{"id":164936,"date":"2024-05-28T11:31:17","date_gmt":"2024-05-28T11:31:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=164936"},"modified":"2024-05-28T11:31:17","modified_gmt":"2024-05-28T11:31:17","slug":"como-namoriscar-no-instagram","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-namoriscar-no-instagram\/","title":{"rendered":"Como flertar no Instagram e conseguir um encontro"},"content":{"rendered":"

Okay, let\u2019s get real. We often use Instagram as a dating app. There, I said it! I am sorry, Mark Zuckerberg, it is what it is.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You sometimes find yourself stalking someone\u2019s profile, analyzing their pictures and stories while trying to figure out how to talk to them. Well, you\u2019re not alone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This is a reality for many people, but don\u2019t worry, I got your back! Just listen to me and vais dominar as tuas formas de entrar nas DMs deles e ficar l\u00e1. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sei que todo o conceito do Instagram pode ser um pouco complicado porque um passo em falso pode levar-nos a \u201cseen land\u201d<\/em> ou, pior ainda, uma lista de bloqueio. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

No entantoAs minhas t\u00e1cticas de sedu\u00e7\u00e3o no Instagram garantiram-me um homem<\/strong> so I think I know what I\u2019m talking about! But before we start, I have a question! What does your IG profile look like?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. O seu perfil \u00e9 uma janela para a sua vida<\/h2>\n\n\n
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\"Morena<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Try to look at your profile from someone else\u2019s perspective and see if you would accept your request in their place. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

As primeiras impress\u00f5es s\u00e3o sempre importantes e esta pode ser a sua \u00fanica hip\u00f3tese de chamar a aten\u00e7\u00e3o deles<\/strong> or a reply back. If you don\u2019t have a profile picture of yourself, your bio is empty, and your profile is locked, don\u2019t expect them to accept your request. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Personally, when I get a request from someone with a profile like that, I don\u2019t even think twice but decline it immediately. So make sure your profile looks attractive, and if they do accept your request, don\u2019t like all of their pictures immediately just because you\u2019re excited, take it slow.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Descontrair com os gostos<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Calm down, I get you, you don\u2019t know how to get their attention. Trust me, there are better ways to do it than attacking the like button. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong. Liking a few of their recent photos is a great way to get noticed at first but tamb\u00e9m pode parecer irritante ou mesmo estranho<\/strong>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

J\u00e1 tive situa\u00e7\u00f5es em que os rapazes gostavam de todas as minhas fotografias num espa\u00e7o de poucos minutos e, aten\u00e7\u00e3o, eu tinha sempre uma grande cole\u00e7\u00e3o de publica\u00e7\u00f5es. Pior ainda seria se eles gostassem delas a meio da noite, escolhendo apenas as que publiquei enquanto estava na praia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Honestly, it\u2019s giving Joe Goldberg energy. Don\u2019t be that guy that will end up in a girls’ group chat as a \u201cperseguidor assustador \u00e0 meia-noite<\/em>\u201d. Instead, play it cool, and if you wouldn\u2019t bother someone like that when you meet them in person, then why do it online?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Age como se fosses na vida real<\/h2>\n\n\n
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\"mulher<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

If you saw someone you like in public, would you approach them and start harassing them, saying inappropriate things? Well, let\u2019s hope not! <\/p>\n\n\n\n

People can get weird on social media because they get too comfortable and give themselves more freedom. Don\u2019t hide behind your profile and think you suddenly became someone else and then give completely different energy in person.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Lembre-se sempre que just because it\u2019s an online world, it doesn\u2019t mean it\u2019s not real<\/strong>. Being genuine and respectful will take you further than pretending you are something you\u2019re not.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I once went on a date with someone who seemed perfect over messages. However, when we finally met in person he was a weirdo and even attacked the waiter just because he didn\u2019t put ice in his drink! Safe to say I was shocked and never went out with him again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. Don\u2019t force things<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The best flow is the natural flow and honestly, this goes for everything in your life. My friends and I would often try to figure out what is the logic behind someone who repeatedly sends you a follow request and just doesn\u2019t give up.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Se o neguei ontem e 10 vezes antes, porque \u00e9 que acha que mudei de ideias? Isto s\u00f3 te pode tornar mais repulsivo<\/strong>e n\u00e3o o contr\u00e1rio. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

O mesmo se aplica \u00e0s mensagens. Deslizas para as DMs deles, mas eles deixam-te \u00e0 vista ou s\u00f3 te d\u00e3o respostas sem sa\u00edda? Por favor, pegue o sinal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. Palavras gentis podem abrir uma porta de ferro<\/h2>\n\n\n
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\"Mulher<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Este \u00e9 definitivamente o meu lema de vida. Pela minha experi\u00eancia, e isto aplica-se a todos os aspectos da vida, palavras cuidadosamente escolhidas conseguem muitas vezes o que se pretende<\/strong>. S\u00f3 precisa de saber como cri\u00e1-los da forma correcta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Foi assim que reservei um encontro com quem quisesse e acabei por me casar com um rapaz que conheci no IG!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I wouldn\u2019t just react with a fire emoji on his selfie, I took it to the next level. I would wait for him to post something about things he did or loved and then take it as a chance to start a conversation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cOmg! I didn\u2019t know you also loved that TV show. It\u2019s my favorite!\u201d<\/em> Something like this would always keep a conversation going for quite a while. It\u2019s also proven that as pessoas est\u00e3o mais dispostas a responder-lhe quando<\/strong> fazer-lhes uma pergunta<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So instead of only congratulating them for their achievement, ask them to tell you more about that experience. You can even ask for advice on something they\u2019re good at. If people like something, then it must be talking about themselves.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Lembre-se sempre de keep it casual and don\u2019t be too pushy<\/strong>. Pequenos erros podem custar-lhe muito. Pode parecer que \u00e9 preciso estar atento a muitas coisas, mas a pr\u00e1tica leva \u00e0 perfei\u00e7\u00e3o!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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