{"id":164782,"date":"2025-01-30T21:30:00","date_gmt":"2025-01-30T20:30:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=164782"},"modified":"2025-01-29T10:37:38","modified_gmt":"2025-01-29T09:37:38","slug":"nao-se-apressem-a-casar-antes-dos-trinta-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nao-se-apressem-a-casar-antes-dos-trinta-2\/","title":{"rendered":"20 raz\u00f5es para adiar o casamento at\u00e9 aos 30 anos (uma delas at\u00e9 est\u00e1 relacionada com a carreira)"},"content":{"rendered":"

Lembro-me de uma altura em que tinha 27 anos e dei por mim no meio de <\/strong>febre do casamento<\/em><\/strong>. Parecia que toda a gente \u00e0 minha volta tinha encontrado o seu parceiro de vida.<\/strong> Exceto eu. Eu ainda estava a juntar as pe\u00e7as depois de uma separa\u00e7\u00e3o muito feia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Eu estava indignado com o facto de todos os outros, menos eu, terem percebido tudo.<\/strong> Para al\u00e9m de tudo isso, a minha melhor amiga, Jessica, telefonou para partilhar algumas not\u00edcias emocionantes:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2013 \u201cI got engaged to Jason, he proposed yesterday. We are getting married next summer.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ela conheceu o Jason quando se mudou para a costa leste, h\u00e1 seis meses. Como \u00e9 que passaram t\u00e3o depressa de um encontro para um noivado? I was puzzled and couldn\u2019t understand the tremendous excitement about marriage.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

A J\u00e9ssica reparou que eu estava um pouco abalado e lembrou-me a minha declara\u00e7\u00e3o feita h\u00e1 alguns anos, quando ainda and\u00e1vamos no liceu:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2013 \u201cI will not get married before I\u2019m 30 and will have no kids before I\u2019m 35.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Foi realmente assim que aconteceu: Casei-me aos 31 anos e dei \u00e0 luz o meu primeiro filho aos 35 anos. Como se eu tivesse escrito o cen\u00e1rio do meu percurso de vida quando ainda era adolescente.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019m still happily married and based on the experiences of my divorced friends and my own, I can give you 20 reasons why you shouldn’t rush into marriage before your 30s. So hear me out!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Explore yourself while you\u2019re in your 20s!<\/h2>\n\n\n
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People choose to get married at different ages and don\u2019t worry, it\u2019s perfectly fine. Of course you can\u2019t schedule a meeting with The One!<\/strong> Acontece quando chega a altura certa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

No entanto, antes de se comprometer com algu\u00e9m, deve primeiro conhecer-se a si pr\u00f3prio<\/em>. Por isso, n\u00e3o se esque\u00e7am do vosso Os 20 anos s\u00e3o a altura ideal para explorar a sua verdadeira personalidade, as suas necessidades e desejos.<\/strong> Allow yourself to find out what\u2019s really important to you. Don\u2019t compare yourself to others.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. O amadurecimento tamb\u00e9m ir\u00e1 melhorar as suas capacidades de comunica\u00e7\u00e3o!<\/h2>\n\n\n
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After years of relationship experience, you\u2019ll be more mature in your expectations. Deixar\u00e1s de sonhar com <\/strong>Pr\u00edncipe Encantado<\/em><\/strong> <\/strong>e estar pronto para abra\u00e7ar uma pessoa real com quem partilhar os bons momentos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, you\u2019ll know how to express yourself and your emotions. Saber\u00e1 quando deve dizer n\u00e3o a certos comportamentos<\/strong> e ser capaz de determinar se a rela\u00e7\u00e3o vale os seus esfor\u00e7os.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. A sua auto-confian\u00e7a vai disparar aos 30 anos<\/h2>\n\n\n
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You\u2019ve already Conseguiu algumas conquistas na vida e isso d\u00e1-lhe um sentimento de confian\u00e7a.<\/strong> You acquired a master’s degree, or got that desired promotion at work, maybe you\u2019ve finally moved to some place other than your hometown.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Now you\u2019re able to look after yourself and have more belief in your abilities. All the Os fracassos e sucessos do passado tornaram-se os elementos de constru\u00e7\u00e3o da sua autoimagem.<\/strong>\u00c9 capaz de ser sincero consigo pr\u00f3prio e com os outros.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. Aos trinta e poucos anos, sabe-se exatamente o que se quer<\/h2>\n\n\n
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As mulheres que d\u00e3o o n\u00f3 na casa dos 30 t\u00eam mais probabilidades de continuar casadas devido \u00e0 sua melhor capacidade de tomar decis\u00f5es ponderadas.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Os jovens tendem a fazer escolhas imprudentes <\/strong>and often change their mind later. Some young couples get divorced after a first major fight. My mom would always say I will have better judgment when I get older and advised me to avoid rushed decisions, and it\u2019s really true.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. Permitir-se viver sozinho<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Sabe estar sozinho e desfrutar da sua pr\u00f3pria companhia. As pessoas que s\u00e3o auto-indulgentes n\u00e3o trar\u00e3o problemas de depend\u00eancia para o casamento <\/strong>e manter\u00e1 com sucesso uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, you know how to keep your condo tidy, how to cook a dinner for yourself. You are buying your groceries, paying the bills, etc. After you\u2019ve mastered all of this on your own, doing it as a couple will be a breeze.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. Agora \u00e9 capaz de gerir o dinheiro de forma sensata<\/h2>\n\n\n
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It’s been a long time since a tua m\u00e3e deixou de ser a tua gestora financeira<\/strong>. Now, you\u2019re the only one responsible for your spending or saving decisions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Aprender a gerir o dinheiro pode ser dif\u00edcil<\/strong>mas esses tempos j\u00e1 l\u00e1 v\u00e3o, certo? Neste momento, j\u00e1 sabe como organizar bem a sua vida e o seu dinheiro.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. Sobreviver a todos os desgostos tornou-te muito forte<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Oh, todas aquelas noites escuras da alma<\/strong>\u2026 Well guess what, that\u2019s all past now. Whatever happens, you can handle it while still standing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quando lembrar-se dos seus golpes emocionais e come\u00e7ar a rir<\/strong>. Now you know better! Being in your 30s rocks, doesn\u2019t it?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

8. A sua carreira tem uma dire\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n\n\n
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J\u00e1 tem experi\u00eancia no seu trabalho, sabe bem o que o espera e as suas fun\u00e7\u00f5es s\u00e3o bastante claras. Os tempos de competi\u00e7\u00e3o e de prova de si pr\u00f3prio acabaram. Isto deixa-o com energia e tempo suficientes para se concentrar na sua fam\u00edlia.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

You\u2019ve also aprendeu a fazer parte da equipa <\/strong>and it\u2019s quite a usable skill in marriage or any other relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

9. Os 30 anos fazem-nos sentir mais aut\u00eanticos e conhecedores<\/h2>\n\n\n
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In our 20\u2019s, temos tend\u00eancia a refletir os padr\u00f5es de comportamento dos nossos amigos mais pr\u00f3ximos<\/strong>, fulfill others\u2019 expectations be it family or society, and sometimes lose ourselves along the way. Muitos de n\u00f3s desligamo-nos do nosso \"eu\" aut\u00eantico.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

When you\u2019re more mature, come\u00e7a a prestar aten\u00e7\u00e3o aos seus impulsos interiores<\/strong>A pessoa sente-se livre para fazer o que quer e n\u00e3o tem vergonha da sua verdadeira personalidade.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

10. You\u2019re finally done with one-night-stands<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Oh, esses dias parecem t\u00e3o distantes. Agora procura la\u00e7os mais profundos e profundos com os homens.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Em vez da apar\u00eancia f\u00edsica, valoriza-se uma pessoa a um n\u00edvel mais hol\u00edstico.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

11. Constr\u00f3i um sistema de apoio s\u00f3lido<\/h2>\n\n\n
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By the time you\u2019re in your 30s, you\u2019ve established strong, long-lasting friendships. You\u2019ve figured out who is truly there for you<\/strong> e que era apenas um conhecido de passagem. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When you have a strong sense of belonging outside your romantic life, you\u2019re less likely to rely on your partner for every emotional need. This balance makes relationships stronger and healthier.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

12. Compreende o significado de compromisso<\/h2>\n\n\n
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In your 20s, everything is about you. What you want, what you feel, what you believe is right. And that\u2019s okay\u2014self-discovery is part of growing up. But with age comes the understanding that relationships aren\u2019t about winning or losing; they\u2019re about meeting halfway.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

By 30, you\u2019ve had enough experiences to compreender que ningu\u00e9m \u00e9 perfeito, e isso inclui-o a si.<\/strong> You know when to hold your ground and when to let things go. Marriage thrives on compromise, and by waiting, you\u2019ll enter it with the right mindset.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

13. Tem um melhor controlo emocional<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Os seus anos de juventude s\u00e3o muitas vezes preenchidos com altos e baixos emocionais, por vezes por causa das mais pequenas coisas. Uma mensagem de texto mal compreendida ou um telefonema n\u00e3o respondido podem atir\u00e1-lo para uma espiral. Mas \u00e0 medida que cresce, aprende a gerir melhor as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

By your 30s, you don\u2019t jump to conclusions as quickly. You don\u2019t let anger, jealousy, or insecurity dictate your actions.<\/strong> Em vez disso, aborda os problemas com paci\u00eancia e l\u00f3gica. Esta estabilidade emocional cria uma base muito mais saud\u00e1vel para uma parceria para toda a vida.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

14. V\u00ea os sinais de alerta com mais clareza<\/h2>\n\n\n
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When you\u2019re young, it\u2019s easy to brush off warning signs in relationships. You believe people will change, that love is enough, or that time will fix things. But life teaches you that ignoring red flags always leads to heartbreak.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Aos 30 anos, confia nos seus instintos. If something feels off, you don\u2019t ignore it. <\/strong>You recognize toxic patterns and know when to walk away. This awareness ensures that when you do settle down, it\u2019s with someone who truly deserves you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

15. Tem mais estabilidade financeira<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Your 20s are often a financial rollercoaster. You\u2019re figuring out how to budget, dealing with student loans, and maybe even struggling to make ends meet. But by your 30s, you\u2019ve built a more stable financial foundation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A marriage is not just about love\u2014it\u2019s also about coisas pr\u00e1ticas como a gest\u00e3o do dinheiro.<\/strong> Financial stress is one of the biggest causes of marital problems. By waiting until you\u2019re more financially secure, you reduce the chances of money-related conflicts in your marriage.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

16. Sabe como lidar melhor com os conflitos<\/h2>\n\n\n
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In your younger years, an argument can feel like the end of the world. You might storm off, give the silent treatment, or say things you regret. But by your 30s, you\u2019ve learned healthier ways to navigate conflicts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You understand that disagreements don\u2019t mean the relationship is doomed. Ouve-se mais, reage-se menos e concentra-se nas solu\u00e7\u00f5es <\/strong>em vez de provar um ponto de vista. Este n\u00edvel de intelig\u00eancia emocional fortalece qualquer parceria a longo prazo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

17. Desenvolve um maior sentido de independ\u00eancia<\/h2>\n\n\n
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In your 20s, you might still rely on your parents or a partner for certain aspects of your life. But by 30, you\u2019ve become fully independent. You make your own decisions, support yourself, and handle life\u2019s ups and downs on your own terms.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This independence means that when you do get married, it\u2019s a choice, not a necessity. You\u2019re not settling for someone just because you need help,<\/strong> companheirismo ou apoio financeiro. Escolhe-os porque eles complementam verdadeiramente a sua vida.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

18. Aprecia mais as pequenas coisas<\/h2>\n\n\n
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When you\u2019re younger, you might dream of grand romantic gestures\u2014flashy proposals, extravagant trips, and movie-style love stories. But as you mature, you realize that true love is found in the small, everyday moments.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Por volta dos 30 anos, valoriza um parceiro que se lembra de como toma o seu caf\u00e9,<\/strong> que manda mensagens para saber se chegou bem a casa e que o apoia de forma discreta e significativa. O casamento \u00e9 constru\u00eddo com base nestes actos simples de amor e esperar ajuda-o a reconhecer a sua import\u00e2ncia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

19. Tem objectivos de vida mais claros<\/h2>\n\n\n
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In your 20s, your priorities might shift constantly. One day, you want to travel the world; the next, you\u2019re considering a career change. Your dreams and ambitions are still taking shape, which can make it hard to align with someone else\u2019s vision for the future.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

At\u00e9 30, tem uma ideia mais clara do que quer. <\/strong>You know if you want kids, where you want to live, and what kind of life you want to build. This clarity ensures that when you marry, it\u2019s with someone who shares your long-term goals.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

20. Sente-se verdadeiramente preparado<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Perhaps the biggest reason to wait until your 30s is the simplest\u2014you\u2019ll feel ready. Not because society tells you it\u2019s time or because all your friends are doing it, but because you genuinely want to.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

There\u2019s no rush. Love isn\u2019t a race. When you reach your 30s, you\u2019ll know in your heart that you\u2019re marrying for the right reasons,<\/strong> e n\u00e3o apenas para assinalar um marco na vida. E isso, acima de tudo, \u00e9 o que faz um casamento durar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So girl, now you have the reasons to let it all age well. Don\u2019t rush things out!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I remember a time when I was 27 and found myself in the middle of marriage fever. It seemed everyone around me had found their life partner. Except for me. I was still putting my pieces together after a very ugly breakup. I was outraged by the fact everyone else but me had it all…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":164788,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29623],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-164782","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-marriage"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29623,"label":"marriage"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/10-Reasons-Not-To-Rush-Into-Marriage-Before-Your-30s-One-Is-Even-Career-Related-1024x576.jpg",1024,576,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29623,"name":"marriage","slug":"marriage","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29623,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Establishing a happy marriage is not an easy task. Learning how to recognize red flags and deal with issues will help you make your marriage successful.","parent":29620,"count":474,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29623,"category_count":474,"category_description":"Establishing a happy marriage is not an easy task. Learning how to recognize red flags and deal with issues will help you make your marriage successful.","cat_name":"marriage","category_nicename":"marriage","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/164782","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=164782"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/164782\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":194119,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/164782\/revisions\/194119"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/164788"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=164782"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=164782"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=164782"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}