{"id":165706,"date":"2024-06-19T08:14:52","date_gmt":"2024-06-19T08:14:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=165706"},"modified":"2024-06-19T08:14:52","modified_gmt":"2024-06-19T08:14:52","slug":"regras-de-relacionamento","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/regras-de-relacionamento\/","title":{"rendered":"Mulher revela 5 regras n\u00e3o negoci\u00e1veis que o namorado deve seguir"},"content":{"rendered":"

Toda a gente tem expectativas diferentes quando se trata do seu parceiro de sonho. Talvez eu at\u00e9 j\u00e1 tenha tido demasiadas. No entanto, sempre pensei que it\u2019s good to be direct with what you want and communicate your boundaries <\/strong>so there\u2019s no room for misunderstanding.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Apesar de, por vezes, assumirmos que algumas expectativas s\u00e3o normais e comuns, para alguns podem ser ultrajantes. We differ in our opinions of what\u2019s right and wrong<\/strong> and therefore it\u2019s important to be clear from the very beginning.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Taylor Donoghue fez-se entender ao mostrar a sua lista de 5 regras ao mundo inteiro no TikTok<\/a>! Now guys can\u2019t say they didn\u2019t know what they got themselves into!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Nada de melhores amigas!<\/h2>\n\n\n
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\"homem<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Come\u00e7ou o v\u00eddeo por afirmar a sua primeira e principal regra:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cFirst is super obvious, but I would never allow my boyfriend to have a girl best friend. I don\u2019t believe in them.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Before anyone gets pissed off, she explained that it\u2019s okay if he has female acquaintances, but o lugar de melhor amigo est\u00e1 reservado apenas para homens! <\/strong>Acrescentou ainda que ter uma melhor amiga pode ser complicado e ningu\u00e9m quer isso. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Some agreed with this and one woman even said she didn\u2019t think this would be a problem so she allowed her boyfriend to have a girl roommate. Let\u2019s just say it didn\u2019t end well. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. A localiza\u00e7\u00e3o deve estar sempre ligada!<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Esta \u00e9 uma grande bandeira vermelha para algumas pessoas. Consideram que est\u00e1 a invadir a privacidade do seu parceiro, mas Taylor thinks it\u2019s more a safety measure.<\/strong> Disse ela:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cI feel like you get to a point where when you\u2019ve been dating someone for so long, having each other\u2019s like locations on like \u201cFind My iPhone\u201d is more of a safety thing. I just want to make sure he\u2019s okay.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

However, she\u2019s not purely concerned with safety because she also thinks not letting your partner know where you are is shady. Others think she just has trust issues.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I kinda agree because me and my partner never have our locations on. If he tells me he\u2019s going to some pub with the boys, I know he\u2019s going there. But we\u2019re also grown-ups who have free will to go where we want without someone breathing down our neck.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Os clubes de striptease s\u00e3o um grande N\u00c3O!<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Prosseguiu com a terceira regra, dizendo que esta pode ser controversa, mas her record is set straight \u2013 no strip clubs!<\/strong> Como ela explicou:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cThe third thing I never allow my boyfriend to do is go to strip clubs. And I feel like this is a controversial one, and some couples go to them together. But nope, not our scene. You can go to bars, you can have a guys\u2019 night, but strip clubs\u2026 Absolutely not.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Are there really people who allow their significant others to go to strip clubs? Couldn\u2019t be me, but you do you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. As finan\u00e7as s\u00e3o divididas a 50-50!<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

I feel like guys really loved this one\u2026wonder why. As mulheres do outro lado tinham opini\u00f5es diferentes.<\/strong> Acham que os homens deviam, pelo menos, pagar os seus encontros. No entanto, Taylor disse:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cThe fourth thing I would never allow my boyfriend to do is pay all the bills. I feel like the men paying for 100% of everything is just like wrong. And I\u2019m not even trying to sound \u2018pick me.\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

I think paying 50-50 is slowly becoming a standard set for women. They want us to be homemakers but also contribute financially. And while this would be fine if men did the same, they mostly don\u2019t participate in the homemaking part at all. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. Gostar de fotos de biqu\u00edni est\u00e1 fora dos limites!<\/h2>\n\n\n
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\"homem<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Taylor thinks liking provocative pictures of girls on Instagram is a major red flag saying it simply doesn\u2019t look good from the perspective of others:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cI feel like there\u2019s been so much more awareness on this, but it always makes me sad when I see someone that\u2019s like married with kids or just in a relationship and they\u2019re like, liking girls\u2019 photos, especially very like provocative ones. I\u2019m just like, it\u2019s not a good look.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Ela considera que esta \u00e9 uma expetativa bastante \u00f3bvia<\/strong> that doesn\u2019t need further explanation. And while some agreed with everything she listed, others said it doesn\u2019t make sense to have these rules. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c9 controladora ou razo\u00e1vel?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Um disse que estes s\u00e3o os princ\u00edpios b\u00e1sicos:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cI agree with you on every one of these. It is basic respect and for the health of the relationship.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Algu\u00e9m concordou dizendo:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cThese are all completely normal things everyone should expect in a relationship. How is it a red flag? Basic respect has just gone\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Um homem ficou chocado com os coment\u00e1rios negativos:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cWhat are these comments!? it’s not controlling or being insecure. It’s called being reasonable and having standards.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

A lot of people said Tayor is controlling and they wouldn\u2019t set these rules:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cI hope this works for you cause there\u2019s no way I\u2019m telling my man what\u2019s allowed and what\u2019s not\u2026 he\u2019s an adult.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Some think we shouldn\u2019t have any rules:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cI have one rule \u2026 you won\u2019t tell me what I can and can\u2019t do and vice versa. Been happily married for 25 years.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Enquanto as pessoas estavam a discutir se isto era normal ou n\u00e3o, outros queriam saber se o namorado tinha algumas regras para ela<\/strong> e ela, felizmente, fez outra v\u00eddeo<\/a> sobre isso.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Her boyfriend said he only has 4 simple rules \u2013 no flirting with guys, no liking pictures of other men, and no lip fillers. He also said he wants her to update him every hour or two when she\u2019s out without him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Everyone seemed more chill with his boundaries and said this is a bare minimum. Of course, everything\u2019s fine and nothing\u2019s \u201ccontrolling\u201d or \u201cinsecure\u201d when it comes to men sharing their rules. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

O que \u00e9 que acha? T\u00eam algumas regras na vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Veja o v\u00eddeo completo abaixo:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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@taylordonoghuee<\/a>

Hot take but just my opinion \ud83e\udd37\ud83c\udffd\u200d\u2640\ufe0f<\/p> \u266c original sound – Taylordonoghuee<\/a> <\/section> <\/blockquote>