{"id":164944,"date":"2024-05-29T07:53:10","date_gmt":"2024-05-29T07:53:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=164944"},"modified":"2024-05-29T07:53:12","modified_gmt":"2024-05-29T07:53:12","slug":"por-que-e-que-a-geracao-z-esta-a-exagerar-nas-aplicacoes-de-encontros","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/por-que-e-que-a-geracao-z-esta-a-exagerar-nas-aplicacoes-de-encontros\/","title":{"rendered":"A Gera\u00e7\u00e3o Z est\u00e1 a dizer adeus \u00e0s aplica\u00e7\u00f5es de encontros e a dar as boas-vindas \u00e0 velha escola de encontros\u00a0"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I\u2019m so over dating apps! Seriously. I mean, how many times do I need to swipe left, swipe right, go on these meaningless dates, and then end with heartbreak or just wasted time?!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I sometimes feel as if I\u2019m just in this <strong>ciclo intermin\u00e1vel das mesmas experi\u00eancias<\/strong> with the same people, and it never stops! It\u2019s like every time I know the exact order of things that will happen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Estou farta de passar o dedo, depois finalmente vejo um tipo giro, combinamos e falamos um pouco, <strong>Fico com muitas esperan\u00e7as e acaba por ser um grande nada<\/strong>! Fico irritado s\u00f3 de pensar nisso.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This may sound crazy, but sometimes I think that it wouldn\u2019t be so bad to return to times when your parents would just find you a spouse and you would get married and that\u2019s it. End of the story.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">My parents would probably even find someone more decent for me than I would, considering my past choices\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pensei que estava sozinha neste sofrimento. No entanto, depois de ter dito que odiava os encontros online, os meus amigos vieram com recibos!&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">\u201cDamn it with the swiping already! I need a break.\u201d<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/young-worried-woman-looking-at-phone.jpg\" alt=\"jovem mulher preocupada a olhar para o telem\u00f3vel\" class=\"wp-image-164945\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/young-worried-woman-looking-at-phone.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/young-worried-woman-looking-at-phone-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/young-worried-woman-looking-at-phone-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/young-worried-woman-looking-at-phone-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/young-worried-woman-looking-at-phone-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/young-worried-woman-looking-at-phone-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/young-worried-woman-looking-at-phone-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/young-worried-woman-looking-at-phone-1200x795.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I feel like we all relate to this, right? It\u2019s just tiring to get excited over someone who seems promising at first just to end up being nothing close to what you imagined.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A <a href=\"https:\/\/www.forbes.com\/health\/dating\/dating-app-fatigue\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">inqu\u00e9rito<\/a> efectuada pela Forbes revelou que quase <strong>80% dos utilizadores da Gera\u00e7\u00e3o Z afirmaram estar exaustos com as aplica\u00e7\u00f5es de encontros.<\/strong> I mean, how wouldn\u2019t we be?! With so many options to choose from, it almost feels like you have a mile-long buffet with nothing that just tastes right.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Even though you might feel like dating apps will help you settle down, sometimes it\u2019s actually the opposite. It\u2019s easy to get <strong>sobrecarregado com demasiadas escolhas<\/strong>. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.soulmatesunlimited.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Judith Gottesman<\/a>, treinador de encontros e casamenteiro diz:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cIf you just go on date after date after date it feels like endless possibilities, but you\u2019re actually more likely to burn out sooner because you\u2019re just going on a bunch of random bad dates having negative experiences, and wasting a lot of time and money.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I once had my obsessive Tinder era. I constantly kept matching with people, talking, and going on dates. You\u2019d think I would\u2019ve found my prince by now. Well\u2026not really. The only thing I ended up with was empty social batteries and lost hope in my love life. Sounds familiar?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">\u201cI\u2019m sick of playing games. I want something real.\u201d<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Oh boy, I heard this one too many times. It\u2019s frankly quite annoying when you want that genuine connection and they just want\u2026nothing.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Also, let\u2019s be honest. Gen Z tends to overthink everything, and I really mean, <em>tudo<\/em>! From the way we respond to messages, and emojis we are using to how fast we should reply, it\u2019s simply too much.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Let\u2019s just agree that at this point <strong>it\u2019s so much easier to just meet someone in real life<\/strong> e falar com eles no local.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">My friend would make a whole damn strategic plan on when she would send a message based on the other person&#8217;s response time. If she dedicated this time and energy to her studies, I bet she would have a PhD by now!&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And don\u2019t even get me started on <strong>pessoas que fingem querer algo s\u00e9rio<\/strong> while in reality, they\u2019re just there for the ride. When you go through this multiple times, it can really affect you and your sanity.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">\u201cMy love life isn\u2019t the only one suffering. It\u2019s my mental health too.\u201d<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/worried-woman-texting.jpg\" alt=\"mulher preocupada a enviar mensagens de texto\" class=\"wp-image-164947\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/worried-woman-texting.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/worried-woman-texting-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/worried-woman-texting-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/worried-woman-texting-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/worried-woman-texting-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/worried-woman-texting-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/worried-woman-texting-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/worried-woman-texting-1200x795.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Muitos dos meus amigos (incluindo eu) tornaram-se auto-conscientes e inseguros desde os encontros online. Todas as rejei\u00e7\u00f5es e os padr\u00f5es inacredit\u00e1veis que algumas pessoas t\u00eam? Sim, eu sei tudo isso.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">De acordo com o mesmo inqu\u00e9rito,<strong> \u2018ghosting\u2019, poor connection, disappointment, and rejection<\/strong> est\u00e3o entre as principais raz\u00f5es pelas quais a Gera\u00e7\u00e3o Z j\u00e1 n\u00e3o usa aplica\u00e7\u00f5es de encontros.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Embora isto pare\u00e7a bastante racional, a Hinge revelou outra coisa! Os seus <a href=\"https:\/\/hinge.co\/press\/2024-GenZ-Report\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">relat\u00f3rio<\/a> afirma que <strong>o medo de ser ridicularizado \u00e9 uma das principais preocupa\u00e7\u00f5es da Gera\u00e7\u00e3o Z<\/strong>. Don\u2019t judge though, every generation has its challenges. I guess being cringe is ours.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But seriously now, dealing with these things can really be hard on some people. Sometimes it\u2019s easier to just delete the app and save yourself from misery.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">\u201cI don\u2019t trust people online.\u201d<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When you consider the world we live in, how could you trust anyone? I don\u2019t even feel safe walking down the street, let alone meeting someone I\u2019m not even sure it\u2019s the person saying they are.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">O inqu\u00e9rito revelou ainda que<strong> 38% dos utilizadores admitiram ter sido v\u00edtimas de catfishing e 18% foram expostos a algum tipo de abuso<\/strong>. Ent\u00e3o, algu\u00e9m pode culpar-nos por problemas de confian\u00e7a?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It\u2019s hard navigating the online world nowadays, especially with the rise of AI technologies that often bring more bad than good. I once matched with a guy whose every picture was AI-generated. He said he was 25 but he was actually in his 50s! Imagine the shock.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This is why meeting through a matchmaking agency can bring you peace of mind knowing they verify who you\u2019re meeting with.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tendo em conta a recente <a href=\"https:\/\/www.wokewaves.com\/posts\/gen-z-rejects-dating-apps-seeking-authentic-connections#:~:text=The%20growing%20disillusionment%20with%20these,Z%20makes%20up%20only%2026%25\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">relat\u00f3rio<\/a> e o facto de <strong>apenas 26% dos utilizadores de servi\u00e7os de encontros em linha s\u00e3o da Gera\u00e7\u00e3o Z<\/strong>Penso que as ag\u00eancias de casamentos t\u00eam um futuro brilhante!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Now, I know what you\u2019re thinking. How could we possibly be more into traditional dating when we\u2019re basically living online? 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