{"id":165237,"date":"2024-06-05T07:45:15","date_gmt":"2024-06-05T07:45:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=165237"},"modified":"2024-06-05T07:45:15","modified_gmt":"2024-06-05T07:45:15","slug":"homem-magoado-a-mulher-nao-mostrou-emocoes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/homem-magoado-a-mulher-nao-mostrou-emocoes\/","title":{"rendered":"Homem surpreendido por a sua mulher n\u00e3o lhe ter implorado para ficar quando ele pediu o div\u00f3rcio"},"content":{"rendered":"

Women are told that they\u2019re too dramatic their whole life. We\u2019re too sensitive when people hurt us, too emotional when something goes wrong, and doing too much when we\u2019re happy. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Para al\u00e9m disso, os homens atribuem muitas vezes tudo isto aos nossos sintomas de TPM e \u201cthat time of the month\u201d<\/em>, and even go so far as to declare us crazy. So, we end up being labeled just because they don\u2019t know how to deal with our emotions!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Os homens esperam sempre que as mulheres fa\u00e7am birras por causa de um div\u00f3rcio e criem o caos<\/strong>, but they don\u2019t know that a divorce for some women is actually a blessing, not a curse.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

When we finally hit rock bottom and can\u2019t tolerate any more nonsense we calmly leave, then everyone\u2019s surprised we didn\u2019t show any emotions. So, who\u2019s the crazy one here?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Div\u00f3rcio sem mais nem menos<\/h2>\n\n\n
\n
\"mulher<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Imagine saying to someone you don\u2019t love them anymore but then you feel hurt when they decide to leave. Some people are just incredibly entitled! <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Foi exatamente o que aconteceu a uma mulher que partilhou a sua hist\u00f3ria no Reddit<\/a> para desabafar. Aparentemente, o marido chegou a casa um dia e deu-lhe os pap\u00e9is do div\u00f3rcio sem qualquer explica\u00e7\u00e3o. <\/strong>She didn\u2019t even know why as she explains in her post:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\n

\u201cI read them over and asked why, he told me he was in love with somebody else, his co-worker, and wanted to marry her. I said ok and began the process of moving out.\u201d <\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Ela disse que, felizmente, tinha a sua casa onde podia ficar e decidiu ir para l\u00e1. Depois de levar todos os seus pertences, incluindo tudo o que pagou, foi-se embora. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

She was also smart enough to get herself a lawyer to represent her. Since she works at a law firm, her colleague agreed to help her in the process. You would think that this is where the story ends, but actually it\u2019s just starting!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ele esperava que ela lutasse por ele<\/h2>\n\n\n
\n
\"casal<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Apesar de ter sido o marido a pedir o div\u00f3rcio, acabou por ficar mais zangado do que ela. Ela escreveu:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\n

\u201cMy husband contacted me a couple of weeks ago, angry that I had taken all of my things and moved out. He was even more angry that I didn’t have any emotional response and didn’t \u2018fight for him.\u2019 I explained that there was no use throwing a tantrum about divorce and that I take time to process things.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Isto feriu-lhe mesmo o ego, por isso acusou-a de ser fria e come\u00e7ou a insult\u00e1-la<\/strong> in multiple ways. But it didn\u2019t end there. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Depois da audi\u00eancia no tribunal, os insultos continuaram. Ele n\u00e3o s\u00f3 lhe chamou nomes feios como tamb\u00e9m afirmou que ela estava a fazer batota<\/strong> on him with her attorney. She finished her post by saying she\u2019s happy she divorced him even though he now seems to regret it. What a surprise!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ela lidou com o div\u00f3rcio como uma chefe!<\/h2>\n\n\n
\n
\"homem<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

A apresenta\u00e7\u00e3o dos pap\u00e9is do div\u00f3rcio n\u00e3o \u00e9 certamente uma sensa\u00e7\u00e3o agrad\u00e1vel. No entanto, Agir como um louco e desesperado n\u00e3o o levar\u00e1 a lado nenhum.<\/strong> If anything it can only make the other side more satisfied. That\u2019s why it\u2019s always interesting to see someone surprised because you didn\u2019t react in the way they expected. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This lady set an example of how divorce should be handled! Don\u2019t give them the satisfaction of begging them to stay, because that\u2019s exactly what they want.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Os utilizadores do Reddit tamb\u00e9m manifestaram o seu apoio \u00e0 mulher dizendo she definitely broke this man\u2019s fragile ego!<\/strong> Algu\u00e9m comentou:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\n

\u201cHe leaves you for someone else and then gets mad that you don\u2019t scream and cry for him, not because he would consider changing his mind, but because he wanted the ego boost.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Outros elogiaram-na pela sua confian\u00e7a e ela at\u00e9 respondeu dizendo levou anos para se tornar suficientemente confiante<\/strong> para agir desta forma e que os seus colegas do escrit\u00f3rio de advogados a ajudaram a tornar-se mais forte. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

No final desta experi\u00eancia selvagem, chegou tamb\u00e9m \u00e0 conclus\u00e3o de que ele<\/strong> provavelmente tinha ci\u00fames do seu advogado.<\/strong> Acrescentou:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\n

\u201cMy colleague is everything that my STBX is not. He has a stable job, owns a house, drives a nice car, is pretty conventionally attractive, and has confidence. I think my STBX is jealous and I didn’t realize that.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Well, this surely explains a lot of things, don\u2019t you think? I even wonder if there ever was a co-worker he wanted to leave her for or if it was part of his plan and tentativa falhada de a deixar n\u00e3o s\u00f3 com ci\u00fames, mas tamb\u00e9m desesperada e a implorar.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Or\u2026hear me out! He was just testing the waters and nunca esperei que ela dissesse sim ao div\u00f3rcio <\/strong>mas sim ficar ao lado dele e tolerar o seu mau comportamento, como fazem algumas mulheres. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Qual \u00e9 a sua opini\u00e3o? Ela deveria ter reagido de forma diferente?<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Women are told that they\u2019re too dramatic their whole life. We\u2019re too sensitive when people hurt us, too emotional when something goes wrong, and doing too much when we\u2019re happy.  On top of that, men often attribute all of it to our PMS symptoms and \u201cthat time of the month\u201d, and even go so far…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":165244,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29814],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-165237","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29814,"label":"Stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/Man-Surprised-His-Wife-Didnt-Beg-Him-To-Stay-When-He-Asked-For-Divorce-1024x678.jpg",1024,678,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29814,"name":"Stories","slug":"stories","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29814,"taxonomy":"category","description":"","parent":29651,"count":242,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29814,"category_count":242,"category_description":"","cat_name":"Stories","category_nicename":"stories","category_parent":29651}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/165237","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=165237"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/165237\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":165245,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/165237\/revisions\/165245"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/165244"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=165237"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=165237"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=165237"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}