertar. Como diria o Pitbull: <em>\u201cBelieve me, been there, done that.\u201d<\/em> Ela admitiu que tamb\u00e9m <strong>didn\u2019t realize she was settling in her previous long-term relationship until they broke up.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s like we all magically see all the <strong>sinais de aviso<\/strong> depois de sairmos da rela\u00e7\u00e3o. Ela explicou o primeiro sinal:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>\u201cWhen you are compatible with someone, you will barely ever fight, and when you disagree over something it\u2019s a totally different type of disagreement because there is no resentment anywhere.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>Al\u00e9m disso, @ladylikelifeshop refere que <strong>it\u2019s never right if someone wants to change you<\/strong>. N\u00e3o para ser uma pessoa melhor, mas para mudar literalmente a sua personalidade, a forma como se veste, etc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Another thing that\u2019s very important is to <strong>make sure you\u2019re on the same page <\/strong>when it comes to your plans. It\u2019s something you should discuss at the beginning of your relationship. As she said:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>\u201cYou have to be able to live in a way that is compatible with your goals, both of you, without having to nag him every single day, or it will not work.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>I couldn\u2019t agree more with her tips! Maybe she can join my mom on a talk show, or maybe the two of them can lead our support group?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel traz paz, n\u00e3o caos<\/h2>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/couple-in-love.jpg\" alt=\"casal apaixonado\" class=\"wp-image-164751\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/couple-in-love.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/couple-in-love-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/couple-in-love-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/couple-in-love-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/couple-in-love-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/couple-in-love-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/couple-in-love-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/couple-in-love-1200x801.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>I\u2019ve never been more thankful for social media and TikToker <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@oldsoulentries\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">@oldsoulentries<\/a> \u00e9 parte da raz\u00e3o! Acrescentou uma perspetiva adicional baseada na sua pr\u00f3pria experi\u00eancia pessoal.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kristen teve a oportunidade de ver exemplos de boas e m\u00e1s rela\u00e7\u00f5es e, por isso, foi muito rigorosa (como devia) quando se tratou de encontrar o seu par perfeito.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ela queria ter a certeza <strong>she didn\u2019t lower her standards<\/strong> s\u00f3 pelo facto de estar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o. Acho que algu\u00e9m devia dar um trof\u00e9u a esta mulher!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Na sua <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@oldsoulentries\/video\/7358823483192724778?embed_source=%3Bnull%3Bembed_name&amp;refer=embed&amp;referer_url=www.dailydot.com%2Fnews%2Fhow-to-tell-if-youre-settling%2F&amp;referer_video_id=7358823483192724778\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">v\u00eddeo<\/a>, Kristen added that she didn\u2019t understand couples who were saying that \u201cmoving in stage\u201d is not all colors and rainbows because she couldn\u2019t relate. Apparently, God has its favorites! As she said:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>\u201cIf you are with the right person I genuinely believe it\u2019s like having a sleepover with your best friend every single day. We just laugh, we have fun together, we accomplish and tackle things together. If you are questioning things and if you\u2019re not having fun living with this person\u2026that\u2019s probably a big sign that you might be settling.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-tiktok wp-block-embed-tiktok\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<blockquote class=\"tiktok-embed\" cite=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@oldsoulentries\/video\/7358823483192724778\" data-video-id=\"7358823483192724778\" data-embed-from=\"oembed\" style=\"max-width:605px; min-width:325px;\"> <section> <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"@oldsoulentries\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@oldsoulentries?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">@oldsoulentries<\/a> <p>What \u201cdon\u2019t settle\u201d actually means!! @Lady Like Life Store such a great explanation <a title=\"mentalidade\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/mindset?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">#mindset<\/a> <a title=\"gratitudemindset\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/gratitudemindset?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">1TP5Gratid\u00e3oempresa<\/a> <a title=\"conselhos sobre rela\u00e7\u00f5es\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/relationshipadvice?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">1TP5Conselhos de relacionamento<\/a> <a title=\"rela\u00e7\u00f5es\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/relationships?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">1TP5Rela\u00e7\u00f5es<\/a> <\/p> <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"\u266c som original - Kristen \ud83c\udf1e\ud83c\udf3f\ud83c\udf0e\ud83c\udf3b\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/music\/original-sound-7358823768191437610?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">\u266c original sound &#8211; Kristen \ud83c\udf1e\ud83c\udf3f\ud83c\udf0e\ud83c\udf3b<\/a> <\/section> <\/blockquote> <script async src=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/embed.js\"><\/script>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Kristen continua a explicar que o <strong>segredo para uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o ou casamento longo e saud\u00e1vel<\/strong> \u00e9 certificar-se de que a sua outra metade sabe<strong> <\/strong>o quanto os aprecia. Disse ela:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>\u201cI think that gratitude and expressing gratitude to the other person every single day is like the biggest connection point you can have. It never gets old, you can never do too much!\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>Os seus seguidores concordaram com ela e partilharam tamb\u00e9m as suas experi\u00eancias (alguns diriam traumas). Um utilizador escreveu algo que dev\u00edamos p\u00f4r nos livros:&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>\u201cYour partnership should be your refuge and bring you peace! If it doesn\u2019t, they\u2019re not the right one.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>No final do dia, <strong>ter respeito por si pr\u00f3prio<\/strong> <strong>\u00e9 tamb\u00e9m a raiz de uma boa parceria.<\/strong> Se tolera constantemente um comportamento t\u00f3xico s\u00f3 para poder ter aquele encontro no s\u00e1bado, ent\u00e3o tem de se controlar!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ao mudarmo-nos para melhor, podemos tamb\u00e9m mudar as nossas vidas. Os outros podem amar-nos plenamente, apenas <strong>quando nos amamos verdadeiramente.<\/strong> Este \u00e9 o ingrediente secreto para um amor saud\u00e1vel!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Have you ever listened to your friend talk about her boyfriend or husband and thought: \u201cOh God, she could do much better than that.\u201d Yeah, you are not alone. Nine times out of ten you were probably right because you noticed patterns that had red flag written all over it.&nbsp; My mom always used to&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":164749,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29814],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-164714","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29814,"label":"Stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/Not-Sure-If-You-Are-Settling-In-Your-Relationship-Watch-Out-For-These-Signs-1024x576.jpg",1024,576,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29814,"name":"Stories","slug":"stories","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29814,"taxonomy":"category","description":"","parent":29651,"count":242,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29814,"category_count":242,"category_description":"","cat_name":"Stories","category_nicename":"stories","category_parent":29651}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/164714","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=164714"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/164714\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":164752,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/164714\/revisions\/164752"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/164749"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=164714"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=164714"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=164714"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}