{"id":165698,"date":"2024-06-19T07:56:13","date_gmt":"2024-06-19T07:56:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=165698"},"modified":"2024-06-19T07:56:13","modified_gmt":"2024-06-19T07:56:13","slug":"encontrar-um-homem-que-a-aprecie","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/encontrar-um-homem-que-a-aprecie\/","title":{"rendered":"Nunca se contente com menos, h\u00e1 um homem que te vai apreciar verdadeiramente. Eu prometo"},"content":{"rendered":"

Chego a casa depois do trabalho, lavo as m\u00e3os e vou a correr para a cozinha. Depois pego nos ingredientes para a cooking masterpiece I\u2019ve been creating in my head while driving back home.<\/strong> Penso que cozinhar \u00e9 uma forma de mostrar o meu amor por ele.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019m preparing the dish that Penso que o Ryan ficar\u00e1 impressionado.<\/strong> Em breve, ou\u00e7o o som dele a entrar em casa. Ele pergunta:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2013 \u201cHey babe, what\u2019s for dinner?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2013 \u201cChicken and veggie stir-fry. My specialty.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2013<\/em> \u201cI think I\u2019ll order a burger.\u201d<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Toda a magia desaparece instantaneamente e eu quero deitar fora a minha frigideira deliciosamente cheirosa, juntamente com uma galinha quase pronta e legumes salteados. <\/strong>I\u2019m not even hungry anymore.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Of course, I\u2019m mad at him. He never once said \u201cthank you\u201d<\/em> ou \u201cI appreciate that you spent time on this.\u201d<\/em> I\u2019ve wasted so much food because he orders fast food <\/strong>instead of eating what I make. He didn\u2019t even apologize. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Estava tudo cru e sem sabor<\/h2>\n\n\n
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\"mulher<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Por muito que eu tentasse, ele encontrava sempre algo de errado. And it wasn\u2019t just my cooking, nothing I did seemed to be good enough. <\/strong>The way I walked, talked or dressed, everything was just \u201cbland\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Uma noite, depois de mais um jantar dececionante, <\/strong>Acabei por me sentar sozinha na cozinha, a chorar. Sou assim t\u00e3o terr\u00edvel?<\/em> Ele transformou a \u00fanica coisa de que eu gostava numa atividade stressante e desagrad\u00e1vel. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Agora, cozinhar parecia um projeto assustador <\/strong>que tinha de apresentar ao meu chefe sempre desiludido.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Para al\u00e9m das nossas discuss\u00f5es na cozinha, o nosso As actividades de quarto tamb\u00e9m n\u00e3o eram muito divertidas.<\/strong> Or to use Ryan\u2019s language \u2013 \u201cThey were raw and tasteless\u201d<\/em><\/strong>.<\/strong> Maybe because of all the tension we had revolving around my cooking\u2026 <\/p>\n\n\n\n

He was never really satisfied with anything I did. I don\u2019t remember getting compliments for my promotion at work, nunca olhou para mim com admira\u00e7\u00e3o,<\/strong> and actually\u2026 When I think about it now, he really took me for granted.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWill you cook with me?\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n
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\"casal<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Depois, numa sexta-feira \u00e0 noite, convid\u00e1mos amigos para jantar. My best friend\u2019s brother, Kevin, came too.<\/strong> Tive uma paixoneta por ele quando era adolescente, mas nunca aconteceu nada entre n\u00f3s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

O Ryan estava apenas a comer uns snacks, explicando que tinha tido um grande almo\u00e7o durante uma reuni\u00e3o de neg\u00f3cios.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2013 \u201cRyan doesn\u2019t like my cooking.”<\/em><\/strong> Queixei-me aos meus amigos.<\/strong> \u201cNothing I ever cook is better than a burger.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kevin olhou-me intensamente e sugeriu,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

 \u2013 “Why don\u2019t you come over tomorrow and cook with me? I\u2019ll show you some of my special tricks and I\u2019m willing to taste your specialties.”<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

No dia seguinte, juntei-me ao Kevin na sua cozinha. Rimo-nos, partilh\u00e1mos hist\u00f3rias e cozinh\u00e1mos juntos. O Kevin mostrou-me algumas t\u00e9cnicas \u00fateis e incentivou-me a experimentar novos sabores.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The way he looked at me\u2026 oh boy, suddenly I felt good about myself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

O Ryan nunca olhou para mim dessa forma, acho eu tudo em mim era demasiado brando para o seu gosto.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trouxe para casa um prato que t\u00ednhamos feito juntos. O Ryan teve d\u00favidas, mas experimentou. \u201cNot bad but I\u2019m not really hungry.\u201d <\/em>Nessa altura, apetecia-me dar um murro nas entranhas para que doesse tanto f\u00edsica como emocionalmente.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Don\u2019t settle for less than you deserve<\/h2>\n\n\n
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\"homem<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

O Kevin e eu namoramos h\u00e1 um ano. <\/strong>E esse ano fez-me perceber o idiota que eu era. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

J\u00e1 ningu\u00e9m me est\u00e1 a fazer passar por parvo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019m not begging for crumbs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019m not bending over backwards to be loved. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Somebody appreciates me and I didn\u2019t do anything extra to \u201cearn it\u201d.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

We do enjoy our time cooking together but our passion doesn\u2019t stop in the kitchen.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Passamos os ser\u00f5es num sof\u00e1, de m\u00e3os dadas e a ver Netflix juntos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Gostamos de longas caminhadas e de conversas significativas.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I finally feel valued, loved, and accepted for who I am. I know I talk a lot about cooking, but that\u2019s my passion and I didn\u2019t need to change it or myself for someone ungrateful. I just needed to leave toxic surroundings and find someone who\u2019d appreciate me and all my spices.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Not being the least interested in what turns my spark into a whole damn blaze should be the biggest red flag and I don\u2019t know how I missed it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I think Ryan needed to happen so I could learn what love isn\u2019t, so I could learn not to be an idiot.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Por isso, mi\u00fada, para qu\u00ea contentar-se com algo leve quando a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o pode ser uma chama! Mereces algu\u00e9m que veja realmente, honestamente, quem tu \u00e9s! <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Algu\u00e9m que at\u00e9 gosta dos teus defeitos. Algu\u00e9m que <\/strong>sabe que tem a possibilidade de partir em qualquer altura, mas mesmo assim acorda todas as manh\u00e3s e opta por ficar. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

You\u2019re not demanding, or dramatic. You deserve ridiculous, consuming, \u201ccan\u2019t live-without each other\u201d love. <\/strong>A love that wouldn\u2019t risk letting you get away!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I come home after work, wash my hands, and hurry up to the kitchen. Then I take the ingredients for a cooking masterpiece I\u2019ve been creating in my head while driving back home. I believe cooking is a way of showing my love for him. I\u2019m preparing the dish that I believe will leave Ryan…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":165701,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-165698","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/Never-Settle-For-Less-Theres-A-Man-Wholl-Truly-Appreciate-You.-I-Promise-1024x678.jpg",1024,678,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","parent":29620,"count":544,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29622,"category_count":544,"category_description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","cat_name":"relationship advice","category_nicename":"relationship-advice","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/165698","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=165698"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/165698\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":165705,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/165698\/revisions\/165705"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/165701"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=165698"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=165698"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=165698"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}