{"id":165019,"date":"2024-05-31T15:59:22","date_gmt":"2024-05-31T15:59:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=165019"},"modified":"2024-05-31T15:59:22","modified_gmt":"2024-05-31T15:59:22","slug":"perguntas-da-geracao-z-sobre-namoro-com-os-millennials","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/perguntas-da-geracao-z-sobre-namoro-com-os-millennials\/","title":{"rendered":"Mulher da Gera\u00e7\u00e3o Z questiona a sua decis\u00e3o de sair com Millenials depois de receber esta mensagem"},"content":{"rendered":"

Lembro-me de uma vez em que estava a conversar com um tipo da gera\u00e7\u00e3o do mil\u00e9nio. Ele era p\u00e9ssimo a enviar mensagens de texto, n\u00e3o tinha emojis, gifs, nada! Eu estava sempre a tentando descodificar os seus sentimentos por detr\u00e1s das mensagens<\/strong> que ele me enviou. \u00c9 seguro dizer que nunca consegui relaxar completamente.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Although there wasn\u2019t much chemistry going on, I decided to go out with him and give him a chance because he seemed sweet. God, I made such a mistake.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I never expected a few years of age gap would be such a challenge! He didn\u2019t understand any of the slang I\u2019m used to saying so I spent half of our date just explaining Gen Z terms to him. I felt like a fricking dictionary!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And just imagine my pain when he said he never used TikTok. Great, I thought, now I can\u2019t even reference viral trends and he won\u2019t understand my humor!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Portanto, sim, depois deste encontro apercebi-me que maybe Gen Z and millennials aren\u2019t so compatible<\/strong> after all. However, it turns out I\u2019m not alone in this thought\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cIs he a bad texter or is he 35?\u201d<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Criadora do TikTok, Elizabeth Castaldi dividiu a Internet com os seus 7 segundos de v\u00eddeo<\/a>! Ela foi a um encontro com um homem de 35 anos e acabou chocada depois de receber a sua mensagem no dia seguinte<\/strong>. Imagina acordar no dia a seguir ao teu encontro todo entusiasmado e receber esta mensagem:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cHey, had fun last night. Have a good day.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n

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\"mulher<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Yeah, I would be confused too, but maybe that\u2019s only because I\u2019m Gen Z too? Well, after all, um simples emoji nunca fez mal a ningu\u00e9m<\/strong>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Honestly, he had me in the first half. But then what\u2019s with this passive-aggressive second sentence? I feel like even the emoji wouldn\u2019t be able to save it from sounding so formal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A Isabel provocou toda a guerra entre a gera\u00e7\u00e3o Z e os millennials<\/strong> in the comments! Her peers related to her saying he\u2019s texting with that energia do pai<\/em>. Algumas at\u00e9 partilharam as suas lutas de tentativas desesperadas para decifrar as mensagens dos seus namorados milenares.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Outros, no entanto, ficaram do lado dos seus colegas millennials:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201c35 here. I see no issue with that. Because it’s what I send. I want to gauge if you had a good time. To set up another date.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

They also said she shouldn\u2019t overthink it because it\u2019s simply the way they text everyone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Este TikTok foi tamb\u00e9m uma chamada de aten\u00e7\u00e3o porque algumas pessoas perceberam que estavam a ficar velhas desde they genuinely didn\u2019t understand what was wrong<\/strong> com a mensagem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Muitos millennials nos coment\u00e1rios (aben\u00e7oada seja a sua alma) foram at\u00e9 suficientemente corajosos para aceitar o seu destino e pedir simplesmente conselhos sobre como enviar mensagens de texto melhor. Os utilizadores da Gera\u00e7\u00e3o Z, claro, salvaram o dia com todas as dicas!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Uma vez que Elizabeth intrigou toda a gente com a sua vida amorosa, era justo dar aos outros um seguimento da sua hist\u00f3ria!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afinal, alguns textos n\u00e3o s\u00e3o assim t\u00e3o dif\u00edceis de decifrar<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

She admitted she didn\u2019t mind the first message as much but she was confused if he wanted to see her again. Without waiting for her date to break the ice, ela<\/strong> seguiu o conselho dos seus seguidores e convidou-o a sair<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nesta altura, estava t\u00e3o empenhado, mas, felizmente, ela partilhou outro TikTok<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n

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\"m\u00e3os<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Depois de ter manifestado o seu desejo de o ver na quarta-feira, ele respondeu:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cNext week might be a little crazy with work as I have some deals closing. Basically not sure I\u2019d be able to make it to RI. So maybe we play it by ear a little.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Okay, let\u2019s address the elephant in the room \u2013 \u201cplay it by ear\u201d<\/em>? I mean, who speaks like that to their date?! This is probably Gen Z speaking out of me, but still\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Depois de ver esta conversa, os seus seguidores concordaram finalmente com a mesma coisa<\/strong> \u2013 he\u2019s not interested. One girl gave her friendly advice:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cIf he\u2019s not organizing a second date it\u2019s simple, he\u2019s not interested in you, and that\u2019s ok, move on girl.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

It looks like sometimes some texts send a clear message, we just need to open our eyes and be real with ourselves. However, even if you\u2019re dating someone with an age gap, don\u2019t lose hope! <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pode sempre ensin\u00e1-los a enviar mensagens de texto melhor e a serem directos nas suas necessidades<\/strong>. If they really care about you, sending an emoji here and there, and leaving formal texting for work colleagues shouldn\u2019t be an issue!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I remember this one time when I was chatting with a millennial guy. He was awful at texting, no emojis, gifs, nothing! I was always trying to decode his feelings behind the messages he sent me. Safe to say I could never fully relax. Although there wasn\u2019t much chemistry going on, I decided to go…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":165043,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29814],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-165019","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29814,"label":"Stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/Gen-Z-Woman-Questions-Her-Decision-To-Date-Millenials-After-Receiving-This-Message-1024x678.jpg",1024,678,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29814,"name":"Stories","slug":"stories","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29814,"taxonomy":"category","description":"","parent":29651,"count":242,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29814,"category_count":242,"category_description":"","cat_name":"Stories","category_nicename":"stories","category_parent":29651}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/165019","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=165019"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/165019\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":165049,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/165019\/revisions\/165049"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/165043"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=165019"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=165019"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=165019"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}