{"id":165243,"date":"2024-06-05T08:33:09","date_gmt":"2024-06-05T08:33:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=165243"},"modified":"2024-06-05T08:33:13","modified_gmt":"2024-06-05T08:33:13","slug":"bandeiras-verdes-na-casa-dos-homens","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/bandeiras-verdes-na-casa-dos-homens\/","title":{"rendered":"A terapeuta explica o que as mulheres consideram como bandeiras verdes na casa de todos os homens"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Estava a planear o nosso casamento na minha cabe\u00e7a at\u00e9 que fui a casa dele uma noite.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It\u2019s not an exaggeration to say I was shocked! Immediately at the door, I was greeted by his shoes which were everywhere but in the cabinet!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This man\u2019s home looked like nobody lived in it for years! Trash everywhere, piles of dirty dishes in the sink and mess all over the place.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Caros homens,<strong> we don\u2019t expect your home to be spotless<\/strong>, ours isn\u2019t either. But not living in a dumpster is definitely a good start! Of course, to be considered a real catch in women\u2019s eyes, you will need more than just a clean living space.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ent\u00e3o, <strong>what tells a woman you\u2019re a \u2018green flag guy\u2019<\/strong> quando ela for a tua casa?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">O terapeuta Jeff Guenther decidiu ajudar o seu p\u00fablico masculino e partilhou dicas valiosas. Pediu \u00e0s mulheres que revelassem o que consideram ser essas bandeiras verdes e partilhou-as no TikTok.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It\u2019s not surprising that women had a lot to say, so he made a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@therapyjeff\/video\/7372573417175911723?embed_source=121374463%2C121433650%2C121404359%2C121351166%2C121331973%2C120811592%2C120810756%2C72248227%3Bnull%3Bembed_name&amp;refer=embed&amp;referer_url=www.upworthy.com%2Ftherapist-lists-green-flags-women-look-for-when-visiting-a-potential-partners-home&amp;referer_video_id=7372573417175911723\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">v\u00eddeo<\/a> composto pelos principais coment\u00e1rios que deixaram. At\u00e9 o Jeff acha que estas coisas s\u00e3o muito f\u00e1ceis de implementar e podem ser acrescentadas \u00e0 sua casa num instante.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Quick and easy improvements she\u2019ll love<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Many things could improve your living space so much. This one can be done in two minutes \u2013 <strong>cobertor no sof\u00e1.<\/strong> As mulheres t\u00eam frequentemente frio, pelo que esta \u00e9 a solu\u00e7\u00e3o perfeita para o efeito. Al\u00e9m disso, pode aproveitar esta oportunidade para se abra\u00e7ar enquanto mant\u00e9m a sua rainha quente.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Para tornar este ambiente ainda melhor, <strong>manter uma ou duas velas por perto.<\/strong> They look and smell nice, women love them, and you\u2019ll be considered a romantic soul! What\u2019s better than that?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Os mimos e as velas podem levar-vos ao quarto, por isso certifiquem-se de que t\u00eam tudo pronto, como <strong>len\u00e7\u00f3is bonitos na cama!<\/strong> Jeff diz que os len\u00e7\u00f3is pretos ou azul-marinho n\u00e3o s\u00e3o muito apelativos para as senhoras, por isso pode facilmente destacar-se entre os outros incorporando apenas um pouco de cor na sua casa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/modern-bed-with-grey-sheets.jpg\" alt=\"cama moderna com len\u00e7\u00f3is cinzentos\" class=\"wp-image-165256\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/modern-bed-with-grey-sheets.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/modern-bed-with-grey-sheets-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/modern-bed-with-grey-sheets-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/modern-bed-with-grey-sheets-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/modern-bed-with-grey-sheets-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/modern-bed-with-grey-sheets-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/modern-bed-with-grey-sheets-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/modern-bed-with-grey-sheets-1200x795.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Estes s\u00e3o os essenciais da casa de banho<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When it comes to the bathroom, we\u2019re starting strong with a bidet. Although this wouldn\u2019t come to your mind at first, <strong>o bid\u00e9 \u00e9, de facto, uma coisa muito \u00fatil de se ter<\/strong> com ou sem mulheres em sua casa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/White-ceramic-toilet-and-bidet-in-modern-restroom.jpg\" alt=\"Sanita e bid\u00e9 em cer\u00e2mica branca numa casa de banho moderna\" class=\"wp-image-165257\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/White-ceramic-toilet-and-bidet-in-modern-restroom.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/White-ceramic-toilet-and-bidet-in-modern-restroom-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/White-ceramic-toilet-and-bidet-in-modern-restroom-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/White-ceramic-toilet-and-bidet-in-modern-restroom-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/White-ceramic-toilet-and-bidet-in-modern-restroom-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/White-ceramic-toilet-and-bidet-in-modern-restroom-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/White-ceramic-toilet-and-bidet-in-modern-restroom-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/White-ceramic-toilet-and-bidet-in-modern-restroom-1200x795.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Unlike the bidet, some things shouldn\u2019t be found in the bathroom like hair on the vanity. We can be guilty of this as well so we understand. However, <strong>tentar manter a casa de banho limpa e sem as aparas da barba<\/strong> <strong>em todo o lado<\/strong>Pelo menos antes de ter convidados!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Estes n\u00e3o s\u00e3o os \u00fanicos elementos essenciais que as mulheres querem ter na casa de banho, <strong>produtos de \u00e9poca<\/strong> <strong>como pensos e tamp\u00f5es <\/strong>are also nice to have around. You don\u2019t know what to buy? Then ask your girlfriends what they use and buy it all, Jeff advises.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A pr\u00f3xima coisa na lista \u00e9 at\u00e9 parva de mencionar, mas Jeff diz:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cHand soap and hand towel in the bathroom. How\u2019s this not already a staple in everyone\u2019s bathroom? On behalf of all men, I apologize. Do better!\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">While we\u2019re already there, <strong>a<\/strong> <strong>caixote do lixo<\/strong> <strong>na casa de banho tamb\u00e9m n\u00e3o pode faltar! <\/strong>Quer dizer, ser\u00e1 que precisamos de explicar isto?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">As tr\u00eas principais bandeiras verdes<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When you decide to decorate your shelves with candles, here\u2019s one more thing you can add there \u2013 <strong>livros interessantes, de prefer\u00eancia com autoras mulheres! <\/strong>Mas fazer isto apenas para ter sexo n\u00e3o o levar\u00e1 muito longe. Queremos ver-vos a ler esses livros!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Now, although you maybe didn\u2019t plan to become a cat dad, this might be a good time to visit an animal shelter. <strong>Os homens que gostam de animais e que cuidam bem deles s\u00e3o a bandeira verde instant\u00e2nea. <\/strong>Poder\u00e1 perguntar-se, porqu\u00ea especificamente um gato?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Well, it\u2019s easy to love a dog who happily greets you at the door every day, loving a cat that\u2019s grumpy 90% of the time is a skill. If you can care well for an animal that barely loves anyone, we\u2019ll probably be happy with you as well.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>A primeira coisa da lista \u00e9 ter plantas! <\/strong>Jeff terminou o v\u00eddeo dizendo:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cNo surprise to me at all but plants that are alive, preferably plants that are not only alive but are thriving. If the plants are happy to be there, then so are the women.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nos coment\u00e1rios, as mulheres concordaram com tudo o que foi dito, mas tamb\u00e9m mencionaram que <strong>a<\/strong> <strong>os padr\u00f5es para os homens s\u00e3o demasiado baixos.<\/strong> Uma mulher comentou:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cBAR. SOOO. LOW. If any of my female friends couldn\u2019t check all these boxes, I would question their sanity. But collectively most cis, hetero dudes have kept the bar so low that these are green flags.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So guys, don\u2019t let your home look like it\u2019s abandoned. We don\u2019t ask for much! Invest in a couple of things and keep it clean, we\u2019ll appreciate it more than you know!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I was planning our wedding in my head until I went to his place one night. It\u2019s not an exaggeration to say I was shocked! Immediately at the door, I was greeted by his shoes which were everywhere but in the cabinet! This man\u2019s home looked like nobody lived in it for years! 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