{"id":165600,"date":"2024-06-14T15:14:16","date_gmt":"2024-06-14T15:14:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=165600"},"modified":"2024-07-08T09:16:02","modified_gmt":"2024-07-08T09:16:02","slug":"pense-nisto-antes-de-se-encontrar-com-o-ex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/pense-nisto-antes-de-se-encontrar-com-o-ex\/","title":{"rendered":"7 perguntas importantes a fazer a si pr\u00f3prio antes de se encontrar com o seu ex"},"content":{"rendered":"

Alguns convites para p\u00f4r a conversa em dia durante um caf\u00e9 s\u00e3o mais excitantes do que outros. E exigem uma melhor prepara\u00e7\u00e3o, tanto emocional como f\u00edsica. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Getting a text from your ex wanting to meet up can be both confusing and unexpected at the same time. Suddenly, all the memories come to your mind, emotions are going on a roller coaster, and you\u2019re not even sure what to do.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Haver\u00e1 uma hip\u00f3tese de um novo come\u00e7o, de uma conclus\u00e3o ou ser\u00e1 um desastre completo? <\/strong>I\u2019ve been there so I completely understand and get what you feel. You have a full right to simply block him and ignore the text. But if you decide to go out with him, <\/strong>don\u2019t rush anything.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Before jumping on that wagon, consider some crucial questions. You don\u2019t wanna end up having another heartbreak, do you? Then listen to me and ask yourself:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. O que \u00e9 que eu quero ganhar com isto?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Conhecer o seu objetivo \u00e9 muito importante em tudo o que faz. Podem encontrar-se com ideias completamente diferentes na vossa mente. \u00c9 por isso que seria bom check if you\u2019re on the same page.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Precisa de encerrar o assunto, quer reconquist\u00e1-los ou quer apenas p\u00f4r as vossas vidas em dia? Saber what you want or why you\u2019re meeting up with them <\/strong>tornar\u00e1 toda a experi\u00eancia muito mais f\u00e1cil e deixar\u00e1 menos hip\u00f3teses de desilus\u00e3o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Uma vez, encontrei-me com o meu ex e, na minha cabe\u00e7a, estava a pensar que \u00edamos apenas conversar casualmente e fazer piadas. Bem, ele acabou por abrir todo o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o, fazer milh\u00f5es de perguntas e implorar-me que lhe desse outra oportunidade. Por isso, sim, arrependi-me de o ter visto.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. O meu desgosto ainda \u00e9 recente?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

My friend warned me that a guy I broke up with one week ago would be at his party and I didn\u2019t think anything of it. I was such a fool for going anyway. I tried to avoid him the whole night and then cried myself to sleep when I got back home.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Don\u2019t repeat my mistakes. Leve o seu tempo para se curar completamente <\/strong>and when you reach the stage you don\u2019t feel even the slightest bit of heartache when someone mentions him, you\u2019re ready!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Meeting up with your ex too soon is like wanting to take off your bandaid 5 minutes after putting it on, it\u2019s stupid, painful, and doesn\u2019t make sense.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Ser\u00e1 que tenho demasiadas expectativas?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Having too many unrealistic expectations is like setting yourself up for disappointment. Don\u2019t be your biggest enemy. If you think others will follow fake scripts you came up with in your head, you\u2019re fooling yourself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A melhor coisa a fazer \u00e9 ir sem quaisquer expectativas<\/strong>Se n\u00e3o for realista, n\u00e3o ter\u00e1 de sofrer outra avaria. Ser realista vai salv\u00e1-lo de outro colapso. E depois, se algo de bom acontecer, poder\u00e1 ficar agradavelmente surpreendido.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. Posso lidar com todos os resultados?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

My friend came to me crying after she met up with her ex. She thought there was a possibility for a new beginning and he straight up told her he met someone really special. I\u2019ve never seen her so devastated.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Um caf\u00e9 com a tua ex pode levar a um trili\u00e3o de coisas diferentes. E tu deves estar preparado para lidar com todos os resultados com eleg\u00e2ncia. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Can you accept that they\u2019ve moved on? What if they\u2019re living a better life without you? How would you react if they wanted you back and you continued with your life? These are all valid questions you should think about before hurting them or yourself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. Estarei \u00e0 espera de mais do que um simples caf\u00e9?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Are you accepting that invitation while secretly hoping something more will come out of it? Coffee is amazing but if you\u2019re going to drink it while hoping it will taste revolutionary, you might end up with a bitter taste in your mouth.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you can\u2019t meet up with them without expecting a happily ever after end to your story, then talvez devesses dar mais tempo a ti pr\u00f3prio.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Setting high expectations is also not fair to your ex who\u2019s maybe only looking for a friendly date and doesn\u2019t want to feel responsible for your meltdown. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. Existem perguntas sem resposta?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s hard to move on while some questions are still spinning in your head. But don\u2019t be like my ex and transform your coffee date into a quiz without any warning.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ask them beforehand if they\u2019re comfortable with answering some questions you have. But also be aware that mesmo que obtenha respostas, estas podem n\u00e3o ser as que esperava<\/strong> so you\u2019ll end up even more disappointed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Por vezes, \u00e9 melhor deixar algumas perguntas sem resposta e alguns problemas s\u00e3o demasiado profundos para serem resolvidos num s\u00f3 encontro.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. Como \u00e9 que isto ir\u00e1 afetar eu<\/em>?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Pense em si por um momento. Como \u00e9 que se sente? Est\u00e1 est\u00e1vel e curado ou sente-se mais como um pacote da FedEx com um autocolante a dizer \u201cfragile\u201d<\/em>?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

After seeing my ex, I started overthinking for days and my emotional state was in chaos. So, if you think meeting with them will return you to day one when you felt awful, it\u2019s not worth it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Only when you\u2019re sure that it could help you move on with your life, then it\u2019s a good idea. Otherwise, leave it be. It\u2019s important to compreender-se a si pr\u00f3prio e cuidar do seu bem-estar. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Lembre-se, ponha-se em primeiro lugar, seja honesto e deixe as expectativas loucas em casa antes de sair. Boa sorte!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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