{"id":165012,"date":"2024-05-31T13:46:34","date_gmt":"2024-05-31T13:46:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=165012"},"modified":"2024-05-31T13:46:34","modified_gmt":"2024-05-31T13:46:34","slug":"o-homem-nao-gosta-do-emprego-de-sonho-da-mulher","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/o-homem-nao-gosta-do-emprego-de-sonho-da-mulher\/","title":{"rendered":"Um homem tem um problema com o conte\u00fado da esposa nas redes sociais e pergunta-se se est\u00e1 errado"},"content":{"rendered":"

O seu marido deve ser compreensivo e apoiar as suas escolhas, at\u00e9 mesmo encoraj\u00e1-la a seguir o seu emprego de sonho. N\u00e3o \u00e9 verdade?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Well, it\u2019ll depend on many different factors. As pessoas tendem a ter v\u00e1rias prefer\u00eancias relativamente ao seu emprego de sonho<\/strong>, so someone’s dream job could seem inappropriate to their SO. If you need a reality check, Reddit is a great place to go. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The \u201csharent\u201d problem<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Um utilizador chamado throwrasutwy<\/em>partilhou a sua hist\u00f3ria e perspetiva sobre AITA<\/a> subreddit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cMy wife wants to be an influencer on TikTok and YouTube. She has been creating mommy content and content about her day to day life. When she told me this is something she wanted to do I didn\u2019t have a problem with I only said that I don\u2019t want our children (4m, 2f) in ANY of her content.<\/em><\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Fairly reasonable I would say, the man cares about the safety and privacy of his kids and I couldn’t agree more. He made it clear that ela podia fazer o que quisesse, desde que as crian\u00e7as n\u00e3o fizessem parte do seu conte\u00fado.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The man thought the simple warning would work it out, but after a while, he checked her channels, and to his great surprise he found his kids\u2019 faces in her content and got furious.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cI told her straight up she needs to remove all of her content, she said that she knew I wouldn\u2019t agree but she doesn\u2019t think this is a big deal.\u201d <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

He explained why he doesn\u2019t like to see the kids on social media: that kind of visibility makes them a \u201cproduct\u201d that brings profit and people (his wife actually!) start \u201cacting\u201d their ways of overcoming challenges of parenthood. He backs up his opinion with a good example:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201c… she posted a video of her getting our 2 yr old out of a tantrum and how she deals with it but how is your first instinct to record and hold a camera whilst our baby is crying.\u201d<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Uma amea\u00e7a de div\u00f3rcio<\/h2>\n\n\n
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\"Casal<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Quando throwrasutwy <\/em>asked his wife to remove the content, she was upset and didn\u2019t want to give up on her dream. She couldn\u2019t just erase everything she worked hard on, for months. The man was a casca dura<\/em>:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201c…if you don\u2019t delete it I will consider a divorce.\u201d<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

The Reddit poster continued explaining he wouldn\u2019t mind if his children were on Instagram or Facebook posts, but videos are different. They are exposing some intimate aspects of kids’ lives that he finds inappropriate to be shared. But the wife wouldn\u2019t give up on her dream:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cShe told her friends and even hinted on her social media accounts that she has an over controlling and narcissistic husband that doesn\u2019t want her on social media\u2026 \u201d<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

As amigas come\u00e7aram a gozar com ele e, a certa altura, he wasn\u2019t sure if he was being <\/strong>demasiado controlador ou narcisista.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Depois de algumas pessoas terem perguntado sobre o tipo de conte\u00fado que a sua mulher partilhava, ele acrescentou mais pormenores, explicando que a maior parte dos v\u00eddeos a mostravam a brincar ou a dar de comer \u00e0s crian\u00e7as, mas que ainda assim havia:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cthe 2 types of videos I have problems with is her recording our children tantrums and our 2 yr old still doesn\u2019t like clothes, we are trying to get her to wear them more but our house can be hot so she is in diaper alot. I don\u2019t like the videos of our daughter in her diapers.\u201d<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Apoio comunit\u00e1rio<\/h2>\n\n\n
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\"mulher<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Como devem imaginar, a comunidade do Reddit apoiou a sua rea\u00e7\u00e3o. Algu\u00e9m escreveu:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cNTA – people who make profits from their kid’s misery are the AHs here, and it seems like your wife is more interested in being a TikTok celebrity than being a caring wife and mother.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

No one should ever be shilling out their kids for likes and imaginary internet points.\u201d<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Everyone was disgusted by the way some influencers are exploiting their own children, and advised him to get a lawyer and protect his children. Some people said she wasn\u2019t respecting his boundaries, and called his wife disrespectful, exploitative, and the one who\u2019s being narcissistic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Outro <\/strong>partilhou um facto n\u00e3o t\u00e3o conhecido: a maioria dos os seguidores das m\u00e3es influenciadoras n\u00e3o s\u00e3o outras m\u00e3es, mas <\/strong>cretinos que gostam de olhar para crian\u00e7as<\/em><\/strong>.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Partilho inteiramente a opini\u00e3o p\u00fablica encontrada no Reddit. As crian\u00e7as s\u00e3o o tesouro mais precioso e devemos ter sempre o cuidado de as proteger.<\/strong> Espero que estes dois encontrem um terreno comum e cheguem a uma solu\u00e7\u00e3o que satisfa\u00e7a ambas as partes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you’re too concerned for the privacy of your own kids, make sure to read the full fio<\/a>.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Your hubby should be full of understanding and support your choices, even encourage you to pursue your dream job. Right? Well, it\u2019ll depend on many different factors. People tend to have various preferences regarding their dream job, so someone’s dream job could seem inappropriate to their SO. If you need a reality check, Reddit is…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":165015,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29814],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-165012","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29814,"label":"Stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/A-Man-Has-A-Problem-With-Wifes-Content-On-Social-Media-And-Wonders-If-Hes-Wrong-1024x576.jpg",1024,576,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29814,"name":"Stories","slug":"stories","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29814,"taxonomy":"category","description":"","parent":29651,"count":242,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29814,"category_count":242,"category_description":"","cat_name":"Stories","category_nicename":"stories","category_parent":29651}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/165012","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=165012"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/165012\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":165018,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/165012\/revisions\/165018"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/165015"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=165012"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=165012"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=165012"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}