{"id":16507,"date":"2018-03-15T13:52:22","date_gmt":"2018-03-15T13:52:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16507"},"modified":"2022-02-26T11:42:49","modified_gmt":"2022-02-26T11:42:49","slug":"foste-a-minha-licao-mais-dura","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/foste-a-minha-licao-mais-dura\/","title":{"rendered":"Tu foste a minha li\u00e7\u00e3o mais dif\u00edcil"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quando entraste na minha vida pela primeira vez, eu tinha a certeza de que <\/span>foste a minha b\u00ean\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/b> Eras tudo aquilo por que sempre rezei. <\/span><\/p>\n

You were smart, interesting, handsome and mature. I thought I\u2019d finally found my other half, my soulmate. For the first time ever, my life made perfect sense with you in it. <\/span><\/p>\n

Completaste-me<\/span>\u2014<\/span>you were the missing part of the puzzle. I\u2019d met someone who understood me, who took care of me and who was always by my side, no matter what. <\/span><\/p>\n

Mas, acima de tudo, tinha algu\u00e9m que me amava incondicionalmente. Pelo menos era isso que eu pensava. Considerava que o teu amor por mim era de outro mundo. <\/span><\/p>\n

N\u00f3s os dois \u00e9ramos um par feito no c\u00e9u<\/span>\u2014<\/span>O destino deve ter-te enviado para mim, n\u00e3o havia outra explica\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/span><\/p>\n

And then everything changed overnight. Actually, you changed and it probably didn\u2019t happen overnight or maybe you showed your true face? <\/span><\/p>\n

Seja como for, acordei uma manh\u00e3 e soube que a nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o estava condenada. Mas continuei a lutar para a manter viva. Continuei a lutar contra ti. Mas nada ajudou. <\/span><\/p>\n

Tornaste-te distante e emocionalmente abusivo. Deixaste de me mostrar o quanto gostavas de mim<\/span>\u2014<\/span>provavelmente porque deixaste de te preocupar. <\/span><\/p>\n

I realized that you had been too good to be true in the beginning and I\u2019d finally seen your true colors. You\u2019d become selfish and controlling and then all the affairs started. <\/span><\/p>\n

But I didn\u2019t leave you even then. I lost all the confidence I had and I just waited for you to go back to your old ways. I wasn\u2019t stupid<\/span>\u2014<\/span>Eu sabia que me andavas a enganar, mas recusava-me a aceitar a verdade. <\/span><\/p>\n

I was ready to stay by your side, although it killed me knowing I wasn\u2019t the only one for you. I reassured myself that you only loved me and that not one of these girls were important to you. Until one day, you left me for one of them. <\/span><\/p>\n

E, ao faz\u00ea-lo, destruiu todo o meu mundo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Quando me deixaste, <\/span>Pensei nisso como uma maldi\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/b> Pensei que era a pior coisa que me podia acontecer. O que \u00e9 que eu fiz para merecer uma coisa destas? <\/span><\/p>\n

Why couldn\u2019t you love me? I did everything right but even that wasn\u2019t enough. Fate had given you to me just to show me what love was. And having to live without you was my curse. <\/span><\/p>\n

Para mim, a minha vida tinha chegado ao fim<\/span>\u2014<\/span>j\u00e1 n\u00e3o tinha qualquer objetivo ou significado. <\/span><\/p>\n

When you left, you didn\u2019t just take yourself away from me<\/span>\u2014<\/span>levaste o meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o contigo<\/span><\/a> e n\u00e3o tinha qualquer esperan\u00e7a de um amanh\u00e3 melhor. <\/span><\/p>\n

Fiquei de rastos, desfeito em peda\u00e7os e nunca imaginei que pudesse recuperar. Passei os meus dias \u00e0 espera que voltasses, apesar da forma como me trataste e da forma como me deixaste. <\/span><\/p>\n

That is a period of my life I don\u2019t remember gladly. I just know that I didn\u2019t see the light at the end of the tunnel until one morning, you weren\u2019t the first thing that crossed my mind. <\/span><\/p>\n

And when I realized that during the day, I was ecstatic. I didn\u2019t know how or why it happened but I hoped that I was about to begin my path to recovery. <\/span><\/p>\n

And I was right. It wasn\u2019t easy and it wasn\u2019t fast but it happened. I got over you and I moved on.<\/span><\/p>\n

E <\/span>Agora percebo que n\u00e3o foste nem uma b\u00ean\u00e7\u00e3o nem uma maldi\u00e7\u00e3o. Foste uma li\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> Tive de aprender. <\/b><\/p>\n

I still believe that everything happens for a reason. And you were sent to my life for a reason. Although I don\u2019t think that my life is meaningless without you anymore, I am sure that your existence in it had a bigger purpose. <\/span><\/p>\n

If it weren\u2019t for you, I would never have learned how strong I actually am. You leaving me has made me a lot tougher and braver. Now I know that if I can get over you, I can also take whatever life throws at me.<\/span><\/p>\n

If it weren\u2019t for you, I would never have learned that I shouldn\u2019t believe everyone from the very start. <\/span><\/p>\n

Antes de te conhecer, partia do princ\u00edpio de que toda a gente \u00e0 minha volta era honesta e n\u00e3o tinha m\u00e1s inten\u00e7\u00f5es. <\/span><\/p>\n

Mas depois de ti, apercebi-me que existem pessoas m\u00e1s, pessoas que gostam de fingir que s\u00e3o algo que n\u00e3o s\u00e3o. H\u00e1 pessoas que gostam de brincar com os outros e que gostam de fazer os outros infelizes. Tu \u00e9s uma dessas pessoas. <\/span><\/p>\n

If it weren\u2019t for you, I would never have learned that I should never put so much love, effort and patience into someone who doesn\u2019t do the same for me.<\/span><\/p>\n

If it weren\u2019t for you, I would never have known what it is that I don\u2019t want from life.<\/span><\/p>\n

If it weren\u2019t for you, I would have spent the rest of my life without knowing what true love is all about.<\/span><\/p>\n

If it weren\u2019t for you, I would never <\/span>aprendi a amar-me a mim pr\u00f3prio<\/span><\/a>. When you left, I had this enormous amount of love I didn\u2019t know what to do with. <\/span><\/p>\n

Continuei \u00e0 procura de algu\u00e9m a quem dar o meu amor, at\u00e9 que percebi que tinha de o dar primeiro a mim pr\u00f3pria, antes de amar outra pessoa.<\/span><\/p>\n

Por isso, obrigado por teres entrado na minha vida. Mas ainda mais, obrigado por a teres deixado. E <\/span>thank you for teaching me a lesson I\u2019d never have learned otherwise.<\/b><\/p>\n

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When you came in to my life for the first time, I was sure that you were my blessing. You were everything I had always prayed for. You were smart, interesting, handsome and mature. I thought I\u2019d finally found my other half, my soulmate. For the first time ever, my life made perfect sense with…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":16509,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16507","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/timothy-barlin-439512-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16507","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16507"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16507\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/16509"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16507"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16507"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16507"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}