{"id":16661,"date":"2020-03-20T11:46:12","date_gmt":"2020-03-20T11:46:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16661"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:15:22","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:15:22","slug":"e-por-isso-que-ela-nao-acredita-que-a-amas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/e-por-isso-que-ela-nao-acredita-que-a-amas\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c9 por isso que ela n\u00e3o acredita que a amas"},"content":{"rendered":"

Foi-lhe prometido amor antes e ficou sem ele.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

Disseram-lhe que era amada e mesmo assim ficou sozinha. Acreditou nos outros, apenas para ver essa confian\u00e7a sair-lhe pela culatra.<\/p>\n

E ela quer acreditar em ti tamb\u00e9m, mas a dor ainda est\u00e1 l\u00e1, mantendo todas aquelas paredes altas.<\/p>\n

The pain is still there, keeping you out and keeping her safe. She wants to believe you and she doesn\u2019t, both at the same time. Because how could you love her? When no one else did, how could you?<\/p>\n

Ela j\u00e1 deixou as pessoas entrarem antes, s\u00f3 para elas lhe roubarem o cora\u00e7\u00e3o e a alma.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Levaram o que precisavam e foram-se embora, deixando-a vazia e esgotada.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Deixando-a para levantar-se<\/a>Quando ela sabia que n\u00e3o havia ningu\u00e9m para a ajudar. Quando acreditava que ela era a raz\u00e3o, a causa da sua pr\u00f3pria dor.<\/p>\n

When she was left wondering if there was something she could\u2019ve done differently. Was there a chance for them to work out if she had only tried a little bit harder?<\/p>\n

And with time, she slowly realized that no matter how hard she tries, she can\u2019t make people stay when they don\u2019t want to.<\/p>\n

Ent\u00e3o, porque \u00e9 que quereria ficar?<\/p>\n

Ela costumava acreditar no amor, sabes? Acreditava que podia amar algu\u00e9m de todo o cora\u00e7\u00e3o e que ele a amaria tamb\u00e9m.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Ela acreditava que teria algu\u00e9m ao seu lado com quem envelhecer. Algu\u00e9m que a amaria mesmo quando o seu cabelo ficasse grisalho e a sua cara enrugada pelo tempo.<\/p>\n

But it wouldn\u2019t matter because he would love her for who she was.<\/p>\n

It wouldn\u2019t matter because when he looked at her, he would see the woman he fell in love with.<\/p>\n

Uma mulher com cabelos castanhos ondulados, sardas no rosto e bochechas coradas, amando a vida e lutando contra as adversidades.<\/p>\n

She used to believe but she no longer does. She used to fight, but she gave up a long time ago. Why haven\u2019t you given up yet?<\/p>\n

Ela foi deixada sozinha demasiadas vezes<\/a>.<\/strong> <\/em><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

People who swore to love her for eternity, ghosted her. People who promised her they would be there, weren\u2019t there when she needed them.<\/p>\n

As pessoas que lhe tiraram o amor e o calor, deixaram-na a congelar.<\/p>\n

And when you promise her that you will be there, to love her, she fears you\u2019ll leave too.<\/p>\n

When you tell her that she\u2019s the one for you, she already sees you walking away, like all the others before you did.<\/p>\n

Quando a abra\u00e7as com for\u00e7a, ela j\u00e1 sente a solid\u00e3o que a vai atingir quando te fores embora.<\/p>\n

Ela quer acreditar em ti, mas a ideia de ficares \u00e9 o que a aterroriza de morte.<\/p>\n

The idea of someone making her believe all over again, only to break her, is what\u2019s worrying her.<\/p>\n

She is afraid to trust you, because after the calm comes the storm. And she knows she can\u2019t survive another one.<\/p>\n

She was convinced that she\u2019s both too much and not enough.<\/strong> <\/em><\/p>\n

She is too much to handle and not enough to hold onto. She\u2019s too much to take in and not good enough to love.<\/p>\n

Estava convencida de que cada parte dela estava errada. Como \u00e9 que se recupera de algo assim?<\/p>\n

How do you get back on your feet when they\u2019re too broken to keep you standing? How do you keep on going when there\u2019s nothing left to look forward to?<\/p>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

And even when she seems like she has it all under control, there are still days when she can\u2019t get out of bed.<\/p>\n

E h\u00e1 dias em que ela se levanta da cama, apenas para andar vazia e oca.<\/p>\n

Ela est\u00e1 em piloto autom\u00e1tico, a fazer as coisas que se esperam dela, mas n\u00e3o as vive. N\u00e3o as ama. N\u00e3o se ama a si pr\u00f3pria. Ent\u00e3o, como \u00e9 que a podes amar?<\/p>\n

Ela quer confiar em si. Ela quer que passes por todos os seus mecanismos de defesa, quer que sejas tu a juntar os milh\u00f5es de pe\u00e7as.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Ela quer que sejas a raz\u00e3o pela qual ela ouve as can\u00e7\u00f5es de amor e as compreende. Ela quer que sejas a causa das suas borboletas e a raz\u00e3o do seu sorriso.<\/p>\n

Ela quer desnudar a sua alma para si e mostrar-lhe as suas partes mais delicadas e vulner\u00e1veis. Mas ela precisa que a encontres a meio caminho.<\/p>\n

She needs to know you\u2019re in it as much as she is. Tell her that you\u2019re afraid too.<\/p>\n

Tell her that the thought of giving your heart to someone terrifies the shit out of you but that she\u2019s worth it.<\/p>\n

She\u2019s worth all of it. Make her believe that you love her and she will. Show her that there\u2019s no one else for you and she will be all you ever looked for.<\/p>\n

Once she lets you in, that\u2019s the only home you\u2019re ever going to need. And you\u2019ll be hers too.<\/p>\n

\"\u00c9<\/p>\n

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She was promised love before and was left without it. She was told she was loved and still was left all alone. She believed others, only to see that trust backfire in her face. And she wants to believe you too but the pain is still there, keeping all those walls up high. The pain…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":73387,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29639],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16661","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29639,"label":"understanding women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/This-Is-Why-She-Doesnt-Believe-You-Love-Her.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29639,"name":"understanding women","slug":"understanding-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29639,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. Here you'll learn all that and much more.","parent":29638,"count":336,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29639,"category_count":336,"category_description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. Here you'll learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"understanding women","category_nicename":"understanding-women","category_parent":29638}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16661","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/56"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16661"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16661\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/73387"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16661"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16661"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16661"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}