{"id":165075,"date":"2024-06-03T10:49:32","date_gmt":"2024-06-03T10:49:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=165075"},"modified":"2024-07-08T09:13:47","modified_gmt":"2024-07-08T09:13:47","slug":"mitos-sobre-os-homens","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/mitos-sobre-os-homens\/","title":{"rendered":"Vamos desmistificar os mitos e quebrar os estere\u00f3tipos sobre os homens"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I\u2019ve been wrong about men my entire life. I\u2019m not afraid to admit it. It\u2019s not easy to grow up and live in a world that\u2019s full of stereotypes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I couldn\u2019t know any better because that\u2019s what I was taught in school, what I saw in movies, and read on the internet. Luckily, <strong>Consegui ultrapassar os meus preconceitos e deixar todos os estere\u00f3tipos para tr\u00e1s<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Although the guys I dated weren\u2019t a perfect match for me, they taught me a thing or two about men in general. Who knew there are so many things about men we got completely wrong?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">\u201cReal men don\u2019t cry\u201d<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/Tough-man.jpg\" alt=\"Homem duro\" class=\"wp-image-165077\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/Tough-man.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/Tough-man-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/Tough-man-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/Tough-man-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/Tough-man-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/Tough-man-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/Tough-man-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/Tough-man-1200x795.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Starting strong with the famous quote known to everyone! Come on, we live in the 21st century for God\u2019s sake! I thought we\u2019d be over with this by now.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A sociedade retrata os homens como seres que andam por a\u00ed sem uma \u00fanica preocupa\u00e7\u00e3o na cabe\u00e7a. Desde crian\u00e7as que vemos filmes onde <strong>Os homens s\u00e3o mostrados como sendo duros como uma rocha e sem emo\u00e7\u00f5es.&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That\u2019s obviously not the case and we shouldn\u2019t treat it as a condition to be considered manly. Even cartoon characters like Millhouse in the Simpsons are <strong>sempre ridicularizado por ser rom\u00e2ntico e emotivo.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Por vezes esquecemo-nos de que os homens tamb\u00e9m s\u00e3o humanos e que, por isso, t\u00eam emo\u00e7\u00f5es, positivas e negativas, que precisam de ser expressas sem serem ridicularizadas.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">\u201cAsking for help is a sign of weakness\u201d<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>While I was living with my parents, my dad was in charge of repairing everything in our house and backyard. Mind you, he\u2019s not a construction worker, electrician, or anything similar. Man is in finances!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>However, that didn\u2019t stop him from<strong> <\/strong>trying to do it all alone. He would spend hours repairing something, looking at YouTube tutorials, and annoying himself just so he wouldn\u2019t ask for help.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Este problema est\u00e1 profundamente enraizado na nossa <strong>cren\u00e7a de que um homem deve ser capaz de fazer tudo sozinho.<\/strong> Da mesma forma, as pessoas esperam que todas as mulheres saibam cozinhar, limpar e cuidar das crian\u00e7as, e elas s\u00e3o envergonhadas quando pedem ajuda.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Even if your first thought was that you knew men sometimes need help with physical stuff, you\u2019re still biased. Who says they don\u2019t need help with the mental workload as well?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">\u201cMental health issues affect only women\u201d<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/Strong-man-standing.jpg\" alt=\"Homem forte de p\u00e9\" class=\"wp-image-165078\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/Strong-man-standing.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/Strong-man-standing-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/Strong-man-standing-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/Strong-man-standing-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/Strong-man-standing-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/Strong-man-standing-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/Strong-man-standing-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/Strong-man-standing-1200x795.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>This stereotype is exactly why men don\u2019t seek help when they need it. They are<strong> deixados sozinhos para resolverem os seus problemas<\/strong> and don\u2019t talk about them. They are made to feel less of a man if they speak up and admit that it\u2019s all too much for them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s unbelievable how much we evolve as people but still get stuck in some stupid misconceptions that should have been left in the past a long time ago. A shocking <a href=\"https:\/\/www.cdc.gov\/nchs\/data\/databriefs\/db433.pdf\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">dados<\/a> revelou que <strong>os homens representam 78% do total das taxas de suic\u00eddio<\/strong> nos Estados Unidos!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Apesar de este ser um facto terr\u00edvel, ser\u00e1 realmente surpreendente? Este facto deveria ser um <strong>alerta para acabar finalmente com o estigma<\/strong> de uma vez por todas. A masculinidade n\u00e3o \u00e9 determinada pela capacidade de mascarar os nossos sentimentos. Ponto final.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">\u201cShowing feelings takes away your masculinity\u201d<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Uma vez fui a um jogo de basquetebol com a minha amiga para apoiar o irm\u00e3o mais novo dela. No final do jogo, a equipa advers\u00e1ria conseguiu marcar o remate vencedor e ganhou o jogo.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sentou-se no campo todo desiludido e triste, enquanto as l\u00e1grimas lhe corriam pela cara. Foi ent\u00e3o que o seu treinador se aproximou dele e come\u00e7ou a gritar:&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>\u201cWhat are you doing?! Toughen up, be a man!\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>Quem disse aos homens que t\u00eam de ser machos a toda a hora? Eles s\u00e3o humanos, n\u00e3o s\u00e3o malditos cofres resistentes a absolutamente tudo!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Mostrar sentimentos \u00e9 a coisa mais m\u00e1scula que um homem pode fazer!<\/strong> They\u2019re exposing the deepest parts of themselves they usually hide. That\u2019s brave and something only strong people can do!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>E sim, os homens s\u00e3o os nossos protectores, provedores e o nosso lugar seguro, mas <strong>precisam tamb\u00e9m de algu\u00e9m que os ou\u00e7a<\/strong> e apreci\u00e1-los.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If they\u2019re only burying things deep in themselves, they\u2019ll become a ticking bomb waiting to explode. Swiping things under the carpet doesn\u2019t make them disappear. It just makes a huge bump and an opportunity to trip and fall.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I\u2019ve been wrong about men my entire life. I\u2019m not afraid to admit it. It\u2019s not easy to grow up and live in a world that\u2019s full of stereotypes. I couldn\u2019t know any better because that\u2019s what I was taught in school, what I saw in movies, and read on the internet. Luckily, I managed&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":165076,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-165075","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/Lets-Debunk-The-Myths-And-Break-Stereotypes-About-Men-1024x576.jpg",1024,576,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? 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