{"id":167556,"date":"2024-07-08T13:34:51","date_gmt":"2024-07-08T13:34:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=167556"},"modified":"2024-07-08T13:34:51","modified_gmt":"2024-07-08T13:34:51","slug":"coach-de-relacionamentos-sobre-traicao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/coach-de-relacionamentos-sobre-traicao\/","title":{"rendered":"Um treinador de rela\u00e7\u00f5es choca toda a gente ao dizer porque \u00e9 que as mulheres ficam com homens traidores\u00a0"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Embora a infidelidade seja um fator de rutura para muitos, algumas pessoas optam por ficar com o seu parceiro por muitas raz\u00f5es diferentes.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Se nunca o experimentaste,<strong> talvez seja dif\u00edcil para si compreender por que raz\u00e3o algu\u00e9m ficaria com um parceiro que o trai.<\/strong> However, it\u2019s more complicated than it seems.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Some people say it\u2019s because the person has low self-esteem and they think they can\u2019t do much better. But then, why the hell would Beyonce stay with Jay Z? That woman is the epitome of confidence!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Um <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@independentwisdom\/video\/7235204384781503745?q=cheating&amp;t=1719385776481v\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">TikTok<\/a> fez-me pensar sobre todo este assunto, mas tamb\u00e9m me despoletou, para ser sincero. No v\u00eddeo, um treinador de rela\u00e7\u00f5es disse algo que causou um enorme debate!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">\u201cWomen that accept cheating men are cheating women\u201d<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Sadia Khan (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@sadiapsychology\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">@sadiapsicologia<\/a>) has a totally different view on cheating that\u2019s quite controversial. She was in a podcast where she talked about women who stay in a relationship even if they get cheated on.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Segundo ela,<strong> n\u00e3o s\u00e3o melhores do que os seus parceiros, pois diz que eles tamb\u00e9m s\u00e3o infi\u00e9is. <\/strong>Explicou este facto dizendo:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>\u201cWomen that accept cheating men are cheating women. And women who don\u2019t accept cheating men are the loyal ones.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/famous-woman-1024x1024.jpg\" alt=\"mulher famosa\" class=\"wp-image-167557\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/famous-woman-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/famous-woman-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/famous-woman-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/famous-woman-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/famous-woman-12x12.jpg 12w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/famous-woman-728x728.jpg 728w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/famous-woman-960x960.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/famous-woman-1080x1080.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/famous-woman.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Fonte: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@independentwisdom\/video\/7235204384781503745?q=cheating&amp;t=1719385776481v\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">TikTok<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>Acrescentou ainda que nenhuma mulher leal aceitaria esse comportamento:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>\u201cOnly unfaithful women are okay with that deal. I promise you. I work with them every single day.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>Well, this will ruffle some feathers for sure! I don\u2019t think it\u2019s really fair to generalize women since I know a lot of them who got cheated on but were always loyal. I\u2019m sure <strong>h\u00e1 mulheres que talvez n\u00e3o se importem com isso, mas definitivamente n\u00e3o s\u00e3o todas!<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sadia explained her point by saying why loyal women would never stay and tolerate infidelity. However, women in the comments weren\u2019t happy with her explanation and said she was completely wrong.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">A verdade sobre as mulheres que optam por ficar<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>According to the relationship coach, loyal women can\u2019t tolerate and handle cheating because they could never betray their partner like that.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1200\" height=\"1200\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/famous-woman-talking-to-a-mic.jpg\" alt=\"mulher famosa a falar para um microfone\" class=\"wp-image-167558\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/famous-woman-talking-to-a-mic.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/famous-woman-talking-to-a-mic-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/famous-woman-talking-to-a-mic-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/famous-woman-talking-to-a-mic-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/famous-woman-talking-to-a-mic-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/famous-woman-talking-to-a-mic-12x12.jpg 12w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/famous-woman-talking-to-a-mic-728x728.jpg 728w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/famous-woman-talking-to-a-mic-960x960.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/famous-woman-talking-to-a-mic-1080x1080.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1200px) 100vw, 1200px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Fonte: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@independentwisdom\/video\/7235204384781503745?q=cheating&amp;t=1719385776481v\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">TikTok<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>Como disse a Sadia:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>\u201cWhat happens is that the woman that\u2019s actually loyal and really loves you, she can\u2019t handle the anxiety of it, she can\u2019t do it \u2018cause she\u2019s too loyal, she\u2019s too loving. She disappears, she makes her life hell, she\u2019s horrible but she tends to be loyal.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>Por outro lado, <strong>as mulheres infi\u00e9is n\u00e3o se importam se o seu parceiro as est\u00e1 a trair <\/strong>because they\u2019re usually in the relationship for other benefits:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>\u201cA woman who\u2019s there for a paycheck and who is there sneaky accepting this and the other, I promise you, she\u2019s plotting her revenge.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>I think it\u2019s much more complex than that. My friend stayed with her boyfriend because she believed he made a mistake and regretted it. She realized later on she should\u2019ve never forgiven him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>E depois, como um utilizador comentou, <strong>h\u00e1 mulheres que ficam por causa dos filhos<\/strong> and because they don\u2019t want their families to fall apart.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>One user even said she stayed because she had nowhere to go since she couldn\u2019t financially support herself. And this is a pretty common situation. Another user commented:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>\u201cI disagree. Sometimes u stay in the hope the other person will change or because u can\u2019t see yourself start over again. Ppl think they know it all this days.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>Only a few people agreed with Sadia and one even admitted she\u2019s one of the women that tolerates cheating because of other things that relationship provides for her. She wrote:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>\u201cI&#8217;ve been cheated on. I stayed not because of love but because of all the other benefits. And yes, I&#8217;m plotting my revenge.\u201d&nbsp;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>As I said, Sadia was definitely right about some women but her point can\u2019t be applied to every toxic relationship since <strong>Cada pessoa tem uma situa\u00e7\u00e3o e uma vis\u00e3o diferente da infidelidade.&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ultimately, deciding whether to stay or dump them is never easy. Whatever someone decides, we can\u2019t judge them since we don\u2019t know their full story.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>However, tolerating disrespect and betrayal shouldn\u2019t be normalized. This is why conversations about boundaries and self-respect will always be important. If you\u2019re currently with a cheating partner, just know <strong>there\u2019s always a way out and you deserve someone who\u2019ll truly love you!<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>While infidelity is a deal breaker for many, some people choose to stay with their partner for many different reasons.&nbsp; If you never experienced it, it might be hard for you to understand why would anyone stay with a cheating partner. However, it\u2019s more complicated than it seems. Some people say it\u2019s because the person&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":167559,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-167556","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/A-Relationship-Coach-Shocks-Everyone-By-Saying-Why-Women-Stay-With-Cheating-Men-1024x576.jpg",1024,576,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/167556","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=167556"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/167556\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":167560,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/167556\/revisions\/167560"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/167559"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=167556"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=167556"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=167556"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}