{"id":165766,"date":"2022-06-19T15:36:00","date_gmt":"2022-06-19T15:36:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=165766"},"modified":"2024-06-19T15:38:44","modified_gmt":"2024-06-19T15:38:44","slug":"6-ele-recusa-se-a-rotular-as-coisas-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/6-ele-recusa-se-a-rotular-as-coisas-2\/","title":{"rendered":"6. Recusa-se a rotular as coisas"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/couple-in-fight.jpg\" alt=\"casal em luta\" class=\"wp-image-165767\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/couple-in-fight.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/couple-in-fight-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/couple-in-fight-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/couple-in-fight-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/couple-in-fight-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/couple-in-fight-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/couple-in-fight-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/couple-in-fight-1200x795.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>O que faz de um homem um jogador? Uma carater\u00edstica comum \u00e0 maioria dos rapazes que jogam jogos \u00e9 o facto de terem dificuldade em tornar as coisas oficiais.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Some of them tell you that they don\u2019t believe in<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/ele-esta-a-brincar-comigo\/\">&nbsp;rela\u00e7\u00f5es s\u00e9rias&nbsp;<\/a>como tal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Some of them avoid the topic, and some of them lie that they\u2019re still not ready to&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/nao-quer-colocar-relacao-de-etiqueta\/\">etiquetar coisas<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Se o seu homem se recusa a chamar-lhe namorada e se usa termos vagos sobre a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, as coisas s\u00e3o bastante \u00f3bvias.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>However, at the same time, he isn\u2019t leaving you, he is just keeping you on standby. This way, he wants to avoid all the new relationship drama.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Also, he doesn\u2019t want to give you any rights you would normally have as his girlfriend but at the same time, he wants to keep you around.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Afinal de contas,&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/10-etapas-para-tentar-convencer-um-jogador-a-comprometer-se\/\">voc\u00eas os dois ainda n\u00e3o est\u00e3o numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o de compromisso<\/a>&nbsp;e isso d\u00e1-lhe a possibilidade de continuar a sua vida de solteiro e ter total liberdade para fazer o que lhe apetecer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You\u2019re not his girlfriend, so technically, you don\u2019t have the right to call him out on his actions or to flat out ask him where everything is going.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You don\u2019t have the right to ask him where he spent the night and whether he will hook up with other girls (instead you have to investigate his Instagram and Snapchat stories in the hope of finding out what he\u2019s been up to).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You don\u2019t have the right to&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/nao-colocar-em-segundo-lugar-coloca-sempre-em-primeiro\/\">exigir que ele o ponha em primeiro lugar<\/a>N\u00e3o \u00e9 preciso, portanto, que se queixe de que ele n\u00e3o lhe d\u00e1 aten\u00e7\u00e3o suficiente ou que se zangue quando ele desaparece durante dias.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Most importantly, when your relationship isn\u2019t official, he doesn\u2019t have a duty to remain faithful.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>De facto, isto d\u00e1-lhe a liberdade de falar com (ou mesmo&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/11-maneiras-de-dizer-apenas-o-gancho\/\">engatar<\/a>&nbsp;com) outras raparigas sem que isso seja considerado trai\u00e7\u00e3o e sem que tenha o direito de dizer o que quer que seja.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A pior parte \u00e9 que se inscreveu mesmo para isto. Aceitaste mesmo este status quo e contentaste-te mesmo em n\u00e3o ter um t\u00edtulo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>E isto \u00e9 algo que ele nunca deixa de vos lembrar sempre que tentam queixar-se do seu comportamento.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div id=\"hide-grow-widget\"><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>What makes a guy a player? A trait that is common for most guys who play games is that they have trouble making things official. Some of them tell you that they don\u2019t believe in&nbsp;serious relationships&nbsp;as such. Some of them avoid the topic, and some of them lie that they\u2019re still not ready to&nbsp;label things&#8230;.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-165766","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-blog"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":1,"label":"Blog"}]},"featured_image_src_large":false,"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":1,"name":"Blog","slug":"blog","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":1,"taxonomy":"category","description":"","parent":0,"count":497,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":1,"category_count":497,"category_description":"","cat_name":"Blog","category_nicename":"blog","category_parent":0}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/165766","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=165766"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/165766\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":165768,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/165766\/revisions\/165768"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=165766"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=165766"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=165766"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}