{"id":167060,"date":"2024-07-03T11:24:19","date_gmt":"2024-07-03T11:24:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=167060"},"modified":"2024-09-14T15:59:00","modified_gmt":"2024-09-14T15:59:00","slug":"erros-que-os-homens-cometem-nos-encontros","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/erros-que-os-homens-cometem-nos-encontros\/","title":{"rendered":"10 piores erros que os homens cometem nos encontros e que as mulheres detestam"},"content":{"rendered":"

Conhe\u00e7o tantas hist\u00f3rias de encontros que correram mal que podia escrever um livro sobre elas! Sometimes it\u2019s funny, other times it’s just disappointing and creepy.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

From guys who turned out to be complete narcissists to the ones who are rude and don\u2019t know how to act like gentlemen, I\u2019ve heard it all.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You simply can\u2019t go through life without ending up on at least one bad date. I\u2019ve definitely been on a few dates I wish never happened.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Depois de ouvir as queixas dos meus amigos e das minhas pr\u00f3prias experi\u00eancias, apercebi-me de que h\u00e1 algumas erros comuns que os homens cometem nos encontros e que s\u00e3o um completo desest\u00edmulo para as mulheres. <\/strong>There\u2019s legit nothing worse than when they:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Aparecer tarde<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Ugh, isto \u00e9 t\u00e3o desagrad\u00e1vel! Chegar atrasado a qualquer lugar, exceto se tiver uma boa desculpa, \u00e9 simplesmente desrespeitoso! Chegar atrasado cria uma m\u00e1 energia desde o in\u00edcio do encontro.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Lembro-me de uma vez em que esperei por um homem durante quase uma hora! Depois de a minha refei\u00e7\u00e3o arrefecer, o meu interesse por ele tamb\u00e9m arrefeceu. Por isso, por favor, prepare-se a horas e tenha sempre em conta outras coisas que podem afetar a hora a que chega a um encontro, como o tr\u00e2nsito!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you\u2019re already late and can\u2019t do anything about it, at least send a quick message and make sure you apologize and make up for it. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Falam apenas de si pr\u00f3prios<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Whenever I went out with a guy who couldn’t stop talking about himself, I always felt like he was not interested in me but only wanted to tell someone his whole life story.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Of course, we want to get to know you but conversation requires at least two people, so don\u2019t be the only one talking! I know you want to present yourself in the best light but talking only about yourself is doing the exact opposite! <\/p>\n\n\n\n

E muito francamente, we\u2019re not interested in every minor detail about your life. <\/strong>Instead, we want to see if we\u2019re compatible and decide if we\u2019re gonna see each other ever again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Gabar-se demasiado<\/h2>\n\n\n
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O mesmo que falar demasiado sobre si pr\u00f3prio, \u00e9 chato! Gostamos de homens confiantes, mas n\u00e3o daqueles que se enchem de si pr\u00f3prios. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

I once went on a date with a guy who couldn\u2019t stop bragging about how much money he makes, where he travels, and famous people he works with. It was so annoying! It\u2019s nice to know you\u2019re successful but people who are obsessed with materialistic things aren\u2019t attractive at all.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Concentre-se em criar uma liga\u00e7\u00e3o e em coisas que revelem a sua personalidade e os seus valores<\/strong>e n\u00e3o n\u00fameros na sua conta banc\u00e1ria!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. Don\u2019t listen<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Ser capaz de ouvir ativamente os outros \u00e9 uma compet\u00eancia t\u00e3o importante e valiosa! Ouvir atentamente e participar numa conversa<\/strong> to show women you\u2019re interested in them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Don\u2019t only wait for them to finish so you can say something. Try to understand what they\u2019re saying, ask follow-up questions, and validate their opinions and feelings.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

My friend told me she was out with a guy who didn\u2019t pay attention to anything she was saying. She felt like she wasn\u2019t important to him and couldn\u2019t understand why he asked her out since he seemed uninterested. If she talked to the wall it would feel the same!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. Concentram-se nos seus telem\u00f3veis<\/h2>\n\n\n
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I think it\u2019s pretty clear we all became obsessed with our phones. Seriously, it\u2019s something we should work on. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

You live in the real world and get a chance to have fun with someone and build a connection but you choose the virtual world instead? If you check your phone too much on dates, women think whatever you\u2019re looking at is probably more important than them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ser respeitoso e mostre-lhes que quer mesmo estar com eles num encontro. <\/strong>No one wants to be with someone who can\u2019t leave their phone alone for a couple of hours.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. Falar sobre o seu ex<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

I went out to grab a drink with one guy once and that was the last time I saw him. He talked so much about his ex, how they\u2019re still hanging out, and he told me she\u2019s smart, beautiful\u2026 This whole time I wondered why he wasn\u2019t with her if he liked her that much. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Guys, if you\u2019re still not over your ex, please give yourself some time before engaging with other people. Focus on the person you\u2019re with, not someone you left in the past.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

But even if you\u2019re not on good terms with your ex, don\u2019t talk trash about them! Just avoid mentioning them in any sense. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. N\u00e3o t\u00eam maneiras<\/h2>\n\n\n
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I sometimes feel that gentlemen have gone extinct! It\u2019s so easy to be a decent human being and still, some people manage to fail in that!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nothing speaks more about you and your character than the way you behave. Don\u2019t act like a Neanderthal, for God\u2019s sake! Abrir-lhe uma porta, puxar-lhe a cadeira e ser educado<\/strong> para as pessoas \u00e0 vossa volta!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tudo isto s\u00e3o pequenas coisas que fazem uma grande diferen\u00e7a no que pensamos sobre si e podem decidir se queremos voltar a v\u00ea-lo ou fantasi\u00e1-lo nas redes sociais.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

8. Agir de forma insistente com o toque f\u00edsico<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

This one might be the biggest turn-off. Some men seriously need to learn what consent means. It\u2019s so important to know how to read someone\u2019s body language so you can see if they\u2019re comfortable around you or not. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Por favor respect women\u2019s boundaries and don\u2019t be too touchy<\/strong> a n\u00e3o ser que saiba 100% que o seu par quer isso. Se notar que a pessoa parece desconfort\u00e1vel, nem que seja por um segundo, d\u00ea um passo atr\u00e1s e pe\u00e7a desculpa. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

There\u2019s no need to rush. If you have real chemistry with someone, things will kind of happen on their own without you having to push anything. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

9. Don\u2019t care about their appearance<\/h2>\n\n\n
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As mulheres fazem tanta coisa antes de sair para um encontro. Esfoliamos e depilamos o corpo todo, passamos horas a maquilhar-nos e a escolher o que vestir, certificamo-nos de que o nosso cabelo est\u00e1 perfeito e muito mais. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Por isso, podem imaginar a nossa desilus\u00e3o quando sa\u00edmos com algu\u00e9m que mal tomou banho.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quando o meu amigo me perguntou o que eu achava da roupa dele para um encontro, fiquei chocada! Ele queria sair com uma camisa b\u00e1sica amarrotada, com o cabelo todo desarrumado e a barba por fazer. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00eam de fazer melhor, amigos. Vista-se adequadamente, ponha uma col\u00f3nia agrad\u00e1vel e visite o seu barbeiro antes do encontro! <\/strong>That\u2019s the least you can do compared to what women go through.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

10. Deixar que as mulheres assumam o controlo<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Este \u00e9 provavelmente o erro mais comum que vejo os homens cometerem. Acham que s\u00f3 porque h\u00e1 mais mulheres feministas hoje em dia, queremos assumir a lideran\u00e7a? Oh n\u00e3o, percebeste tudo mal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Queremos direitos iguais, mas ser um cavalheiro continua a ser o vosso trabalho. Por isso, n\u00e3o se esque\u00e7a de planear a data, fazer reservas e organizar tudo. Show us you\u2019re capable and take initiative.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Women appreciate that more than you think. If you\u2019re not sure what\u2019s her vibe, suggest a couple of different options you have in mind and let her choose. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Remember that a first impression is the most important. Show her you\u2019re interested and enjoy her company. Esforce-se sempre por tornar o encontro inesquec\u00edvel e memor\u00e1vel<\/strong>de uma forma positiva, claro. <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I know so many stories about dates gone wrong that I could write a book about them! Sometimes it\u2019s funny, other times it’s just disappointing and creepy. From guys who turned out to be complete narcissists to the ones who are rude and don\u2019t know how to act like gentlemen, I\u2019ve heard it all. You…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":167063,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29639],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-167060","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29639,"label":"understanding women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/10-Worst-Mistakes-Guys-Make-On-Dates-That-Women-Hate-1024x678.jpg",1024,678,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29639,"name":"understanding women","slug":"understanding-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29639,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. Here you'll learn all that and much more.","parent":29638,"count":336,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29639,"category_count":336,"category_description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. Here you'll learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"understanding women","category_nicename":"understanding-women","category_parent":29638}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/167060","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/56"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=167060"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/167060\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":167071,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/167060\/revisions\/167071"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/167063"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=167060"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=167060"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=167060"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}