{"id":167084,"date":"2024-07-03T11:55:09","date_gmt":"2024-07-03T11:55:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=167084"},"modified":"2024-09-14T15:58:52","modified_gmt":"2024-09-14T15:58:52","slug":"a-verdade-sobre-namorar-como-um-homem-bonito","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-verdade-sobre-namorar-como-um-homem-bonito\/","title":{"rendered":"Achas que namorar \u00e9 f\u00e1cil quando \u00e9s um tipo bonito? N\u00e3o fazes ideia.\u00a0"},"content":{"rendered":"

Como uma pessoa muito visual, Costumava ter um fraquinho por gajos bonitos,<\/strong> but it changed over time. Not that I\u2019ll miss noticing a handsome man on the street, but now I choose a good personality rather than good looks. If Senhor<\/em> Grande Personalidade <\/em>happens to be handsome too \u2013 it’s a jackpot!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Demorei muito tempo a come\u00e7ar a valorizar as verdadeiras qualidades dos homens<\/strong> e \u00e0 procura de pessoas que sejam boas, medianas em termos de apar\u00eancia, mas com o seu pr\u00f3prio encanto \u00fanico.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sei que os encontros podem ser complicados e que \u00e9 preciso beijar muitos sapos pelo caminho. Eu sei que tamb\u00e9m pode ser frustrante e que se est\u00e1 sempre a perguntar, \u201cWhy does it take me such a long time to find the right person?\u201d<\/em><\/strong>. Bem, talvez continue a fazer m\u00e1s escolhas. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Talvez tenha expectativas irrealistas, <\/strong>and that\u2019s why it\u2019s hard to get what you want.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But have you ever thought of\u2026 <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Como \u00e9 que \u00e9 para as pessoas atraentes?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

\u00c9 frequente pensarmos que ser a boa apar\u00eancia garante uma vida amorosa f\u00e1cil <\/strong>cheio de possibilidades infinitas e liga\u00e7\u00f5es sem esfor\u00e7o. Homens e mulheres bem-parecidos podem ter quem quiserem e encontrar o amor para eles \u00e9 mais f\u00e1cil do que para o resto de n\u00f3s. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mas a realidade \u00e9 muito mais diferente.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Homens e mulheres deslumbrantes enfrentam os seus pr\u00f3prios desafios de namoro<\/strong> o que pode tornar surpreendentemente dif\u00edcil encontrar rela\u00e7\u00f5es genu\u00ednas e duradouras. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

They often struggle with being perceived only as a nice face \u2013 a sua apar\u00eancia ofusca a sua personalidade. <\/strong>Sometimes, it\u2019s hard for them to be taken seriously or for others to recognize their deeper qualities and interests. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quando se fala de homens bonitos, vem-se sempre \u00e0 cabe\u00e7a os bons e velhos estere\u00f3tipos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s often believed good looks in men come with certain traits such as carisma, confian\u00e7a e at\u00e9 uma personalidade de playboy.<\/strong> Tudo isto coloca-os sob press\u00e3o e cria grandes expectativas para que cumpram estes ideais. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cHere\u2019s the truth about dating as a handsome guy\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

A TikToker, Austin Dunham, shared some insights on dating as a handsome guy\u2026 <\/p>\n\n\n\n

I couldn\u2019t resist being sarcastic and thought Pobres homens bonitos! A vida \u00e9 t\u00e3o dura, mesmo para eles! <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

But let\u2019s get real and see what he has to say:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cMost guys think whenever you increase your looks your attraction is, women are just gonna fly to you and in some cases that can be true, but it\u2019s mostly gonna be a particular type of woman, not the ones you\u2019re thinking about. <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I actually have a theory that if you\u2019re a man you\u2019re gonna attract women in mostly one or two points below your current looks threshold or at least your perceived looks threshold.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Por isso, ele afirma que n\u00e3o importa o qu\u00e3o deslumbrante possa ser, you\u2019ll always attract partners who are not as good-looking as you. <\/strong>Man, that doesn\u2019t feel fair!<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Then he explains if a man is like eight out of ten, or seven out of ten, he\u2019ll have more \u201cfives\u201d or \u201csixes\u201d looking for his attention. Pretty women will not even consider him, because\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cWomen who are the eights, nines, and tens they\u2019re feining after the all stars, the athletes, the celebrities, the musicians. And when you become a handsome man, you\u2019re gonna wanna date on your same level. <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, those women are gonna be increasingly more difficult to actually communicate with, to get in touch with, because the absorbent amount of options that they have.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Salienta ainda que os homens bonitos sem dinheiro, estatuto social e redes suficientes t\u00eam pouco a oferecer<\/strong> and they\u2019ll be unable to keep the women they attract. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Portanto, para al\u00e9m do aspeto, a<\/strong> o homem tem de ter tudo. <\/strong>Mesmo para manter as mulheres que s\u00e3o um ou dois n\u00edveis abaixo dele.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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 \u201cSure, they think you\u2019re a nice face so have a good time with you, but if you wanna get to the point where you actually wanna keep these women in your life, it\u2019s gonna be that much more harder. <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

So that\u2019s why as a man, you have to be well rounded, not just attractive but in every aspect of your life.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Quase tive pena de all those handsome men who can\u2019t get what they want<\/strong> e t\u00eam de trabalhar arduamente para serem bem sucedidos, apesar da sua atratividade.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Depois fui ver a sec\u00e7\u00e3o de coment\u00e1rios:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI consider myself a six and I get a bunch of fours and fives\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Um utilizador comentou que todos os sete anteriores s\u00e3o sobrevalorizados, <\/strong>so he prefers lower numbers as they\u2019re easier to handle. Another one said it\u2019s all about money:<\/p>\n\n\n

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\"coment\u00e1rios\"
Cr\u00e9dito: @basedaustindunham<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Depois, algu\u00e9m telefonou Testorenesandwich,<\/em> descreveu-se como um \u201chandsome dude\u201d <\/em>who doesn\u2019t need money, and as mulheres s\u00e3o felizes ao p\u00e9 dele. <\/strong>Uma mulher disse que os homens bonitos s\u00e3o para brincar, mas n\u00e3o para se comprometer.<\/p>\n\n\n

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\"coment\u00e1rios
Cr\u00e9dito: @basedaustindunham<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Esta sobre os gingers fez-me desatar a rir:<\/p>\n\n\n

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\"coment\u00e1rios
Cr\u00e9dito: @basedaustindunham<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Assim, parece que namorar n\u00e3o \u00e9 uma sopa de pato, mesmo para homens atraentes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Embora ser bonito tenha certamente as suas vantagens, tamb\u00e9m tem grandes expectativas, se quiserem manter o seu parceiro. It\u2019s nice they\u2019re handsome, but they must be smart and successful too, <\/strong>t\u00eam poder, contactos e dinheiro! <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Espera-se que os homens bonitos tenham tudo. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Veja o v\u00eddeo aqui:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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@basedaustindunham<\/a>

A realidade dos encontros com homens bonitos<\/p> \u266c original sound – Austin Dunham<\/a> <\/section> <\/blockquote>