{"id":166230,"date":"2024-06-26T12:22:38","date_gmt":"2024-06-26T12:22:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=166230"},"modified":"2024-06-26T12:22:38","modified_gmt":"2024-06-26T12:22:38","slug":"diferenca-financeira-como-fator-de-desempate","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/diferenca-financeira-como-fator-de-desempate\/","title":{"rendered":"A incompatibilidade financeira \u00e9 um fator de rutura numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Does love really conquer all? Yeah, I don\u2019t know about that. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Imagine you\u2019re planning your dream vacation, looking at 5-star hotels, and business class tickets, while he wants the cheapest option possible. You\u2019re saving your money to buy a first house, and he\u2019s still paying off his college debt. How long until you cut the ties?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Alguns dizem money can\u2019t buy happiness<\/em> but having money surely helps a lot to live a happy, calm life. If you want a luxurious life I\u2019m not sure you\u2019d be happy with someone who can\u2019t afford that even if you clicked with them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And it\u2019s not really about having or not having money. It\u2019s about your spending habits and financial goals as well. After all, As diverg\u00eancias financeiras s\u00e3o uma das principais causas de div\u00f3rcio nos EUA. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Isto leva-me a um post sobre Reddit<\/a> where a woman debated whether she should continue talking to a man online since he\u2019s poor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quando o amor esbarra em diferen\u00e7as financeiras<\/h2>\n\n\n
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A woman explained she is texting someone who\u2019s not only poor but also doesn\u2019t have any will to change that situation in the future. She wants more from life, while he seems stuck in the poverty loop mindset and is not even optimistic about getting out. As she wrote:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cI very much have the mindset that I want to create a financially rich life for myself because there is so much I want to learn, do and explore. I would like to be with someone who is the same, who is optimistic about what\u2019s possible and thinking about how they can expand themselves in this way.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

O que ela descreve que procura num homem \u00e9 o completo oposto do que este homem \u00e9. Apesar de terem uma liga\u00e7\u00e3o muito forte noutras coisas e terem muito em comum, \u00e9 com a mentalidade dele que ela tem um problema.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

She admitted she also doesn\u2019t want a relationship in which she makes more money and is responsible for the majority of the expenses. Instead, she\u2019s all about that stable double-income life: <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cI want someone where together our incomes are wayyy better than one and our life expands because of it. I don\u2019t want to carry most of that weight.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Percebo o seu ponto de vista. Ela j\u00e1 ganha um bom dinheiro e ela quer algu\u00e9m do mesmo n\u00edvel para poderem construir uma vida ainda melhor.<\/strong> That\u2019s fair enough. I agree with her because I also wanted a partner who was ready to hustle and make a lot of money with me so we could build our empire. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Since I grew up not having a lot of money, I decided that\u2019s not the lifestyle for me so I worked really hard to be where I\u2019m right now. I wouldn\u2019t throw it away for someone who\u2019s fine with having a modest lifestyle just because we had some chemistry between us.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ela tamb\u00e9m se apercebeu da mesma coisa e, embora it\u2019s not easy for her to forget about the connection they made<\/strong>, it\u2019s probably the right thing to do. She wrote:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cThinking of breaking off the connection because of this. Not sure if I should tell him that\u2019s the reason if I do. We\u2019re not officially dating yet, but definitely building a deep connection. I\u2019d be sad to lose someone over this but it\u2019s also just not what I want.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

I think she doesn\u2019t need Reddit to tell her what to do because deep down she already knows. Reddit users only confirmed what she concluded herself. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Money is not the problem, it\u2019s the mindset<\/h2>\n\n\n
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A couple might be truly in love and have a great bond but that doesn\u2019t necessarily mean their relationship will succeed. There are more things needed to guarantee a happily ever after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Se um deles n\u00e3o estiver disposto a sacrificar os seus maus h\u00e1bitos financeiros<\/strong>, whether that be spending too much, being too frugal, or not ready to improve their financial status then there\u2019s a big chance they won\u2019t make it work in the long run.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Se as finan\u00e7as s\u00e3o importantes para si, ent\u00e3o deve ouvir a sabedoria deste utilizador do Reddit:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cThe person you marry can be the biggest financial decision you ever make.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

A lot of people gave their final verdict and said she shouldn\u2019t date him:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cI don\u2019t recommend that you continue pursuing anything with him if you\u2019ve already picked up on this difference in mindsets. Money is such a critical aspect of relationships whether we like it or not. Being with someone who doesn\u2019t share your values around it and whose spending practices might conflict with your personal goals is a headache.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Outros pensam que o facto de ele ser pobre n\u00e3o \u00e9 de todo um problema, mas o facto de n\u00e3o se esfor\u00e7ar por mudar essa situa\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 que \u00e9 um problema. Uma pessoa escreveu:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cThe problem may not be that he’s poor but that he views himself as a victim. That is a big part of someone’s character and identity. Someone can be of modest income but still have an appreciation and a respect for smart saving and investing, and share a lot of similar values with you in terms of building a lifestyle and a future.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Por outro lado, as pessoas tamb\u00e9m disseram a melhor coisa que ela pode fazer \u00e9 seguir o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o e ouvir o que o seu instinto diz.<\/strong> A lot of the time we don\u2019t really need advice from others because the answer to our question is right in front of us, or rather dentro de<\/em> n\u00f3s. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

So is financial incompatibility a deal breaker in relationships? There\u2019s no one-size-fits-all answer. Tudo se resume a si<\/strong>O que \u00e9 que se pode fazer, quais s\u00e3o os seus padr\u00f5es e o que est\u00e1 disposto a sacrificar por amor. <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Does love really conquer all? Yeah, I don\u2019t know about that.  Imagine you\u2019re planning your dream vacation, looking at 5-star hotels, and business class tickets, while he wants the cheapest option possible. You\u2019re saving your money to buy a first house, and he\u2019s still paying off his college debt. How long until you cut the…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":166233,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29814],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-166230","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29814,"label":"Stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/Is-Financial-Incompatibility-A-Deal-Breaker-In-Relationship-1024x678.jpg",1024,678,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29814,"name":"Stories","slug":"stories","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29814,"taxonomy":"category","description":"","parent":29651,"count":242,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29814,"category_count":242,"category_description":"","cat_name":"Stories","category_nicename":"stories","category_parent":29651}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/166230","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=166230"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/166230\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":166236,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/166230\/revisions\/166236"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/166233"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=166230"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=166230"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=166230"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}