{"id":165322,"date":"2024-06-06T07:03:11","date_gmt":"2024-06-06T07:03:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=165322"},"modified":"2024-06-06T07:03:13","modified_gmt":"2024-06-06T07:03:13","slug":"a-mae-que-fica-em-casa-e-tudo-em-um","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-mae-que-fica-em-casa-e-tudo-em-um\/","title":{"rendered":"Ser uma m\u00e3e que fica em casa \u00e9 como ser um aparelho familiar completo"},"content":{"rendered":"

O que \u00e9 a SAHM?<\/em> you were probably wondering when you first encountered an abbreviation for a stay-at-home mom. The next thing you must\u2019ve thought is \u201cWell, it\u2019s great, she gets to <\/em>spend a day playing with the kids and rests on the couch watching Netflix\u201d<\/em><\/strong>.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u00e3o fazes ideia!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

To tell you the truth, the good side of being SAHM is that you have the chance to be present in your kids\u2019 special moments. You\u2019ll see their first steps, hear their first words, watch them learn and grow<\/strong>, comfort them when they cry\u2026 <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Besides witnessing their milestones there\u2019s a lot more to do. Being a stay-at-home mom is a full-time job that\u2019ll require you to work overtime <\/strong>and you\u2019ll have to deal with very ruthless and demanding bosses \u2013 your children.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Para mim, tudo come\u00e7ou quando o meu teste de gravidez deu positivo, fiquei demasiado entusiasmada e decidi:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI want to be a supermom!\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Quando a minha filha mais velha, Emma, nasceu, Fiz uma pausa na minha carreira e tornei-me numa m\u00e3e que fica em casa<\/strong>. My idea of the role was quite different from what I experienced every day in my \u201ctenure\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong, we all love to spend time with our kids but sometimes it can be so draining and overwhelming. You\u2019re juggling so many responsibilities on a daily basis. <\/strong>Compared to this, regular office multitasking seems like duck soup. You\u2019re always on the clock!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, you\u2019re wearing many hats.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cIn the morning I am the babysitter\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Acordamos, o pap\u00e1 sai para o trabalho, e depois as minhas filhas e eu desfrutamos de um longo pequeno-almo\u00e7o<\/strong>. When it\u2019s done we clean the messy table, and it’s playtime. Sometimes we go out in the yard or we stay in if it rains. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Brinco com a minha filha e, ao mesmo tempo, ajudo a Emma com os trabalhos de casa. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI\u2019m the family\u2019s chef \u00e0 la carte\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"mulher<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Preparo refei\u00e7\u00f5es separadas para o beb\u00e9 e depois preparo o almo\u00e7o para a Emma e para n\u00f3s,<\/strong> the grown-ups. Sometimes Emma refuses to eat the food that\u2019s on the menu, so I always have a fast backup plan to fill her belly. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

A massa faz sempre o truque, mas depois after lunch, there\u2019s a dish-jam at the kitchen top and in the sink.<\/strong> It\u2019s time for the chef to roll up her sleeves and clean the mess.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cIt\u2019s school time and I become the driver\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Aperto o cinto de seguran\u00e7a das minhas duas filhas nas cadeiras do carro e vamos para a escola. Depois de deixamos a Emma em casa, <\/strong>passamos por l\u00e1 para fazer compras e comprar alguns artigos para a casa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Everything is put in the trunk and we can go back. When we arrive home, it’s nap time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWhen the baby is asleep I shapeshift into a housekeeper\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Finally, it\u2019s time to put everything in the dishwasher. Aquela pilha de roupa suja est\u00e1 a chorar para ir para a m\u00e1quina de lavar.<\/strong> Tenho de limpar o p\u00f3 e aspirar a sala de estar e, por vezes, a casa toda. Mas antes de limpar, tenho de p\u00f4r os brinquedos nas caixas!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Finalmente, a nossa casa tem um aspeto decente, o beb\u00e9 ainda est\u00e1 a dormir e eu posso passar para o meu pr\u00f3ximo papel.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI\u2019m the lady of the house and general affairs manager\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Eu fa\u00e7o notas sobre consultas e planos de vacina\u00e7\u00e3o, redigir outra lista de compras,<\/strong> e organizar repara\u00e7\u00f5es de electrodom\u00e9sticos, se necess\u00e1rio.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Verifico se as crian\u00e7as precisam de roupas ou sapatos novos, que brinquedos did\u00e1cticos podem ser \u00fateis e que as sementes de flores que recebi na outra semana devem ser plantadas agora.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cAt night I put my glasses on and transform into a finance manager\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"mulher<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Algu\u00e9m tem de pagar as contas para manter a \u00e1gua a correr e para ter as luzes acesas. I fazer or\u00e7amentos, contas e facturas.<\/strong> Also, I plan our investments \u2013 maybe it\u2019s time for a new stroller or a bicycle. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ok, I must admit my husband helps me sometimes, but with all these roles and duties, phew\u2026 I\u2019m starting to feel a burnout coming my way.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI can\u2019t cope and I\u2019m like \u2018Babe, I\u2019ve had enough!\u2019\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

He\u2019s confused and doesn’t get it. I\u2019m upset and emotional, feeling underappreciated for all I\u2019ve been doing lately<\/strong>. He just goes to work and that\u2019s all. I\u2019m exhausted, of course I\u2019m nervous and then he accuses me of spreading bad vibes. It\u2019s just not fair!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Esta \u00e9 a NOSSA casa e os mi\u00fados s\u00e3o os NOSSOS mi\u00fados, por isso euIsso significa que temos de trabalhar em conjunto para manter tudo arrumado e garantir que as crian\u00e7as est\u00e3o alimentadas, felizes e saud\u00e1veis.<\/strong> I don\u2019t have to take care of everything on my own, ALL THE TIME!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Depois de passarmos v\u00e1rios dias a discutir, finalmente encontr\u00e1mos um terreno comum. Este \u00e9 o nosso novo acordo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cSharing is caring! Even if it means we are sharing a burden.\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Exatamente, partilhamos todas as tarefas. I get to keep my roles of chef, driver, and babysitter and he\u2019s in charge of the general affairs and finances<\/strong> (with a little help from me, of course). Also, he cooks on the weekends. \ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dividimos as tarefas dom\u00e9sticas<\/strong>, so he\u2019s responsible for the laundry, vacuuming, and dusting. I do the dishes and ironing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

At\u00e9 agora tudo bem. Estamos a uma equipa de sonho.<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Por isso, rapariga, s\u00ea inteligente e evita exagerar. You won\u2019t be a supermom if you\u2019re tired as a fading sunset<\/strong>. It\u2019s not only about you, the kids deserve a happy mom, able to join their plays. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Poupe-se! Fa\u00e7a um plano antecipado e partilhe todas as responsabilidades com o seu marido. Gostava de ter sabido isto desde o in\u00edcio.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

What in the world is SAHM? you were probably wondering when you first encountered an abbreviation for a stay-at-home mom. The next thing you must\u2019ve thought is \u201cWell, it\u2019s great, she gets to spend a day playing with the kids and rests on the couch watching Netflix\u201d. You have no idea! To tell you the…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":165323,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29623],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-165322","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-marriage"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29623,"label":"marriage"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/Being-A-Stay-At-Home-Mom-Feels-Like-Being-An-All-In-One-Family-Appliance-1024x678.jpg",1024,678,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29623,"name":"marriage","slug":"marriage","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29623,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Establishing a happy marriage is not an easy task. Learning how to recognize red flags and deal with issues will help you make your marriage successful.","parent":29620,"count":474,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29623,"category_count":474,"category_description":"Establishing a happy marriage is not an easy task. Learning how to recognize red flags and deal with issues will help you make your marriage successful.","cat_name":"marriage","category_nicename":"marriage","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/165322","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=165322"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/165322\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":165326,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/165322\/revisions\/165326"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/165323"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=165322"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=165322"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=165322"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}