{"id":16669,"date":"2019-12-02T12:36:54","date_gmt":"2019-12-02T12:36:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16669"},"modified":"2022-02-26T22:49:41","modified_gmt":"2022-02-26T22:49:41","slug":"para-a-rapariga-que-se-sente-cansada-por-favor-aguente-so-mais-um-bocadinho","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/para-a-rapariga-que-se-sente-cansada-por-favor-aguente-so-mais-um-bocadinho\/","title":{"rendered":"Para a rapariga que se sente cansada, por favor aguenta s\u00f3 mais um pouco"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Ol\u00e1, estranho,<\/p>\n<p>I know you think we\u2019re nothing more than this, two strangers who have nothing in common whatsoever, but I\u2019m afraid you couldn\u2019t be more wrong.<\/p>\n<p>Sei mais sobre a tua vida e a forma como te sentes do que podes imaginar.<\/p>\n<p>I know your alarm wakes you up every morning and you snooze it and roll onto the other side of your bed because you\u2019re not ready to get up just yet.<\/p>\n<p>I know that your bed feels so much better than going out in the world. I know how tired you\u2019re feeling even before you get up out of your bed.<\/p>\n<p><strong>I know because I\u2019ve been there.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I know you\u2019d love to have fun but it takes so much energy from you. I know you\u2019d love to make other people laugh and I know you\u2019d love to laugh from the bottom of your soul until your stomach aches but you haven\u2019t done this in a while.<\/p>\n<p>You haven&#8217;t done it because you forgot how.<\/p>\n<p><strong>I know because I\u2019ve been there.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I know you don\u2019t see the point in living anymore because you can\u2019t find one thing you love about your life. Everything seems so disposable and so irrelevant.<\/p>\n<p>Tudo parece t\u00e3o longe do teu alcance. Tudo o que desejas parece t\u00e3o distante e como se nunca estivesse destinado a ser teu.<\/p>\n<p><strong>I know because I\u2019ve been there.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Eu sei que queres fazer uma pausa no mundo e torn\u00e1-lo silencioso por algum tempo. E eu sei que queres que tudo fique quieto por um segundo para que possas recuperar o f\u00f4lego.<\/p>\n<p>I know you want to pause the world to take some rest and to be able to catch up with it. I know you\u2019re feeling stuck and you have no idea how to move forward.<\/p>\n<p><strong>I know because I\u2019ve been there.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I know your head is a mess. I know that you feel like you\u2019re<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/dentro-da-mente-a-rapariga-pensa-que-nao-e-suficientemente-boa\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> n\u00e3o \u00e9 suficiente<\/a>. I know you\u2019re tired of trying but not getting any credit for it.<\/p>\n<p>I know you\u2019re tired of getting put down, tired of mean people, tired of backstabbers too. I know you\u2019re tired of crying and tired of your own insecurities and tired of being tired as well.<\/p>\n<p><strong>I know you\u2019re tired and I know how tired looks because I\u2019ve been there too.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>But do you know what the best thing is about feeling the way you feel? Your life is a paradox and you\u2019re not even aware of it.<\/p>\n<p>See, you wake up every morning having no idea how you\u2019re going to make it and yet you manage to make through the day over and over again.<\/p>\n<p>I know you don\u2019t see it now but I swear you\u2019re way stronger than you give yourself credit for. Your bravery deserves a medal.<\/p>\n<p>You probably don\u2019t think you did anything extraordinary but that\u2019s where you\u2019re wrong the most.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You get up every morning and you try. You try even when you\u2019re tired. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>And despite the fact that you\u2019re emotionally and physically drained, you still haven\u2019t given up.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re a true fighter, you know? You\u2019re not a fighter in the normal sense of the word, you\u2019re even a bigger fighter than that.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re a fighter because you fight yourself every day. You\u2019re a true fighter because the worst battles are those we fight within ourselves.<\/p>\n<p>E tu lutaste e ganhaste muitas delas.<\/p>\n<p>You might feel like you\u2019re on the edge now but you don\u2019t have to fall. You don\u2019t have to let your life slip through your fingers.<\/p>\n<p>Ainda tens uma escolha. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/felicidade-nao-sentir-escolha\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Happiness is not a feeling, it\u2019s a choice<\/a> e podes escolher sentir-te feliz.<\/p>\n<p>Life played a little game with you. It did the same thing to me as well. It said: You\u2019re gonna be happy but I have to make you strong first.<\/p>\n<p>And I know you\u2019ve <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/para-a-rapariga-que-passou-pelo-inferno\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">passou por um inferno<\/a>. But you know what the silver lining is here? You\u2019ve been knocked down to the very bottom.<\/p>\n<p>E a \u00fanica maneira de ir de baixo para cima \u00e9 para cima. Agora \u00e9 a tua vez.<\/p>\n<p><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/tempo-admitir-merece-melhor\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">It\u2019s time to admit to yourself<\/a> that you deserve more. It\u2019s time to admit to yourself that you\u2019re good enough. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>It\u2019s time to embrace life and to actually get up in the morning promising that you\u2019ll try to love everything that day has to offer you. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>It\u2019s time to stop feeling like it\u2019s all your fault and to stop convincing yourself how you\u2019re not good enough.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re the master of your own fate. You\u2019re the one in charge. You\u2019re the captain of your life.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re the sky and everything else is the weather. You\u2019re the only constant in your life and everything else is pretty much changeable.<\/p>\n<p>Whatever you\u2019re feeling now will fade away. And one day you\u2019ll look back on your life and laugh about how you allowed yourself to be affected by so many irrelevant things.<\/p>\n<p>One day you\u2019ll be in such a good place that you won\u2019t understand this you that you are now.<\/p>\n<p>Aguentem s\u00f3 mais um bocadinho, por favor, porque eu prometo-vos que h\u00e1 dias melhores \u00e0 vossa frente. Provavelmente, perguntam-se como \u00e9 que eu sei?<\/p>\n<p>Well, I know because I\u2019ve been in your shoes. And I know there is more to life than you\u2019ve got right now.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Leve todo o tempo que precisar para encher as suas baterias.<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/praticar-a-pausa\/\"> Pausa na vida<\/a> durante o tempo que quiser.<\/p>\n<p>Mas, por favor, nunca percam a esperan\u00e7a. H\u00e1 algo maior a caminho.<\/p>\n<p>Life is just testing you to see if you&#8217;re truly ready for it. Show everyone what you&#8217;re made of.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-55106 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/TO-THE-GIRL-WHO-FEELS-TIRED-PLEASE-HOLD-ON-JUST-A-LITTLE-LONGER.jpg\" alt=\"PARA A RAPARIGA QUE SE SENTE CANSADA, POR FAVOR AGUENTA S\u00d3 MAIS UM BOCADINHO\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/TO-THE-GIRL-WHO-FEELS-TIRED-PLEASE-HOLD-ON-JUST-A-LITTLE-LONGER.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/TO-THE-GIRL-WHO-FEELS-TIRED-PLEASE-HOLD-ON-JUST-A-LITTLE-LONGER-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/TO-THE-GIRL-WHO-FEELS-TIRED-PLEASE-HOLD-ON-JUST-A-LITTLE-LONGER-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/TO-THE-GIRL-WHO-FEELS-TIRED-PLEASE-HOLD-ON-JUST-A-LITTLE-LONGER-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hey Stranger, I know you think we\u2019re nothing more than this, two strangers who have nothing in common whatsoever, but I\u2019m afraid you couldn\u2019t be more wrong. I know more about your life and the way you feel than you could imagine. I know your alarm wakes you up every morning and you snooze it&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":31186,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16669","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/annie-spratt-493162-unsplash-1024x715.jpg",1024,715,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16669","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16669"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16669\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/31186"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16669"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16669"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16669"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}