\u00c9 sempre dif\u00edcil lidar com o fim de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o. Nunca entramos numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0 espera que ela chegue ao fim. Quando nos apaixonamos, decidimos dar uma parte de n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios a essa outra pessoa.<\/p>\n
We are ready for compromises and sacrifices, all because we believe in that lifelong love. So, it\u2019s completely normal to be devastated and broken once that relationship comes to an end.<\/p>\n
Mas e se eu vos disser que h\u00e1 outra maneira de lidar com isso? Que h\u00e1 mais coisas de que nos devemos orgulhar do que aquelas de que nos devemos lamentar?<\/p>\n
If you\u2019ve passou por um inferno<\/a> of your own recently and you\u2019re still trying to find a way to grasp all of it and move on, read the list below and see that you did something fucking good for yourself and your own well-being.<\/p>\n Quando dedicamos o nosso amor a uma pessoa, dedicamos tamb\u00e9m o nosso tempo e a nossa vida. Assim, agora que decidiu afastar-se e colocar-se em primeiro lugar, pode voltar a ligar-se aos seus amigos e familiares.<\/p>\n E vai perceber que, s\u00f3 porque se separaram durante algum tempo, nunca chegaram a separar os cora\u00e7\u00f5es. Eles continuar\u00e3o a ter um lugar para ti nas suas vidas e dar-te-\u00e3o todo o apoio de que precisas neste momento.<\/p>\n Without thinking what the other person would think, you can follow your dreams and passions. If you feel like clubbing all night and hiking all day, there\u2019s nothing stopping you\u2014except maybe your job, but that\u2019s still something you can handle.<\/p>\n Yet when you\u2019re constantly worrying if you\u2019re going to upset him or piss him off, there is no way you can enjoy yourself.<\/p>\n Even if you get some time for yourself, you are still thinking about him and his needs. Now, it\u2019s finally time for you to do whatever your heart desires.<\/p>\n If you need weeks to get back on your feet, you can take them. If you need some alone time to process all of the torture you\u2019ve been through, you can finally take it.<\/p>\n N\u00e3o tem de cuidar de ningu\u00e9m e pode finalmente concentrar-se na sua pr\u00f3pria felicidade. Porque tamb\u00e9m merece ser feliz.<\/p>\n You deserve to have someone who will support and love you. Not someone who will emotionally drain you. And now it\u2019s time for you to own the world once more.<\/p>\n You finally left that intoxicated air and atmosphere you\u2019ve been trapped in. You let go of the jogos mentais<\/a> and emotional hell to save what\u2019s left of yourself. And even if it hurts now, even if you feel like you will never be happy again, you will.<\/p>\n Trust me\u2014pain is one hell of a motivator and there is nothing that will push you harder and stronger than the pain itself.<\/p>\n You learned what kind of love you don\u2019t want to have. Now you will never settle for someone\u2019s half-assed love and games. You will never settle just because it\u2019s expected of you or because you\u2019re afraid of being alone.<\/p>\n Because you learned the hard way that it\u2019s better to be alone than to be with the wrong person. I guess you can thank him for raising your standards and expectations.<\/p>\n Recusaste-te a aceitar e afastaste-te quando afastar-te era a coisa mais dif\u00edcil e assustadora a fazer.<\/p>\n Isso exige muita for\u00e7a e, quando esses pensamentos intrusos come\u00e7arem a persegui-lo e a dizer-lhe que \u00e9 um desistente, lembre-se de que n\u00e3o vale a pena lutar por algumas pessoas.<\/p>\n Por vezes, por mais que tentemos e lutemos, h\u00e1 coisas que n\u00e3o est\u00e3o destinadas a resultar.<\/p>\n It\u2019s time for you to find your way back and to walk on it alone. Yes, it looks scary to be all alone after being with someone for so long, but you did it way before you met him and you can do it again.<\/p>\n You walked through hell and made friends with the devil\u2014there is no reason for you to not do it again.<\/p>\n And that\u2019s not him. That\u2019s not someone who lies and cheats, someone who is incapable of committing and loving the way you deserve. And now, you know that you deserve more than someone who makes you wait and wonder if you are enough.<\/p>\n Mereces mais do que jogos t\u00f3xicos e cicatrizes no teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o. E devias estar muito orgulhosa por teres percebido isso e teres ido em busca da tua pr\u00f3pria felicidade.<\/p>\n Love has a way of changing us\u2014sometimes for the good and sometimes for the bad. True love makes us thrive together and become the best versions of ourselves. But the toxic one takes pieces of us and leaves us shattered in pieces, gasping for air and picking up what\u2019s left.<\/p>\n E tem uma nova oportunidade de se reconstruir, de redescobrir quem \u00e9. Algumas pessoas nunca t\u00eam essa oportunidade porque o medo as amarra e as deixa presas no seu pr\u00f3prio inferno. Abrace a oportunidade que tem e tire o melhor partido dela!<\/p>\n1. Pode voltar a ligar-se aos seus entes queridos<\/span><\/h2>\n
2. Pode voltar a ser espont\u00e2neo<\/span><\/h2>\n
3. Pode concentrar-se inteiramente em si e no seu pr\u00f3prio bem-estar<\/span><\/h2>\n
4. Pode inspirar novamente<\/span><\/h2>\n
5. Os seus padr\u00f5es e expectativas aumentam<\/span><\/h2>\n
6. Encontraste a tua for\u00e7a e o teu valor<\/span><\/h2>\n
7. Pode embrace a sua independ\u00eancia<\/a> tudo de novo<\/span><\/h2>\n
8. Descobriu o que quer e o que merece<\/span><\/h2>\n
9. Redescobre-se quem se \u00e9<\/span><\/h2>\n
10. Aprender a amarmo-nos de novo<\/span><\/h2>\n