{"id":165545,"date":"2025-02-04T17:00:00","date_gmt":"2025-02-04T16:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=165545"},"modified":"2025-02-03T16:11:15","modified_gmt":"2025-02-03T15:11:15","slug":"nunca-troque-isto-por-um-homem","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nunca-troque-isto-por-um-homem\/","title":{"rendered":"15 coisas que nunca deves fazer por um homem, por mais louca que estejas por ele"},"content":{"rendered":"
I once had a friend I literally couldn\u2019t recognize after one year. If she passed by me on the street, I wouldn\u2019t realize it was her unless someone told me. And we\u2019ve been friends for years!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
It\u2019s not only her appearance that suddenly changed, but also her behavior, opinions, and values she considered really important. We would talk to each other and I would think to myself, who is this person?!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
And no, she didn\u2019t go through some major change in her life or decide she wanted to be a completely different person. She just had a crazy boyfriend. Yes, you heard that right.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
O amor leva-nos a fazer coisas estranhas. Acabei de me aperceber que tamb\u00e9m me perdi completamente numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o em que estava perdidamente apaixonada.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Agora, quando olho para tr\u00e1s, Lamento muitas<\/strong> things I\u2019ve done for him, <\/strong>but I\u2019m not afraid to admit it. Figured I\u2019d share my mistakes so at least you can learn from them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Por isso, oi\u00e7am-me com aten\u00e7\u00e3o! Nunca, e quero dizer NUNCA:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
1. Mudar a sua apar\u00eancia<\/h2>\n\n\n
\nCanva<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n
He thinks you should lose some weight or gain a couple of pounds? If you\u2019re happy with yourself the way you are, then don\u2019t change for him! Estas s\u00e3o as coisas que s\u00f3 deve fazer para si pr\u00f3prio<\/strong> para que te possas sentir bem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
O mesmo se aplica a tudo o resto, da cabe\u00e7a aos p\u00e9s. Ele gosta de cabelo comprido e louro? Ent\u00e3o leve-o ao cabeleireiro e ele pode fazer o penteado que quiser, em si pr\u00f3prio!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
2. Abandonar os amigos<\/h2>\n\n\n
\nCanva<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n
A real man knows you need to have lives outside of your relationship. Being together 24\/7 is not good for anyone! If you leave all your friends, then who\u2019ll listen to your drama namorado\/marido<\/em> e dar-vos sess\u00f5es de terapia gratuitas?\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Provavelmente conheces as tuas filhas h\u00e1 mais tempo do que ele. Os amigos s\u00e3o uma parte inevit\u00e1vel das nossas vidas.<\/strong> They always support us and they\u2019ve been there for us through our every relationship and heartbreak. Don\u2019t leave them for a man you\u2019re not even sure is the one.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
3. Sacrificar o seu bem-estar<\/h2>\n\n\n
\nCanva<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n
When you\u2019re feeling good and healthy, you immediately have more energy to put into other things, like your relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
O seu bem-estar deve ser sempre a sua prioridade n\u00famero um<\/strong> e v\u00eam antes de tudo e de todos. Se perderes a sanidade ou mesmo a sa\u00fade f\u00edsica, nada mais importa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
You shouldn\u2019t feel like you\u2019re walking on eggshells around him. Your man needs to make your life easier, and always aim to make you feel happy, safe, and satisfied.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
4. Aceitar menos do que merece<\/h2>\n\n\n
\nCanva<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n
I think we\u2019ve all been there \u2013 settling for some fast food place when in reality we wanted to dine in some fancy restaurant. Well, don\u2019t do this when it comes to your partners!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Has he ever told you you\u2019re too much to handle? If yes, the only right thing to do is deixem-no encontrar algu\u00e9m do seu n\u00edvel.<\/strong> E tu, querida, devias atirar para as estrelas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sometimes we desperately want to be loved, so much we\u2019re ready to give up on our standards just so we\u2019re not alone on a Friday night. But you and I both know this isn\u2019t the right thing to do.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
5. Troca a tua liberdade <\/h2>\n\n\n
\nCanva<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n
Se fosses um p\u00e1ssaro, trocarias a tua liberdade por uma pequena gaiola? Claro que n\u00e3o! Ent\u00e3o, porque \u00e9 que o faria por um homem?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Love shouldn\u2019t feel like a federal prison. Um verdadeiro homem nunca te impedir\u00e1 de viver a tua vida<\/strong>explorar a sua paix\u00e3o, ou fazer o que lhe apetecer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The first time he tries to stop you from going out with your friends or wearing that dress you love\u2026girl, just leave and don\u2019t look back.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
6. Permitir comportamentos violentos e desrespeitosos<\/h2>\n\n\n
\nCanva<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n
Imagine que a sua amiga vem ter consigo a chorar, dizendo que o namorado lhe levantou a m\u00e3o ou mesmo apenas a voz. Sei que lhe dirias para fazer as malas e ir embora! <\/p>\n\n\n\n
I don\u2019t think we even need to explain this, but you should nunca justificar este comportamento, aconte\u00e7a o que acontecer! <\/strong>Esta \u00e9 mais uma raz\u00e3o para ter amigos a quem se pode telefonar a meio da noite, se necess\u00e1rio.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Se alguma vez se encontrarem nesta situa\u00e7\u00e3o, corram pela vossa vida. Esta \u00e9 a \u00fanica decis\u00e3o correcta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
7. Esquece quem \u00e9s<\/h2>\n\n\n
\nCanva<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n
I\u2019m definitely guilty of this. I remember myself being full of life with an adventurous spirit and ambitions through the roof before I met him. I loved him madly and he was scared of my potential, so I made myself smaller to fit into his mold.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
God, I was so stupid. And the worst thing? It\u2019s absolutely never worth the guy you\u2019re doing this for. S\u00ea sempre aut\u00eantico e verdadeiro contigo mesmo!<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n
When you lose the things that make you who you are, it\u2019s so easy to lose everything else without realizing it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
8. Deixar os seus passatempos<\/h2>\n\n\n
\nCanva<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n
Have you always loved to silence the world while you\u2019re painting or get your frustrations out by going to the gym? Well, what changed?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Os nossos passatempos e paix\u00f5es s\u00e3o o que nos mant\u00e9m vivos<\/strong> and bring happiness to our lives. We can\u2019t throw everything away just because we are also committing our time to someone else.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The fact you\u2019re in a relationship with someone doesn\u2019t mean you have to become the same person. If he loves lazy Sundays and watching football, but you prefer to go out in nature, tu \u00e9s tu, rapariga! <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n
9. Desistir dos seus objectivos<\/h2>\n\n\n
\nCanva<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n
Lembras-te dos teus sonhos antes de o conheceres? Querias tirar o curso, viajar pelo mundo e come\u00e7ar o teu pr\u00f3prio neg\u00f3cio. Adivinha? Ainda podes fazer tudo aquilo com que sempre sonhaste!<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n
You don\u2019t have a child you have to dedicate 100% of your time, damn it. Although men sometimes do act like kids. But that\u2019s a story for another time. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Um verdadeiro homem encoraj\u00e1-la-\u00e1 a seguir a sua paix\u00e3o<\/strong> and he\u2019ll be happy to support all your goals even if that\u2019s not something he would do. But your life is your life only. Do what makes you happy!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
10. Silencia a tua voz<\/h2>\n\n\n
\nCanva<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n
Don\u2019t hold back your opinions just because he might not agree with you. A healthy relationship means you can agree to disagree and still love each other. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
As vossas opini\u00f5es s\u00e3o importantes e os vossos sentimentos s\u00e3o v\u00e1lidos.<\/strong> Nunca deixes que ningu\u00e9m te diga outra coisa. E se o fizerem, bem, j\u00e1 sabes o que fazer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Love can be a beautiful thing when you\u2019re with the right person who loves you exactly as you are.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Aquela coisa que o incomoda e que ele quer que mude, algu\u00e9m procura em cada pessoa que conhece. H\u00e1 8 bili\u00f5es de pessoas no mundo, acredita em mim, you\u2019ll find someone who will appreciate every part of you.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n
11. Apologize for things that aren\u2019t your fault<\/h2>\n\n\n
\nCanva<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n
Look, we\u2019ve all been there\u2014saying \u201csorry\u201d just to keep the peace. But if you start apologizing for things that aren\u2019t your fault, it\u2019s a slippery slope. Before you know it, you\u2019re apologizing for having emotions, for needing support, for existing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A man who truly loves you won\u2019t make you feel guilty for expressing your feelings or having boundaries.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n
Os seus sentimentos s\u00e3o t\u00e3o v\u00e1lidos como os dele, e uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o deve ser uma via de dois sentidos, n\u00e3o uma viagem de culpa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
12. Arranjar desculpas para o seu mau comportamento<\/h2>\n\n\n
\nCanva<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n
Oh, he\u2019s just stressed. He had a tough childhood. He\u2019s going through a lot right now. Sound familiar? I used to be the rainha da justifica\u00e7\u00e3o do mau comportamento<\/strong>, but at the end of the day, we\u2019re all responsible for our own actions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
If he treats you poorly, that\u2019s on him\u2014not on his past, not on his job, not on you. The moment you find yourself constantly making excuses for him, take a step back and ask yourself: Would he do the same for you? Or would he just call you \u201ctoo emotional\u201d?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
13. Mudar as suas cren\u00e7as para corresponder \u00e0s dele<\/h2>\n\n\n
\nCanva<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n
One minute, you\u2019re standing firm in what you believe in. The next, you\u2019re nodding along to his opinions even though they make your stomach turn.<\/strong> N\u00e3o, rapariga. Apenas n\u00e3o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
It\u2019s okay to have different opinions, but it\u2019s not okay to erase yours just to avoid conflict. If you have to reshape your entire belief system to keep him around, then he\u2019s not with tu<\/em>\u2014he\u2019s with a version of you that he created. And that\u2019s not love.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
14. Deixa-o controlar o teu dinheiro<\/h2>\n\n\n
\nCanva<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n
This one\u2019s tricky because relationships often involve shared expenses. But if he\u2019s deciding what you should spend, how much you can save, or questioning every little purchase, that\u2019s a red flag the size of a football field.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n
Your financial independence matters. Even if you\u2019re in a relationship, you should always have control over your own money. You work hard for it, and no one gets to dictate how you use it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
15. Perder a sua independ\u00eancia<\/h2>\n\n\n
\nCanva<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n
Being in a relationship doesn\u2019t mean you stop being an individual. YTinhas uma vida antes dele e deves continuar a ter uma vida com ele.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n
If he gets upset when you do things on your own\u2014whether that\u2019s taking a solo trip, making a big decision, or even just going out without him\u2014he\u2019s not looking for a partner, he\u2019s looking for control. A man who truly loves you will celebrate your independence, not try to take it away.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
I once had a friend I literally couldn\u2019t recognize after one year. If she passed by me on the street, I wouldn\u2019t realize it was her unless someone told me. And we\u2019ve been friends for years! It\u2019s not only her appearance that suddenly changed, but also her behavior, opinions, and values she considered really important….<\/p>","protected":false},"author":34,"featured_media":165548,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29649],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-165545","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-girl-talk"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29649,"label":"girl talk"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/10-Things-You-Should-Never-Do-No-Matter-How-Crazy-Youre-About-Him-1024x678.jpg",1024,678,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Inna Williams","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/inna\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29649,"name":"girl talk","slug":"girl-talk","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29649,"taxonomy":"category","description":"This place is reserved for all the spicy insights about the steamy details between the sheets, male fantasies and ways to make him crazy about you.","parent":29643,"count":180,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29649,"category_count":180,"category_description":"This place is reserved for all the spicy insights about the steamy details between the sheets, male fantasies and ways to make him crazy about you.","cat_name":"girl talk","category_nicename":"girl-talk","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/165545","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/34"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=165545"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/165545\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":196707,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/165545\/revisions\/196707"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/165548"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=165545"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=165545"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=165545"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}
![\"\"](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/Change-your-appearance.jpg\")
![\"amigos](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/friends-on-lunch-together.jpg\")
![\"\"](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/Sacrifice-your-well-being.jpg\")
![\"mulher](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/pretty-woman-smiling-on-the-beach.jpg\")
![\"\"](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/Trade-your-freedom-.jpg\")
![\"homem](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/man-yelling-on-woman.jpg\")
![\"\"](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/Forget-who-you-are.jpg\")
![\"mulher](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/woman-with-painting-pallete.jpg\")
![\"\"](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/Give-up-on-your-goals.jpg\")
![\"\"](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/Silence-your-voice.jpg\")
![\"\"](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/Apologize-for-things-that-arent-your-fault.jpg\")
![\"\"](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/Make-excuses-for-his-bad-behavior.jpg\")
![\"\"](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/Change-your-beliefs-to-match-his.jpg\")
![\"\"](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/Let-him-control-your-money.jpg\")
![\"\"](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/Lose-your-independence.jpg\")