{"id":165305,"date":"2022-06-05T12:16:00","date_gmt":"2022-06-05T12:16:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=165305"},"modified":"2024-06-05T12:19:37","modified_gmt":"2024-06-05T12:19:37","slug":"1-nao-lhe-telefonar-e-nao-lhe-enviar-mensagens","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/1-nao-lhe-telefonar-e-nao-lhe-enviar-mensagens\/","title":{"rendered":"1. n\u00e3o lhe telefonar e n\u00e3o lhe enviar mensagens"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/worried-woman-looking-at-her-phone.jpg\" alt=\"mulher preocupada a olhar para o telem\u00f3vel\" class=\"wp-image-165310\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/worried-woman-looking-at-her-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/worried-woman-looking-at-her-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/worried-woman-looking-at-her-phone-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/worried-woman-looking-at-her-phone-18x12.jpg 18w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Sei que tem vontade de lhe contar tudo e de o fazer sofrer, mas isso \u00e9 a pior coisa que pode fazer. A regra de ouro \u00e9 n\u00e3o lhe telefonar e n\u00e3o lhe enviar mensagens.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you do text him or even worse call him, he\u2019ll think that everything\u2019s like it used to be, and you\u2019re still that silly woman, begging for an apology.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Don\u2019t do that. You have to let him know that he hurt you, but you\u2019re not mad at him \u2013 you\u2019re disappointed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yelling on the phone will only have a countereffect, and you don\u2019t want to confuse him or make him think you\u2019re desperate. You\u2019re not.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You\u2019re perfectly aware of what happened, and you have every right to be disappointed. Yelling will only mean you\u2019re mad at him, but if you ignore him, he will soon regret what he\u2019s done to you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div id=\"hide-grow-widget\"><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I know you have the urge to tell him everything and make him suffer, but that\u2019s the worst thing you can do. The golden rule is not to call him and not to text him. If you do text him or even worse call him, he\u2019ll think that everything\u2019s like it used to be, and&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-165305","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-blog"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":1,"label":"Blog"}]},"featured_image_src_large":false,"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":1,"name":"Blog","slug":"blog","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":1,"taxonomy":"category","description":"","parent":0,"count":497,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":1,"category_count":497,"category_description":"","cat_name":"Blog","category_nicename":"blog","category_parent":0}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/165305","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=165305"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/165305\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":165312,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/165305\/revisions\/165312"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=165305"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=165305"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=165305"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}