{"id":166455,"date":"2024-06-28T08:12:09","date_gmt":"2024-06-28T08:12:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=166455"},"modified":"2024-06-28T08:12:11","modified_gmt":"2024-06-28T08:12:11","slug":"porque-e-que-os-homens-permanecem-em-relacoes-infelizes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/porque-e-que-os-homens-permanecem-em-relacoes-infelizes\/","title":{"rendered":"10 raz\u00f5es pelas quais os homens ficam presos em relacionamentos sem alegria (n\u00e3o porque gostamos de mis\u00e9ria)"},"content":{"rendered":"

You\u2019ve been wondering why the heck men stay in relationships that are more misery than joy. We\u2019ve all been there, feeling trapped, pissed off, asking ourselves why don\u2019t we just pack up and leave?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Here\u2019s the deal! When we were little boys they told us to stay strong no matter what, to tough it out, fix things\u2026 So when we feel miserable in a relationship we think: mant\u00e9m-te forte, aguenta a dor, tu consegues! <\/em><\/strong>It\u2019s built in us. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Uma vez passei seis anos numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o infeliz. Era realmente deprimente e sugador de vida. Toda a gente reparava como a minha cara mudava sempre que ela estava por perto.<\/strong> O sorriso transformava-se subitamente em mal-estar e desconforto. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

She was always nitpicking me and complaining about everything. Never satisfied. But to everyone\u2019s surprise, I could not leave her. It was not that simple.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

There are a bunch of reasons why men stick around when they\u2019re not happy. Let\u2019s break it down:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Tinha medo de estar sozinho<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

First off, there\u2019s a huge fear of being alone. Yeah, I said it. We might not talk about it but a ideia de voltar a ser solteiro, especialmente depois de muito tempo, pode ser bastante assustadora.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

No solo again, thank you. This relationship isn\u2019t perfect or fun either, but it\u2019s MINE. Known. Familiar. Comfy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. A mudan\u00e7a assustava-me imenso<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"homem<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Detesto mudan\u00e7as. O novo e o desconhecido assustam-me. I\u2019m the guy who prefers an old worn-out T-shirt rather than a new one. <\/strong>\u00c9 uma sensa\u00e7\u00e3o boa e segura. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Change freaks me out. That\u2019s why I was kept in the tracks for such a long time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Come\u00e7ar de novo era horr\u00edvel<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

When you\u2019ve been with your partner for years, s\u00f3 de pensar em come\u00e7ar de novo j\u00e1 me sinto assustado.<\/strong> Fazer as malas e procurar um novo s\u00edtio?<\/em> It\u2019s like standing on the brink of the abyss and looking down. Horrifying right?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So I\u2019d rather stay in an old known place than start a new chapter in my life. All safe here, do you feel me?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. Fui apanhado num ciclo de familiaridade<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

A rotina e a familiaridade podem prender-nos. It\u2019s all so predictable and easy.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s like watching a boring movie because you’re too lazy to get up from your comfy seat to reach the remote control. I hesitated to try something new. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. O que \u00e9 que as pessoas v\u00e3o dizer se eu a deixar?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Existe uma forte press\u00e3o social e um estigma associado ao div\u00f3rcio e \u00e0s separa\u00e7\u00f5es. Real men don\u2019t give up<\/em><\/strong>E este tipo de conversa alimenta-nos desde pequenos.<\/strong> A mis\u00e9ria duradoura \u00e9 vista como nobre<\/em>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Deix\u00e1-la? Imagina o que a fam\u00edlia, os amigos e toda a gente diria<\/em>. Fear of being judged if I leave her is paralyzing, I\u2019m telling you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. Esperava que ela mudasse<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"Homem<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Oh, a esperan\u00e7a. Uma coisa t\u00e3o poderosa!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Esperava que ela mudasse. Esperava que tudo melhorasse<\/strong>Os problemas resolver-se-iam por si pr\u00f3prios. Eu estava \u00e0 espera que o sol aparecesse num dia nublado. Claro que isso nunca aconteceu. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. Ficar numa zona de conforto era mais f\u00e1cil<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Let\u2019s not underestimate the power of habit. After years of being together at\u00e9 uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o infeliz se torna confort\u00e1vel \u00e0 sua maneira. <\/strong>You know what to expect, you\u2019ve got your routines and familiarity gives you coziness.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A ideia de abanar tudo isso parece assustadora.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

8. Investi muito na rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Era como um projeto a longo prazo. Investi muito tempo e emo\u00e7\u00f5es nessa rela\u00e7\u00e3o. N\u00e3o podia simplesmente deixar tudo para tr\u00e1s.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Talvez uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o n\u00e3o fosse perfeita, mas n\u00e3o podia simplesmente abandon\u00e1-la. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

9. Estava \u00e0 espera de um milagre <\/h2>\n\n\n\n

\u00c9 estranho admitir, mas eu era uma crian\u00e7a e acreditava realmente em algo como uma solu\u00e7\u00e3o m\u00e1gica. Magicamente, as coisas v\u00e3o-se resolver. Eu s\u00f3 precisava de esperar. <\/strong>Mesmo quando n\u00e3o havia qualquer sinal de melhoria, acreditava que se tratava apenas de um cap\u00edtulo infeliz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

10. Perdi-me na rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"homem<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Depois de seis anos numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o infeliz, comecei a perder partes de mim. Perdi a minha identidade e esqueci-me de quem costumava ser. <\/strong>My self-esteem was low. I couldn’t remember if I was ever able to make decisions without her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I know you women have the same issues. You\u2019re afraid to leave the comfort zone, to give up on long-term relationships, and are not ready to deal with uncertainty. That\u2019s why YOU TOO tend to stay in bad relationships. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

There\u2019s a huge difference between facing challenges in a relationship and neglecting yourself. You have to encontrar a for\u00e7a para reconhecer quando algo n\u00e3o tem solu\u00e7\u00e3o<\/strong> e ter a coragem de seguir em frente. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Leaving an unhappy relationship is a tough choice, I know. It\u2019s scary, it\u2019s hard and it means dealing with uncertainty. What I wanna tell you is this: a sua felicidade, o seu sentido de valor e a sua paz de esp\u00edrito s\u00e3o as coisas mais importantes.<\/strong> P\u00e1ra de te torturares! Liberta-te! <\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s all about reclaiming your life and moving forward toward a happier, brighter future! You deserve to be happy!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

You\u2019ve been wondering why the heck men stay in relationships that are more misery than joy. We\u2019ve all been there, feeling trapped, pissed off, asking ourselves why don\u2019t we just pack up and leave? Here\u2019s the deal! When we were little boys they told us to stay strong no matter what, to tough it out,…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":39,"featured_media":166463,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29642],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-166455","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-guy-talk"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29642,"label":"guy talk"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/10-Reasons-Why-Men-Get-Stuck-In-Cheerless-Relationships-Not-Because-We-Love-Misery-1024x678.jpg",1024,678,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Owen Scott","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/hase\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29642,"name":"guy talk","slug":"guy-talk","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29642,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Welcome to the land of juicy topics and lots of helpful tips on love and relationships. You can fully relax because fun and transparency are guaranteed. ","parent":29638,"count":69,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29642,"category_count":69,"category_description":"Welcome to the land of juicy topics and lots of helpful tips on love and relationships. You can fully relax because fun and transparency are guaranteed. ","cat_name":"guy talk","category_nicename":"guy-talk","category_parent":29638}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/166455","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/39"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=166455"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/166455\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":166465,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/166455\/revisions\/166465"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/166463"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=166455"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=166455"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=166455"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}