{"id":164926,"date":"2024-05-28T11:19:59","date_gmt":"2024-05-28T11:19:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=164926"},"modified":"2024-05-28T11:19:59","modified_gmt":"2024-05-28T11:19:59","slug":"os-empregados-de-bar-partilham-dicas-de-seducao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/os-empregados-de-bar-partilham-dicas-de-seducao\/","title":{"rendered":"Os barmen partilham dicas comprovadas que v\u00e3o melhorar o seu jogo de sedu\u00e7\u00e3o"},"content":{"rendered":"

The art of flirting isn\u2019t something we are born with. However, it seems like some people are just talento natural para conquistar o cora\u00e7\u00e3o dos outros<\/strong>. Os empregados de bar s\u00e3o um deles.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trabalhar em diferentes bares nos meus vinte anos ensinou-me algumas compet\u00eancias \u00fateis para a vida. Desde lidar com o caos at\u00e9 engatar qualquer tipo de homem que me agrade, I\u2019ve learned it all. <\/strong>I\u2019ve also seen it all. Drunk people, strangers passionately kissing, provocative looks, failed dates but also really successful ones.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Por ver tantas pessoas a namoriscar, acho que at\u00e9 tenho um talento que me permite adivinhar se v\u00e3o ter sorte nos primeiros minutos do encontro. Penso que esta \u00e9 uma experi\u00eancia universal para todos os empregados de bar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I realized this when I went to a bar the other night. I started chatting with Mia who works there about my experience of working at a bar and we had so many same stories and situations we\u2019ve been in.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Candidat\u00e1mo-nos a um emprego para ganhar algum dinheiro, mas acab\u00e1mos por nos tornar especialistas em encontros e namoricos. O que acab\u00e1mos por concluir \u00e9 que o lado bom do flirt \u00e9 que as mesmas dicas funcionam para toda a gente<\/strong>. Believe me, we tested them all and figured out which ones were the best. Sharing is caring, so let\u2019s dive in.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

O bom contacto visual \u00e9 onde tudo come\u00e7a<\/h2>\n\n\n
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\"casal<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Quer esteja no seu primeiro encontro ou queira engatar algu\u00e9m de quem gosta, o contacto visual \u00e9 a melhor forma de captar a sua aten\u00e7\u00e3o<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Of course, you don\u2019t want to stare into their soul but make sure they know you noticed them. If you are having a conversation and only looking around, it will look like you\u2019re not interested and that\u2019s not what you want.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Um look sedutor \u00e9 tudo o que \u00e9 preciso para chegar onde quer<\/strong>. If you\u2019re afraid you would look like a serial killer choosing their next victim, try smiling gently as well, it helps!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A confian\u00e7a \u00e9 fundamental<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Uma boa dose de confian\u00e7a pode fazer com que at\u00e9 o maior dos tolos pare\u00e7a o mais encantador. As pessoas confiantes atraem toda a gente<\/strong> como um maldito \u00edman.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Se estiver confiante de que \u00e9 um bom rapaz ou uma boa mulher que vale a pena ter ao seu lado, muito provavelmente eles tamb\u00e9m pensar\u00e3o assim. Pelo menos, esse pensamento vai rodar na cabe\u00e7a deles sem que eles se apercebam. Fake it \u2018till you make it!<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Um toque ligeiro pode levar-nos longe<\/h2>\n\n\n
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\"homem<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

O tato \u00e9 um jogo muito perigoso e, por isso, t\u00e3o excitante! Pode levar-nos muito longe muito rapidamente (se \u00e9 que me entendem), cara piscante<\/em>).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A Mia concordou comigo quando cheg\u00e1mos a este t\u00f3pico e disse:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cI remember my date with this guy who was really attractive. I knew subtle touch here and there was a way to go. He would tell me a joke and I touched his shoulder while laughing. I used his knee to help me get down from the bar stool. These tiny little moments are so powerful. And let me tell you, it definitely got me to my final destination!\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Touch can also be tricky because it\u2019s very easy to cross someone\u2019s boundary. So always make sure to prestar aten\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0 sua linguagem corporal<\/strong>. Se a pessoa parecer desconfort\u00e1vel, mesmo que por um segundo, deve parar e talvez deixar para outra altura.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

They don\u2019t need to know your full life story<\/h2>\n\n\n
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\"homem<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Deve-se ser sempre um pouco misterioso quando se conhece novas pessoas. Escolha bem as suas palavras<\/strong> e dizer-lhes apenas o suficiente para os manter interessados e impacientes para saberem mais.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Uma noite, quando eu estava a trabalhar no bar, entrou um homem. Olhou nervosamente para o telem\u00f3vel e depois consultou o rel\u00f3gio v\u00e1rias vezes. Percebi que ele estava \u00e0 espera de algu\u00e9m. \u201cStarting strong, I see. Important date tonight?\u201d <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

He breathed out like he was relieved and confirmed. He quickly started venting about his most recent problems at work and in life like I have tattooed \u201cpsychologist\u201d on my forehead. I listened and offered some advice, but I didn\u2019t tell him much about myself<\/strong> para al\u00e9m de algumas coisas b\u00e1sicas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The next time he came to the bar, he wasn\u2019t waiting for anyone. He told me that he found me way more interesting than his date and that he couldn\u2019t stop thinking about me<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"I didn\u2019t even get your name! So now you owe me your name and a phone number.\u201d<\/em>brincou enquanto me entregava um papel e uma caneta. E isto, meus amigos, \u00e9 como se faz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Textos de sedu\u00e7\u00e3o criam o clima<\/h2>\n\n\n
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\"mulher<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

You maybe don\u2019t pay much attention to your texts, but this could be a great moment to start doing it. Good texts before your date can really help you to set the mood right when you meet. Try to make everything you write sound a bit flirty and don\u2019t be afraid to let them know you like them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

O pior que se pode fazer \u00e9 enviar respostas secas<\/strong> to their messages, but it\u2019s not good either when you\u2019re too annoying and don\u2019t let them breathe.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A Mia partilhou comigo a sua hist\u00f3ria de encontro falhado:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cMy friends wanted to connect me with one guy saying we could be a good match. So I decided to give them the green light and they gave him my number. After a day or two he sent me a text asking to meet me. I thought he would at least break the ice with some fun conversation so I could at least know what I was getting myself into. He just sent me the location and time and told me to meet him there. It felt like he was setting up a meeting with his colleague!\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Resumindo, ela nunca saiu com ele nem confiou a sua vida amorosa \u00e0s amigas. Quer dizer, sairias com um tipo desconhecido que s\u00f3 te mandasse a hora e a localiza\u00e7\u00e3o e nada mais?! Eu tamb\u00e9m n\u00e3o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Flirting is just a fun game and that\u2019s exactly how you should approach it. Ser brincalh\u00e3o e divertido<\/strong>experimentar coisas diferentes, e veja o que funciona melhor para si<\/strong>. Sejam voc\u00eas pr\u00f3prios, mas tamb\u00e9m tenham cuidado para n\u00e3o ultrapassarem os limites e tentem desfrutar do processo!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

The art of flirting isn\u2019t something we are born with. However, it seems like some people are just naturally talented in winning the hearts of others. Bartenders are one of them. Working at different bars in my twenties really taught me some useful life skills. From handling chaos to picking up any guy I like,…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":164929,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-164926","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/Bartenders-Share-Proven-Tips-That-Will-Step-Up-Your-Flirting-Game-1024x678.jpg",1024,678,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","parent":29643,"count":442,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29648,"category_count":442,"category_description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","cat_name":"dating tips","category_nicename":"dating-tips","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/164926","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=164926"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/164926\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":164935,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/164926\/revisions\/164935"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/164929"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=164926"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=164926"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=164926"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}