{"id":164997,"date":"2024-05-31T07:45:51","date_gmt":"2024-05-31T07:45:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=164997"},"modified":"2024-05-31T07:45:52","modified_gmt":"2024-05-31T07:45:52","slug":"a-avo-recusou-se-a-tomar-conta-do-bebe-de-graca","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-avo-recusou-se-a-tomar-conta-do-bebe-de-graca\/","title":{"rendered":"Os av\u00f3s devem ser obrigados a tomar conta de crian\u00e7as de gra\u00e7a?"},"content":{"rendered":"

My best childhood days always return me to the same place \u2013 my grandparents\u2019 house. I can still remember the coziness of their old armchair next to the fireplace. The sound of fire cracking and the smell of freshly baked cookies will forever be engraved in my mind.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Passei bastante tempo l\u00e1 e descobri que os meus av\u00f3s seriam ricos hoje se fossem pagos sempre que cuidassem de mim<\/strong>! I am sure they did it out of love, but still\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sabia que cerca de 60% dos av\u00f3s nos EUA cuidam regularmente dos seus netos?<\/strong><\/a> Embora isto possa n\u00e3o ser chocante, o facto de menos de 8% deles s\u00e3o pagos para o efeito <\/strong>\u00e9 mesmo!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Toda a gente sabe que adora os seus beb\u00e9s mais do que tudo no mundo. No entanto, imagine-se a criar os seus filhos, a trabalhar arduamente toda a sua vida e, quando finalmente se reforma, algu\u00e9m espera que tome conta deles de gra\u00e7a.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I would be one pissed-off grandma no matter how much I love those kids, that\u2019s for sure! One woman started a whole discussion on the internet\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Serei razo\u00e1vel por esperar que a minha m\u00e3e tome conta de mim de gra\u00e7a?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Imagine um dia em que os utilizadores do Reddit chegam finalmente a acordo sobre um tema. Pode parecer mais um epis\u00f3dio de Miss\u00e3o Imposs\u00edvel<\/em>, but we are living in that moment right now. I know, I also couldn\u2019t believe it! Wonder what\u2019s the topic?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Uma mulher virou-se para Reddit<\/a> para obter uma opini\u00e3o sobre um drama familiar. Pelos vistos, a sua m\u00e3e recusou-se a cuidar do seu rec\u00e9m-nascido<\/strong>. Grandmother said she was too old for that and had already done her part by raising her children (preach). This didn\u2019t sit right with a woman so she wrote:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cShe also added that if I really wanted this baby, then maybe I should have thought about staying home like she did to take care of it while my partner goes to work and provides for us like a “traditional” family, and that if she and my dad were able to work it out, so can we.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

A m\u00e3e explicou que as coisas est\u00e3o dif\u00edceis depois da pandemia e que eles can\u2019t survive on one income<\/strong> so she needs to go back to work. When you\u2019re the one making more money, you can\u2019t afford to be a stay-at-home mom. She continued:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cI as the higher breadwinner, have an internal obligation to go back to work since not only I have the most at stake, I also make the most to keep our family afloat. We are currently in a small, 1-bedroom apartment in a metropolitan area, and would need to save money to move to a 2-bedroom once the baby grows up in a couple of years as we will need more space.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Grandma couldn\u2019t say no to her daughter after all, but ela pediu para ser paga pelo servi\u00e7o de babysitting.<\/strong> Al\u00e9m disso, queria que lhe fornecessem tudo o que o beb\u00e9 precisasse, como uma cadeira de autom\u00f3vel, um carrinho de beb\u00e9 e muito mais.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ela terminou o post perguntando:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cSo, AITA for wanting my mom, who again is at home all day long (trust me, she does not do anything besides watch TV and cook meals), to take care of my baby for free while me and my partner try to fix our finances?\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Ela pediu, e os utilizadores do Reddit responderam!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The final Reddit\u2019s verdict is that\u2026<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Grandparents are not obligated to take care of their grandchildren! Even though they might have a lot of free time on their hands it doesn\u2019t mean they should spend it on working. And I totally agree!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Essas pessoas trabalharam toda a sua vida e mereceram a sua reforma. devem fazer o que quiserem com o seu tempo livre.<\/strong> If they want to sleep all day long and do nothing, it\u2019s their choice! One user wrote:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cIt\u2019s generous of her to be willing to do it for pay, and you have the gall to be mad she won\u2019t do it for free? She is entitled to spend her life and free time however the hell she wants. It\u2019s not her fault you\u2019re in debt and decided to have a baby you can\u2019t afford.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Muitas pessoas julgaram a m\u00e3e por n\u00e3o ter assumido a responsabilidade e n\u00e3o se ter preparado financeiramente antes de ter um filho.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Os mi\u00fados s\u00e3o caros! Estudos<\/a> mostrar que o custo da educa\u00e7\u00e3o de uma crian\u00e7a em 2024 \u00e9 de cerca de $306,924<\/strong> para as fam\u00edlias com rendimentos m\u00e9dios. E isto s\u00f3 at\u00e9 a crian\u00e7a ter 17 anos de idade! Por isso, se est\u00e1 a pensar em ter filhos, pense duas vezes!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Although all grandparents love spending time with their grandchildren (this is universal, right?), we need to understand their point of view too! We shouldn\u2019t be entitled to think we have free daycare just because our parents are retired and \u201chave nothing better to do\u201d. Trust me, they do.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If there\u2019s a simple, single solution to most of the problems humans face, it must be communication! Discuss\u00e3o aberta sobre as nossas expectativas<\/strong> com o nosso parceiro e fam\u00edlia antes das grandes decis\u00f5es pode salvar-nos de muitas dores de cabe\u00e7a. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Qual \u00e9 o seu veredito sobre esta quest\u00e3o? Partilhe a sua opini\u00e3o nos coment\u00e1rios!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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