{"id":165878,"date":"2024-06-20T10:08:35","date_gmt":"2024-06-20T10:08:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=165878"},"modified":"2024-07-08T09:20:13","modified_gmt":"2024-07-08T09:20:13","slug":"sinais-de-bombardeamento-amoroso","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/sinais-de-bombardeamento-amoroso\/","title":{"rendered":"Fui bombardeado pelo amor e nem me apercebi disso"},"content":{"rendered":"

A minha \u00faltima rela\u00e7\u00e3o parecia demasiado boa para ser verdade. A s\u00e9rio. Nunca pensei que pudesse sentir tanto amor de algu\u00e9m e foi uma sensa\u00e7\u00e3o incr\u00edvel. He was everything I\u2019ve ever wanted. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Essa sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de algu\u00e9m obcecado por n\u00f3s, que nos d\u00e1 aten\u00e7\u00e3o e amor, \u00e9 o que todas as mulheres querem. Gostei muito, especialmente depois do meu ex-namorado, que era extremamente t\u00f3xico e me deixou de cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I was ready for a new beginning and wanted someone to take care of me and show me all his love. And that\u2019s exactly what I got. However, that a doce fase de lua de mel deu uma volta inesperada<\/strong> e terminou como mais um grande desgosto.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mais tarde, apercebi-me de que estava cega, porque ele me tinha bombardeado de amor. Em minha defesa, como \u00e9 que eu podia saber que ele me ia magoar tanto depois de se ter comportado como o melhor homem que alguma vez existiu?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I bet I\u2019m not the only one who has fallen for this. So let me share some signs that can help you realize it\u2019s not true love before you get your heart broken.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Sente-se pressionado a comprometer-se demasiado cedo<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"homem<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The first moment I met James I felt something I couldn\u2019t even explain. There was a lot of chemistry and romance going on and we immediately knew we had something special.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

On our third date, he had already mentioned moving in together and wanted to meet my family. Although it was flattering to hear that, I can\u2019t say I wasn\u2019t caught off guard. He said that like it was nothing and no big deal but to me it was huge!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I didn\u2019t really feel ready to take that big step and was anxious as hell but ele assegurava-me que est\u00e1vamos apaixonados e que n\u00e3o havia necessidade de perder tempo.<\/strong> That\u2019s the moment he slowly started his manipulation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Ele enganou-vos e convenceu-vos de que se conheciam bem<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

James would always say things insinuating that he feels like we\u2019ve known each other for ages. He would often talk about something we had in common, things we both like, and opinions we share.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ele convenceu-me que \u00e9ramos almas g\u00e9meas e que fomos feitos um para o outro.<\/strong> Senti-me muito bem por pensar que finalmente tinha encontrado o \u00fanico<\/em>. Mas depois houve um clique na minha mente e apercebi-me que ele concordava sempre com tudo o que eu dizia e adorava absolutamente tudo o que eu fazia. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Parecia irreal, porque era mesmo! It\u2019s impossible for someone not to have their own personality.<\/strong> James tried so hard to make a connection that didn\u2019t even exist. He would shower me with sweet words and I loved it. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Elogia-o e cobre-o de afeto<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"casal<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

While women are always complaining their men don\u2019t show them enough love, I was almost sick of all the attention I was getting. Sometimes I felt like I couldn\u2019t take a breath without him being by my side.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

He would tell me he never met someone like me, that I was the most beautiful woman he\u2019d seen, and that he couldn\u2019t even imagine his future without me. It wasn\u2019t only compliments James was giving me all the time, it was also the affection. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Constant kissing, hugging, holding hands \u2013 it seemed like he couldn\u2019t get enough of me! <\/strong>No in\u00edcio era simp\u00e1tico, mas depois come\u00e7ou a parecer falso, como se ele estivesse sempre a tentar obter algo em troca. \u00c0s vezes ainda me pergunto se alguma coisa que ele disse \u00e9 verdade.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. Ele diz coisas que tu queres ouvir<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Se eu conhecia algu\u00e9m perfeito com as palavras, esse algu\u00e9m era o James. E foi isso que realmente me viciou. Ele sabia sempre o que dizer para me fazer derreter. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

It doesn\u2019t matter what I was talking about, my goals, insecurities, or trauma, James had the perfect response for everything! Oh, I enjoyed it so much. I thought I finally found someone who wanted to listen to me and I felt understood after a long time. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ele fez isto apenas para ganhar a minha confian\u00e7a, mas apercebi-me demasiado tarde.<\/strong> It wasn\u2019t honest at all, it was just his little game to make me think we actually have a deep connection. And that\u2019s exactly what I was thinking.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. You receive gifts like it\u2019s your birthday every day<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"Homem<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

James didn\u2019t only give me all the words I wanted to hear, he also gave me gifts, a lot of them! There wouldn\u2019t be a date we would go on without him bringing something for me.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Por vezes, era algo pequeno, como flores ou aquele chocolate de que gosto muito, mas outras vezes ele fazia tudo. Uma vez deu-me bilhetes de avi\u00e3o para uma viagem surpresa! Embora me sentisse lisonjeada e especial, comecei a aprender this wasn\u2019t as genuine as I thought.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

He was buying my loyalty and making slow steps to ensure I felt like I owed him something. Every time I complained about his behavior he would mention the sweet things he\u2019s done for me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. Fica na defensiva sempre que o questionam<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

When I finally realized something wasn\u2019t right and gained the courage to bring it up, he went nuts. James always acted as a victim and guilt-tripped me into believing there wasn\u2019t anything wrong.<\/strong> Eu era apenas inseguro e tinha problemas de confian\u00e7a, disse ele.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Every discussion he didn\u2019t want to have looked the same. I would try to talk nicely, but he would get defensive and then accuse me of being the crazy one.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A forma como aquele homem agiu como se estivesse magoado foi incr\u00edvel! Algu\u00e9m devia dar-lhe um \u00d3scar ou algo do g\u00e9nero! Tudo isto fez-me sentir culpado<\/strong> so I stayed thinking my feelings weren\u2019t valid.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. Ele quer-te s\u00f3 para ele!<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"casal<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

\u00c0 medida que avan\u00e7\u00e1vamos na nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, o James queria que o mundo inteiro girasse \u00e0 volta dele. Sempre que eu queria sair com os meus amigos ou visitar a minha fam\u00edlia, ele ficava zangado. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Por vezes, at\u00e9 fingia estar doente para que eu ficasse a tomar conta dele. Comecei lentamente a perder os meus amigos e senti-me sozinha. N\u00e3o tinha mais ningu\u00e9m para al\u00e9m dele e ele conseguiu isolar-me de toda a gente. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Este era o \u00faltimo passo do seu jogo doentio e uma oportunidade perfeita para me manipular em tudo o que ele queria.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Felizmente, a minha irm\u00e3 chamou-me \u00e0 raz\u00e3o e eu sa\u00ed da bolha em que estava a viver. ITudo se tornou muito claro quando me afastei dele.<\/strong> Who knows where I\u2019d be if I stayed in that relationship but all I know is that I\u2019m happy I\u2019ll never find out. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Next time someone acts this way with you think twice before diving into something serious you\u2019ll regret 100%. Remember that o verdadeiro amor nunca \u00e9 sufocante ou controlador.<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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