{"id":16633,"date":"2018-03-20T07:33:46","date_gmt":"2018-03-20T07:33:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16633"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:46:38","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:46:38","slug":"8-comportamentos-na-relacao-que-nunca-deve-tolerar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/8-comportamentos-na-relacao-que-nunca-deve-tolerar\/","title":{"rendered":"8 comportamentos na rela\u00e7\u00e3o que nunca deves tolerar"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Quando nos apaixonamos, tudo parece t\u00e3o perfeito e assumimos que o amor ser\u00e1 suficiente para nos ajudar a ultrapassar todos os obst\u00e1culos.<\/p>\n<p>Mas quando as coisas come\u00e7am a ficar um pouco mais s\u00e9rias, compreende-se que h\u00e1 outras coisas que t\u00eam de funcionar para que uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o d\u00ea certo.<\/p>\n<p>Embora cada rela\u00e7\u00e3o seja diferente e tenha as suas pr\u00f3prias regras, h\u00e1 alguns padr\u00f5es de comportamento que nunca deve tolerar, apesar da intensidade do amor que possa estar a sentir pelo seu parceiro. Aqui est\u00e3o 8 deles.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt\">1. Desrespeito<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Para al\u00e9m do amor, a base de qualquer rela\u00e7\u00e3o bem sucedida \u00e9 o respeito. Isso significa que o seu parceiro deve respeit\u00e1-la n\u00e3o s\u00f3 como namorada, mas tamb\u00e9m como mulher e ser humano.<\/p>\n<p>Even when the two of you disagree about something, it is never OK for him to act like he is above you. If your partner depreciates you and uses any opportunity to diminish you, he definitely doesn\u2019t have enough respect for you and that is something you shouldn\u2019t put up with.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt\">2. Imaturidade<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Se procura uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o est\u00e1vel e duradoura, precisa de um parceiro maduro para o conseguir. Isso significa que os dois devem ser iguais em tudo.<\/p>\n<p>The same way you shouldn\u2019t allow him to act like he is above you, he also shouldn\u2019t act like a child, incapable of making any life decisions. Immaturity can be cute when you are in your teen years but when you are older, it becomes a burden.<\/p>\n<p>Lembre-se, precisa de um parceiro, n\u00e3o de uma crian\u00e7a.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt\">3. Indisponibilidade emocional<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Quando se est\u00e1 numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o em que se quer comprometer, o m\u00ednimo que se merece \u00e9 ter algu\u00e9m com inten\u00e7\u00f5es semelhantes.<\/p>\n<p>Uma coisa com que nunca se deve contentar \u00e9 ter um parceiro que se apresenta como emocionalmente indispon\u00edvel e que tem problemas de compromisso.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 perfeitamente normal afastar-se de algu\u00e9m assim, porque merece um homem que lhe d\u00ea todo o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o e n\u00e3o algu\u00e9m que fa\u00e7a jogos mentais consigo e a obrigue a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/nao-preciso-de-amor-implorar\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">implorar pelo seu amor<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt\">4. Controlo do comportamento<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Mesmo quando est\u00e1 numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o s\u00e9ria, continua a ser um indiv\u00edduo independente e isso \u00e9 algo que deve ter sempre presente.<\/p>\n<p>Uma coisa que nunca se deve tolerar \u00e9 ter um parceiro que tenha o desejo de o controlar de qualquer forma.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, every successful relationship is based on compromise, and you can\u2019t expect to do everything your way, but that doesn\u2019t mean that you should give up on having your own will and do everything that he tells you.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt\">5. Inveja<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>At the beginning of the relationship, a little bit of jealousy can be sweet. You probably think that this guy has obviously fallen head over heels for you and that he can\u2019t control his jealousy.<\/p>\n<p>But, later in the relationship, too much jealousy can cause you much trouble. It usually reveals a lot, including your partner\u2019s possessiveness and insecurities and is definitely something you shouldn\u2019t tolerate.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt\">6. Desculpas<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Remember\u2014where there is a will, there is a way. That means that it\u2019s time to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/its-time-you-stop-justifying-him\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">p\u00e1ra de justificar o teu namorado<\/a> e aceitar as suas desculpas.<\/p>\n<p>A sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o nunca deve basear-se na espera de que a outra pessoa ganhe ju\u00edzo e perceba que h\u00e1 coisas que tem de fazer por si e em benef\u00edcio da vossa parceria.<\/p>\n<p>Therefore, if you are involved with a guy who is constantly making excuses for not being there for you, for not returning your phone calls, for being with other girls, etc. and he refuses to man up and take full responsibility for his actions, they are things you shouldn\u2019t tolerate.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt\">7. Manipula\u00e7\u00e3o<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Quando se est\u00e1 num <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lifehack.org\/articles\/communication\/11-signs-youre-mature-relationship.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">rela\u00e7\u00e3o madura<\/a>O que \u00e9 que se passa? Ambos t\u00eam o vosso livre arb\u00edtrio e opini\u00f5es sobre tudo.<\/p>\n<p>Uma coisa que nunca deve tolerar \u00e9 que o seu parceiro tente manipul\u00e1-la emocionalmente, para conseguir o que quer de si.<\/p>\n<p>Isso significa que nunca deve tolerar que ele a chantageie ou lhe fa\u00e7a \"ghosting\", porque isso \u00e9 ele a brincar com a sua intelig\u00eancia.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt\">8. Mentir<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Another behavior pattern that undermines your intelligence is lying and that is something you should never tolerate either. Honesty is a basis of a healthy relationship and the truth should always be said out loud, even if it\u2019s painful and heartbreaking.<\/p>\n<p>You may think that lying is normal from time to time but if your partner doesn\u2019t feel the need to be honest with you all the time, maybe you should rethink your relationship.&nbsp;<!--\/codes_iframe--> <!--codes_iframe-->  <!--\/codes_iframe--><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When we fall in love, everything seems so perfect and we assume that love will be enough to help us overcome all obstacles. But as things start to get a little more serious, you understand that there are other things that need to work for a relationship to work out. Although every relationship is different&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":16634,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16633","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/rahul-anil-326465-unsplash.jpg",800,537,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. 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