{"id":16664,"date":"2020-05-20T11:50:16","date_gmt":"2020-05-20T11:50:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16664"},"modified":"2021-08-31T07:06:33","modified_gmt":"2021-08-31T07:06:33","slug":"e-preciso-um-homem-de-verdade-para-amar-uma-mulher-quebrada","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/e-preciso-um-homem-de-verdade-para-amar-uma-mulher-quebrada\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c9 preciso um homem de verdade para amar uma mulher quebrada"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b>To her, love seems like a game of power and she\u2019s the one who hands it over.<\/b> Porque para ela o amor \u00e9 algo pelo qual vale a pena viver e lutar.<\/p>\n<p>Love is something she\u2019s ready to lose herself in without even skipping a beat. It terrifies her to death but she\u2019d do it any day and anytime.<\/p>\n<p>You can see the fear in her eyes and hear the tremble in her voice but the strength of her love and the heat of her passion is what knocks you off of your feet. You can see that she\u2019s scared to the bone and she goes for it anyway.<\/p>\n<p><i>Love her for the fact that she\u2019s standing while she\u2019s falling apart inside. For the fact that she gets up every morning, facing the sunshine, while fighting with the darkness in her. <\/i><i>E por ser o porto onde se pode procurar seguran\u00e7a.<\/i><\/p>\n<p><b>Para ela, <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/chose-sweetest-words-get-heart-poisonous-actions-break\/\"><b>palavras doces<\/b><\/a><b> s\u00e3o apenas uma arma para atrair algu\u00e9m, apenas para o quebrar.<\/b> Para ela, o amor tem tanto de doce como de assustador.<\/p>\n<p>And every time someone promises her love, she nods in agreement but deep down the doubt is tearing her apart, warning her of another break that\u2019s to come.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-88171\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/thoughtful-woman-in-bathtub.jpg\" alt=\"mulher pensativa na banheira\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/thoughtful-woman-in-bathtub.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/thoughtful-woman-in-bathtub-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/thoughtful-woman-in-bathtub-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Hugs are just there to ease the pain and to make it harder for her once you\u2019re gone. Because you ought to leave. Everyone else did, why wouldn\u2019t you?<\/p>\n<p><i>Love her for facing her fears every single day while she\u2019s loving you. Love her for tumbling her walls down to show you that she trusts you. <\/i><\/p>\n<p><i>Love her for the fact that she\u2019s the fiercest and gentlest heart there is. Not the broken one but the beautiful one. Because she is so much more than just broken.<\/i><\/p>\n<p><b>Para ela, a ideia de n\u00e3o te amar \u00e9 muito mais dolorosa do que a ideia de te ires embora.<\/b> Porque ela conhece a dor de <a href=\"https:\/\/www.purposefairy.com\/82772\/5-things-learn-not-being-loved-way-needed\/\" rel=\"noopener\">n\u00e3o ser amado<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Ela sabe como d\u00f3i quando damos tudo e recebemos t\u00e3o pouco em troca. Ela sabe como d\u00f3i ser negligenciado e como d\u00f3i ser enganado.<\/p>\n<p>Por isso, ela nunca, mas nunca, brincar\u00e1 com a tua confian\u00e7a. Ela nunca te deixar\u00e1 no escuro se puder ser a luz. Ela nunca te deixar\u00e1 no frio se puder ser a chama.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-88172\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/couple-standing-by-the-lake.jpg\" alt=\"casal junto ao lago\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/couple-standing-by-the-lake.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/couple-standing-by-the-lake-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/couple-standing-by-the-lake-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><i>Love her for bringing color to your black and white life and warmth to the freezing caves of your mind. For putting a smile on your face and having a laugh so contagious that you\u2019re left wondering if sadness even exists next to her.<\/i><\/p>\n<p><b>Para ela, a fragilidade \u00e9 algo que esconde com um sorriso.<\/b> It\u2019s not because she\u2019s embarrassed, it\u2019s because she\u2019s afraid it\u2019ll seem too much to you.<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019s afraid that you will see the woman she once was. The woman who let others take away her worth and her smile.<\/p>\n<p>A mulher que confiava em toda a gente manteria o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o seguro, tal como ela mantinha o deles.<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019s afraid that you will run away because you can\u2019t fix her. But the thing is, there is no point in fixing something that doesn\u2019t need to be fixed.<\/p>\n<p><i>Love her for the amazing mosaic of all the battles and victories she\u2019s had. Love her for all of the pain she endured with that smile that would put the sun to shame. <\/i><\/p>\n<p><i>Adoro-a pelo facto de a roupa lhe ficar bem.<\/i><\/p>\n<p><b>Para ela, cada dia \u00e9 o \u00faltimo, por isso n\u00e3o guarda nada.<\/b> Porque esperar pelas pessoas que nunca vieram foi o que a matou no final.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-88173\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-looking-outside-the-doors.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste sentada no ch\u00e3o a olhar para fora das portas\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-looking-outside-the-doors.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-looking-outside-the-doors-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-looking-outside-the-doors-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Esperar em v\u00e3o foi o que a destruiu. E dar o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o foi o que a quebrou.<\/p>\n<p>Mas, como v\u00ea, ela vive um dia de cada vez. Ela entrega-se completamente a cada segundo do dia.<\/p>\n<p>When pain pins her down, she whispers, \u201c<i>Temos isto<\/i>.\u201d When fear tries to hold her back, she whispers, \u201c<i>Mais uma vez.<\/i>\u201d<\/p>\n<p>E quando as mem\u00f3rias a perseguem, ela grita, <i>\u201cNot today.<\/i>\u201d Being broken is part of her and if you leave her for it, you\u2019re not the real man she deserves.<\/p>\n<p><i>Ama-a por ela. Respira com ela, chora com ela. Espera pelo nascer do sol ao lado dela e aprecia cada segundo que passas com ela. <\/i><\/p>\n<p><i>Admire her and watch her in awe. And if you\u2019re not ready to do it, let her go. <\/i><\/p>\n<p><i>To her, being set free is better than being locked in a gilded cage with no love. If you\u2019re <\/i><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/youre-not-ready-love-let-go\/\"><i>n\u00e3o est\u00e1 pronto para a amar toda, deixa-a ir<\/i><\/a><i>.<\/i><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-88167\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/It-Takes-A-Real-Man-To-Love-A-Broken-Woman-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"\u00c9 preciso um homem de verdade para amar uma mulher quebrada\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/It-Takes-A-Real-Man-To-Love-A-Broken-Woman-Pinterest.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/It-Takes-A-Real-Man-To-Love-A-Broken-Woman-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/It-Takes-A-Real-Man-To-Love-A-Broken-Woman-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>To her, love seems like a game of power and she\u2019s the one who hands it over. Because love to her is something worth living and fighting for. Love is something she\u2019s ready to lose herself in without even skipping a beat. It terrifies her to death but she\u2019d do it any day and anytime&#8230;.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":88168,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29639],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16664","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29639,"label":"understanding women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/It-Takes-A-Real-Man-To-Love-A-Broken-Woman.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29639,"name":"understanding women","slug":"understanding-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29639,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. 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